She is rehearsing a program, which is a performance team spontaneously organized by a group of elderly friends. As soon as they entered the square, they heard songs and musical instruments. These retired amateurs are showing off their specialties and fantasizing about enjoying the happiness brought by music in a free kingdom. I was attracted by their songs and sat down to share them. Some of them can play musical instruments, others can sing. The program was wonderful, especially the duet between Cheng Lan and his wife. I was fascinated by it. The couple's hobbies have been integrated with music. The expression of singing is particularly good and unique. They are conveying love with songs and laughter, expressing each other's true feelings with their eyes and touching each other's hearts with sincerity. This is a very enviable couple. I fixed their instant happiness in my camera, and the wonderful photos made me unforgettable. This couple, who helped each other in difficulties, made me proud of what they have today and offered them my sincere wishes.
The rings of the years passed by us, and today's scene made me feel infinite emotion. This reminds me of the memory more than 30 years ago: we met in 1987, and I was transferred to Tiedong Sub-district Office because of my work needs. I'm a secretary, and Cheng Lan is an accountant in the comprehensive factory. She used to be a rural private teacher, a very simple, kind and responsible person, who came to work in the street with her husband's job transfer. We cooperated well, got along with each other for a long time, and I gradually got to know her family.
Her lover, Wang, is an educated young man who goes to the countryside. Because my father is a senior intellectual and has overseas relations, he was classified as a black five-category child and was forced to go to the countryside to become a member of the patriotic brigade in Changfu Township, farming and carrying sacks, and suffered a lot. Because he is very studious and loves literature and art, he gets along well with the locals and is very popular with them.
Cheng Lan was a local private teacher at that time, and he also liked music. The two young people came together because of their common hobbies and sincerity.
The simple wedding was held in a adobe house of more than ten square meters, and it became a new house without much cleaning. Obviously, there is nothing. The adobe house is hot in Leng Xia in winter, but the two hearts are closely related. They fill the difficulties in life by spiritual enrichment and enjoy a small life.
10 years later, Wang Kao, an enrollment student of Heihe Normal School, went to Heihe Normal School. After graduation, I arranged to be a teacher in Nenjiang No.2 Middle School and moved to the county seat. He lives in a brick house. The relatively bright room is filled with simple furniture made by Mr. Wang himself, and life has gradually improved. But at that time, they already had two children, and the problems of children's schooling and rations still put them under great pressure. The two of them began to plant gardens around the house, eating whatever they planted in summer and relying on pickles in winter.
Although life is poor, it is optimistic. When they are free, they sing while pulling, and friends and relatives outside sing together, often playing until midnight. It doesn't matter who goes to his house to eat and drink, just be happy. * * * The same hobbies make them soul mates * * * Overcome difficulties. A few green onions, a plate of pickles and a bowl of big sauce are also enjoyed. The impression given to friends and relatives is always warm and hospitable.
Because I come from the countryside, my friends and relatives are here, some are permanent students, some are temporary, and even my son often runs to his house. I said that their food was not good, so we wouldn't go. The ten-year-old child said, "Their family is very happy!"
. I admire this couple very much. Objectively speaking, there is a big gap between them. Teacher Wang lives in the city and has a good family environment. Cheng Lan grew up in the countryside, with poor family background and low education level. Their personalities are also very different. They were forced to get married in the countryside in that special era. However, * * * the same hobby has made this unsuitable marriage, and it is rock solid.
With the change of the national policy of reform and opening up, many educated youths abandoned their wives and children and returned to the city to remarry. It has caused tragedy to countless families. But Mr. Wang has no regrets, never gives up, and still loves this simple and kind wife. It was he who kept the promise of marriage, fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband, and gave his wife and children a warm home. Accompanied by love, orchids have been constantly running in under the influence of their husbands, and everything has been melted by tenderness between husband and wife. Because they know how to be kind to each other for the sake of being together, and how to cherish the present for the sake of having. Now the hostess has grown into a very qualified wife and mother. She is very clever and can knit and sew. She is modest to her husband in character and cares about each other in life. She is already a good partner on stage and off stage. No matter how busy they are, they never delay the performance rehearsal. Cheng Lan sings very well. She can also sing Pingju and play in the garden. She is also unique in the band. Teacher Wang is also full of affection for this beloved wife. Take her to visit relatives and friends all over the country and take her to travel abroad.
Decades have passed and they have reached their twilight years. After retirement, they have more time to continue to nourish their lives with music and make up for more than 30 years of regret with late romance.
They have a happy journey, the joy of success, and small family conflicts that every family can't avoid. In the most difficult period of life, people have little desire, just want to work hard and change their family situation. Now that living conditions are good, there is no pressure. In his spare time, Mr. Wang often hurts people, which is both hard and harmful, so he often drinks to relieve fatigue. However, he drank more and more, which seriously affected his health. His wife was very concerned about him and warned him again and again, and the children also advised him. However, like a naughty boy, he admitted his mistake to his face and then hid wine everywhere to drink secretly. Not drinking is definitely a good husband and father. Under the test of alcohol, drinking too much will get out of control. You hurt yourself and others. What hurt him also hurt his wife's heart. They often quarrel over drinking. However, no matter how big the contradiction is, as long as they go out to play, they will be calm again. It was the music that made them forget all their troubles. If he is not greedy for wine, he cares about his wife very much, gives up the opportunity to make money and arranges time to go out to play every day.
In order to travel conveniently, Mr. Wang bought a small tricycle, full of musical instruments, full of orchids, full of deep love, accompanied by wind and rain in spring, summer, autumn and winter. I hope this car will always be full of horsepower, so that songs and laughter will fill the journey of life. May my blessing always accompany their journey!
Someone asked me what happiness is. I used to answer that money is happiness. However, in reality, many rich people seldom talk about happiness. On the contrary, this couple who came through the trouble made me understand that family background, education, appearance and financial situation are not passports to happiness. Love, loyalty and trust are the real happiness.
Happiness is not how big the house is, but how sweet the laughter in the house is, not how beautiful the lover is, but whether she really loves you. Gold is easy to get, but human friends are hard to find. Happiness is not a material enjoyment earned, but a reward after one's own efforts, and a peaceful and quiet spiritual enjoyment.
Meeting you in the vast sea of people is the fate of this life. In this world, couples have unfinished feelings and friends. If there is an afterlife, I hope they are still a good couple, and I am still their bosom sister.