First determine the main table (back to the stage on the left hand side of the main table), the main table must be the new couple seated table. The bride and groom are seated with their backs to the stage facing the guests. The newcomer's left and right first for both parents (this is the day will be pro, but also the newcomer's most respected people), followed clockwise seated matchmaker 2 people, the full blessing of the people 2 people, witnesses or best man bridesmaids. The best man and maid of honor too much can arrange one or two at the main table to take care of the new couple. The rest will be arranged at other tables. Today is the new couple's lifetime gift, no matter how high the status of the guests, today is to congratulate the new couple, so the new couple must sit at the main table. The new couple and parents arranged at a table also has the meaning of family reunion.
The second is the guest of honor table (this table is generally parallel to the main table). Generally arranged for the woman in addition to the woman's parents to meet the relatives of the elders seated. In the past, the main family will be asked to arrange for the male relatives and friends as a companion, because now there are too many people will be relatives, usually will be relatives of their own people to sit at a table. The main family will just come over to make a toast in the middle of the banquet.
Some will be relatives to two or three tables, will be relatives of the elders arranged after the guest of honor table, from the fourth table can be arranged in turn will be relatives. The rest of the table first arranged for the male guests elders (male guests for their own families, and will not be able to compete with the people who will kiss the main. Some people will kiss the guests arranged in the private room is also a good choice, but many women's family will kiss the guests and want to watch the wedding in the ballroom, so the specific arrangements to be negotiated between the two sides).
Supplementary knowledge back to the door feast: this custom from the ancient times, generally known as the "return to the Ning", for the meaning of the marriage home to visit their parents, the Han nationality marriage customs.