1, marriage
The first evening, the groom went to meet the bride. This moment away from home, called "go sedan chair", the groom to enter the bride's home after sunset, the family set up a feast to entertain the son-in-law and friends. The son-in-law is allowed to sit at the head of the first table in the family's house for the only time, and later on he is treated as a son. The next day, after breakfast, the bride and groom exchange tokens and depart immediately after the exchange. The bride's mother does not come out to see her daughter off, but sits on the bed to pray for her.
The bride's uncle, uncle or brother accompanied by the bridegroom, the groom with the trip, called the "sender". The person who sends the guest should have two children, good health and good fortune, so as to send good luck to the couple.
2, open the box
The third day of marriage, the bride's father, brother, brother to the man's home. The pre-wedding "moving box" to move the box, box open. At this time, the man's family can only bring the woman's wedding cakes to be distributed to friends and neighbors. The scale of the feast on this day is smaller than the wedding day. There is also a simplification of this procedure to open the box, open the box on the day of the wedding that is with the bride and groom to come, called "the day red".
3, Zhanjiu
Because it is the fourth day of the wedding, so it is also called "Zhan Si Xi". The bride and groom should go to the bride's home together and visit the bride's parents and relatives. The bride and groom have to show their determination to stick to the marriage permanently. It's just a formality, and few couples actually say the words according to the rules.
Expanded Information
Laoshan Folk Customs:
1, big rice-planting song
Laoshan traditional big rice-planting song team, mainly composed of three parts, in front of the deacon part of the responsible for leading the dance; in the middle is the part of the dance team, including the men's waist drum group and women's colorful fan group; in the back is the part of the free dance, with a duo dance, In the back, there is a free dance section, which includes double dance, single dance, running boat, playing dragon lantern, riding black donkey, stilt walking, lion dance, and the Tang Monk and his disciples fetching the scriptures, and so on. The accompaniment is mainly percussion, with bamboo, pipe, string and other instruments, with bold atmosphere and compact rhythm.
2, paper-cutting
Lushan paper-cutting is divided into two major schools, the rough and bold paper-cutting around the Dagushan area, seeking God-like, not the shape of; Wuji around the paper-cutting delicate, the pursuit of the shape of the God are ready. People use paper-cutting to express their feelings and hopes, paper-cutting has enriched people's spiritual life and become a wonder of folk art.
Baidu Encyclopedia - Lushan
Baidu Encyclopedia - Lushan Wedding Customs