Love is like a brand new car, if the car of love wants to drive to a farther place, you need to know how to refuel and maintain from time to time.
A good marriage is a step up from a relationship, where the two people in love are always maintaining the car, making their relationship harmonious and sweet. Bad marriage will become the grave of love, both want to make the car of love run farther, but do not know how to properly maintain, making the car of love quickly fall apart.
Often people ask me these questions:
What kind of man is worth a woman's life? What kind of man is truly in love with himself?
My family lives next door to a couple, in the past the man is particularly busy, after retirement idle at home. So the woman often pulled the man to go square dancing, initially the man was full of reluctance.
After a period of time, every time to a fixed point in time, the man unconsciously began to urge to go out dancing. One day, the woman accidentally broke her foot, so only at home to recuperate, the man has been accompanied by the woman, accompanied by a whole month and a half time.
Because the two families were especially close, they would often visit each other's homes and chat and talk together. Once I happened to walk to the door of their house, the man's son asked the man: ? Dad, why don't you go to the square to sneak around now? The man glanced at the woman and replied with a smile: ? Do you leave your mom at home while I dance with the other old ladies??
Maybe this is the real love, it seems to be a behavior and an action that is not shocking, but when you feel it with your heart, it is full of love, just like honey!
Zhang Xiaoxian said: ? Love is the never-ending thought of each other, the never-ending attachment, the willingness to be tied up.?
The deeper we love someone in our heart, will unconsciously give each other full of love, but this love will not be as passionate as the period of hot love, it is in the bland and tasteless life, through some details to express the deep love of their hearts, and even you will find that sometimes the man will be more than you? pestering?
The man who loves you y is able to show his most vulnerable and clingy side in front of you
Men outside will always show a very strong look, so that people feel that the sky is not afraid of the earth, there is nothing that can crush him, but in fact, a lot of men inside is actually very fragile, but never easily show, naturally, very few people are able to see this side of him.
From a young age, men are taught? to shed blood and not tears? , so often with a thick mask of personality, will not let others see their own fragile heart. Sometimes even if you do something wrong, you often show a pair of? The fact that you have to save face and live with it is a great help. The way the world is going to be the same as it is now, the world is going to be the same.
Women hope that their other half can be very mature and stable, feel that such a man is what they want, but in reality,
A man who is y in love and trust their own half, may most of the time will show a mature side, but you will find that he often also have to show their own fragile and childish side.
Leward has a song called ? It's not a crime for a man to cry? , people in the day and night to hold up the mask to sleep, I was heartbroken, obviously tears, but forgot how the eyes to tears?
The lyrics of this song express the heart of the man, in front of people always wear a thick mask of personality, in front of people always show their strongest side, and then bitter and difficult will not easily shed their tears.
Shakespeare said: ? Love calls the coward to become bold, but calls the warrior to become a coward.?
If a man can let you see their most vulnerable and childish side, often shows that he is completely open to you, in front of you are no longer just wrapped up in their own fragile heart, he longed to be able to get some comfort and understanding in you.
Men are only willing to unload their thick personality masks to the one they love so much, if a man only lets you see the very mature and perfect side in front of you, he may have some defenses against you, not so open, and may not love you as much as you think.
Men who love you y in their hearts, when you are in trouble, he will always come forward
Want to know whether a man has you in his heart, not to see how much he said on his lips, not to do a lot of promises, but in the process of getting along with you, whether you are able to have a love of behavior performance.
Yu Dan said: ? True love is a kind of care and attention from the heart, no flashy words, no claptrap action, only in the little by little a word and deed you can feel.
Regrettably, a lot of women will always be confused by the sweet words of men, in the experience of a few heartbreaking only to find so a truth, to see a person love or not love, do not listen to what he said, but to feel the process of getting along with the little by little.
The so-called deep love, is to know that you have a cold and fever, immediately give you to buy the drugs you need and bring you over; is in your pregnancy, he is always accompanied by your side, to give you care; is when you encounter difficulties, he is always able to come forward, accompanied by you to get through these difficulties?
This seems usually some sticky man, but always in your most need to care for the care of time, accompanied by your side, so you feel very comfortable with a sense of security.
Men no matter how busy and tired, always be able to spare some time to accompany you
Women love the man can give themselves a lot of companionship, care and love, but the marriage is immensely realistic, more is the wood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea. After the birth of a child, the cost will be even greater, a responsible man will do his best to get more material conditions for this small family.
A man who wants to do well in his career will spend a lot of time and energy on his career, so the time given to the woman's company is often not too much.
Some time ago, a girl complained that his own his other half is particularly busy, so busy that only two weeks to call once, a month time to see a face. The girl was getting more and more uncertain about the relationship, and the man on the phone would always tell the girl that he was working hard for the sake of the little family.
Girl, I want to talk to you: ?
This man actually doesn't love you that much, and a person who is no longer busy will not be so busy that it takes so long to make a phone call and see you once.
Bayan said: ? In order for love to last and marriage to flourish, wives must please their husbands and husbands must please their wives, and how to do so is a high art.
The man who really loves you, he will work harder for this small family, but in the busy way, he can also spare some time to give you company, because you are his most important person, his heart is always thinking of you.
The way to think of you may be to take time to give you a phone call at lunchtime; to accompany you to have a meal and watch a movie on your day off; after work, the family sits at the dinner table and has a meal with laughter.
Love is mutual, passionate love when strong, mellow in marriage, old time to each other, this is the meaning of life know each other.