Isn't it true that you can't break things in the month of June, and I broke the lid of the pot, is that unlucky?

Senior: mindset determines everythingWhat is mindset? Mindset is character plus attitude. Character is a person's unique and stable personality traits, it shows a person's psychological perception of reality and the corresponding habitual way of behavior. Attitude is a person's psychological response to objective things. So, for this "determines everything" mentality, what exactly is what we are looking for? In my opinion, in order to win the college entrance examination in the next 365 days, your mindset should have three kinds of composition patterns: the camel's mindset, the lion's mindset, and the baby's mindset. To have a camel's mentality, because the road to prepare for the examination is not a smooth river, but more desert desert. With the camel mentality, there is a "desert boat" like a strong will, tough character, proud of the bones, the spirit of courage. Even if encountered flying sand, stones, water, baking and evaporation of the ordeal, still can not loose the clockwork of life, do not reduce the acceleration of the gear, do not change the direction of progress, without distractions, stride forward. Will not because of the temporary lead and temporary backward and complacent or chi. Determining the big goal and ensuring the high efficiency of trekking with strict plan is one of its major features. Some may say that the camel is too slow, not realizing that "he who walks slowly, provided he does not lose sight of his goal, also walks faster than he who wanders aimlessly" (Lessing). Therefore, the camel mentality is a persistence and tenacity of faith, a tenacious yearning for hope and success. Life is sometimes not fair, yet the door of hope is always open to everyone. Thus, the camel mentality is an unswerving loyalty to the goal, an unparalleled endurance. A doctor outlined the history of his struggle by saying that in all the dictionaries of the world, the two most valuable words are "patience". To have a lion's heart, because the competition and cruelty of the college entrance examination is always there, the only wooden bridge to break out of a road belonging to their own by their own fight. With a lion's mentality, you will be in your strong body, surging at any time ready to kill the desire to fill the blood-soaked face of calm, drumming up defiance of opponents and all the difficulties of the king's demeanor. Withstand loneliness, dare to open themselves to the vast wilderness, not caring whether they are bruised; withstand the wind and rain, regardless of the sharp stones such as blades, regardless of the lightning and thunder, still traveling in the mangled sea of forests. Therefore, the lion mentality, is to have that kind of brave invincible temperament, even if the halberd sinks, but also do not hesitate. People are knocked down, there are two types: one is knocked down by others, but the fall does not affect the person is still a hero, such as Xiang Yu was knocked down by Liu Bang, because he had "sword in hand, ask the world who is a hero," and struggling to fight the glory of human nature; a kind of self is knocked down by themselves: in the face of the competition to frighten their own, either, it is too heavy, too many ties, such as Liu Zongzong, who is the hero of the world. The lion's mentality is to put the lion's heart in the hands of the lion, and to make the lion's heart into the heart of the lion, and to make the lion's heart into the heart of the lion. Therefore, the lion's mentality is to burn the desire to succeed into incandescence, like a fire like exuberance, the "want" into "must", the strong desire, into a rock-solid faith. When a person concentrates his life's energy on one point, he can do something surprising to himself. To have a baby mind means to simplify oneself, that is, to make every day towards the entrance examination, to return the mind to the original mind of innocence and simplicity. The so-called naivety, is to be able to instinctively mow down the subconscious disguise and evil thoughts, uphold the sincerity and goodwill of the people, to maintain uncontaminated human nature and the original ecology of the source. We carry the innocence of senior high school, encounter with social, utilitarian obvious college entrance examination, everyone's heart is filled with a lot of complexity and chaos. Create a mentality, make their mind as simple as possible, as far as possible to return to the original state, is to set aside the entanglement in our minds on the withered branches of the barren vine, clear the way forward, release their potential, maximize their own strengths, and achieve superb results of the inevitable choice. Undeniably, in our class everyone's psychology, there are such and such problems. For example, they feel too good about themselves, and the goals they set for themselves are of the fantasy type; they complain a lot, and everything is wrong with others; they don't dare to be foolish in their studies; they don't think about creating convenience for others; they put too much emphasis on their personal interests; they always think about short-term effects; they lack the sense of obedience; they don't do any self-criticism and so on. I believe that a person with these mindsets will never be successful. Another example is the selfishness that is exposed in every little thing, such as thinking that you know everything and that you have seen through the world. For example, he thinks he knows everything and is invulnerable. For example, for no reason to worry, for no reason to want to kick the wall, slap, for no reason to look at people, for no reason to feel despair, others may be bumped into their own a little, hate an old fist to kill each other and so on. This is a refraction of the improper state of mind, a kind of venting of too many psychological problems. But then again, the loss of self-control, this kind of venting can only be harmful to themselves, not only damage the harmony of the environment on which they live, but also deteriorate their own mentality. This is to aspire to success is not enough, on the contrary, those who pursue success precisely have chosen a positive way to optimize the mentality, and in the extremely excellent state of mind to achieve unexpected success. We all know Liu Xiang. But how did Liu Xiang's first come about, do we know? After Liu Xiang's triumph, Chen Zufen published an article in the newspaper entitled "There is a boy named Liu Xiang", describing how Liu Xiang achieved good results. She came up with a famous assertion: "The purest heart can create miracles". The article reads, "Liu Xiang didn't think of anything before the race, but just wanted to play at his level. He stood on the 4 lane, facing the final, the only thing he thought was to listen to the referee's gun". In fact, we all know that 20 minutes after Liu Xiang won the championship, Xing Huina, also wearing Chinese red, won another gold in the women's 10,000 meters. What was her state of mind? She said: the first moment after she ran 10,000 meters, she thought it was another training session, and the second moment she thought it was the Olympics. Moving forward in time a bit, there is another athlete named Liu Wei, who won seven consecutive table tennis world championships, and she partnered with Wang Tao to win the 41st, 42nd, and 43rd consecutive World Table Tennis Championships Mixed Doubles Championships. She learned the game at the age of five and retired at the age of 27. She talked about her understanding of playing, saying this: "At the beginning of playing, I felt that I was playing with my hands, and as I improved, I felt that I was playing with my body, and then later, I had to play with my brain. After I won the world championship, when I played with the top players in the world, I felt that I had to play with my heart, which is perhaps the highest level." I have just cited a few examples of athletes, and I thought that the challenge of taking the college entrance examination is, at some meaningful level, most similar to a sports competition, and thus the successes of these athletes, including the loss of the soccer team, can best inspire us in the sense of learning from them. As Ms. Chen Zufen wrote: When competing, when writing, when inventing, when creating, the simpler the mind, the better. A very fashionable word nowadays is: originality. The purest state of mind is the most original, the most capable of creating dazzling miracles. Therefore, the so-called baby mind is to make one's mind simple, which is one of the most fascinating and challenging subjects at the moment. To make one's mind pure, one has to do two things, one is to remove the weeds and crazy branches from one's mind. Everyone has such and such bad habits, they are the externalization of the mentality or unknowingly around the mentality of the "source of pollution", just as a cotton plant on the inevitable "crazy branches", if placed in the mirror of the mind to see, many people may be due to these branches If you look in the mirror of the mind, many people may be due to these branches, the cause of the strange and ugly. In the process of growth, like the cotton farmer's hands, these crazy branches removed one by one, so that they can stand up, so that nature to their own camp points to concentrate, is an inevitable process, although some pain, but it will be the desire for growth brought by the pleasure of the overwhelmed. This filters out the dross of the foreign and self-perpetuated, leaving behind an ethereal and lucid stillness of mind. "Pain and pleasure" is definitely a healthy state of mind. Secondly, cultivate your wisdom of letting go, of surrender. A student asked Socrates, "Please tell me, why I have never seen you frown, you are always in such a good mood?" The answer was, "Because I don't have that which, when I lose it, makes me regret it." Learn to give up, keep the most valuable, necessary and pure part of life, and give up those warts and burdens of life. Learning to give up is not a passive avoidance of the world, not to throw away the enterprising spirit, not to throw down everything and get by, but a kind of judging the situation, saving the essence of the coarse choice, in order to cut off the tail of life, and to move more lightly and cheerfully toward the glorious apex of life. There was a Zen master, Baizhang, who was asked by one of his disciples, "How can I become a Buddha?" The master said, "Let go! Let go of all your thoughts of clinging to Buddhahood, and let go of that mind of yours that always clings to Buddhahood." The best interpretation of the Master's Zen words was by a mountain climber. This climber managed to climb Mount Everest, the world's highest mountain, for the first time without the use of oxygen during a climb. After he came down from the mountain, people asked him about the secret of his success in reaching the summit, and he said, "There is no secret, I know that the brain is an important source of oxygen consumption, and scientists have told us that when various thoughts collide with each other in the brain, they actually consume 40% of all the oxygen we inhale. Therefore, in order to reduce the consumption of oxygen, I only have 'forward' this one thought, as for any other thoughts I throw them all out of my head. Without any distractions, I let go of a huge burden that I was carrying on my back! Moving forward with ease is the whole secret of my success." Yes, for us, to win the high school entrance exams, grades, rankings and so on these exist in their own hearts, often also become their own inner desire to transcend themselves a driving force, but, once people are obsessed with this, and often become a heavy burden on their own way forward. That climber is smart, eager to become the first person to successfully climb Mount Everest without oxygen, when in training, this must have been a most beautiful dream burning fiercely in his heart. However, in the sprint to the summit, he put down all the honor and disgrace and utilitarianism, put down the fear that death will threaten his life at any moment, leaving only one desire in his chest: forward, forward! He succeeded, he not only left a valuable experience for all the mountaineers, at the same time, also put a seed of wisdom, sown into the world every desire to obtain the success of the people's heart. Obviously, this kind of mentality and realm is each of us envy and worth pursuing, however, can tell you that the polishing and purification of the mentality, others can not be replaced, this is a kind of autonomy of action, can not be added, passive, others can only guide and can not be on behalf of the work, such as the Tang Sanzang went to the West to get the scriptures, you must rely on their own efforts and persistence. How to build? From the level of operation, there are also two aspects, one is to actively self-cultivation, and this cultivation, is through a conscious and planned external form, internalized into their own positive mentality. In my opinion, one can start with the following things: 1. Speak and act like the person you wish to be; 2. Be mindful of winning, positive thoughts; 3. Influence others with good feelings, confidence, and purpose; 4. Make everyone you meet feel important and needed; 5. Be grateful; 6. Learn to praise others; 7. Learn to smile; 8. Look around for the best new ideas; 9. Give up the chicken scratch small things; 10, cultivate a spirit of dedication; 11, never negatively think that anything is impossible. In fact, the generalization of "mindset determines everything" is a bit biased, and needs to be added some limitations - "under certain environmental conditions and on the basis of certain personal capabilities". What determines the mindset? What determines the mindset? Mindset is determined by two main factors: the individual's self-positioning and the environment. Just now said many are self-positioning, while the environment depends on each person's consciously create, our pursuit of perfect performance and success, we need harmony, peace, clean, warm, flourishing environment, need the external environment to our inner pleasure and openness, these, there must be a person to the environment of the value and intention to create, because this is really "for others, more for themselves! "That is to say, the mind needs to be supported by the strength of character. As intelligent students here, I think we all understand the true meaning of this. This is the second on the operational level. College entrance examination review, we are heavy weight struggle, is with the shackles of the dance. Although the road is very bumpy, but I still think, can be tasted out of the happy people will be a real success. Where does happiness come from? For example, "Do you have an intoxicating smile?" This intoxicating smile is the expression of a peaceful mind, if you don't have such a smile, then you must have a painful side inside. This smile is a triumph of the mind, and happiness can only come from a sun-filled heartland. God loves us so much that he has arranged a special year of life's journey for us, something we have to face. There is a saying that some things in life have to be done, and to do them reluctantly in the midst of having to do them is destructive; to do them well in the midst of having to do them is brave. Since this is the case, "do not spare today, and trust tomorrow as little as possible" (Horace). For, the two sides of the mind lie in the fact that either confidence is strengthened or lost, and worse than the loss of time is the loss of opportunity, and worse than the loss of opportunity is the loss of dreams and confidence. Term exams, whether for our academic preparation, learning methods and habits or mindset, are an opportunity to look in the mirror, which also requires a calm mindset, because the road behind may be more rugged and thorny. Now, there are still 365 days from the college entrance examination, all is not too late, after the baptism of the periodical examination, after rational thinking, polishing the mentality to be tough, persistent, simple and open-minded, we will find the truth: life, always in the frustration and pressure under the splendor; thought, always in the wandering and disillusionment in the growth; the will, always in the grinding and hardship in the strong. Peace of mind, will see the sun from the haze, will see from the gray in the beautiful, will realize the wisdom from the frustration, will read from the hustle and bustle in the serenity. Bacon said: "All happiness is not without trouble, and all adversity is never without hope. The virtue of good times is temperance, and the virtue of adversity is fortitude. This latter is the greater kind of virtue." (Bacon, On Life and Adversity). Socrates also famously said, "Happiness is such that it often comes unconsciously when you are too busy with a definite goal to think of anything else." In the same way, when you lock the goal, "just ask for the plow, do not talk about the harvest," God will also be the harvest quietly prepared for you.