In modern society, a lot of young people are not willing to let the elderly to bring their own children, even if it is necessary to help with the helpless, after all, the generation gap between the two generations is very large, especially in this aspect of child-rearing, there is a big difference, and often there will be conflicts. Although it is said that the elderly with children will have some disadvantages, but we do not know is that the elderly with children is also a lot of benefits.
I: Give the child more companionship.Young parents can not give their children more companionship, because they need to earn money to support the family, in order to give the child a better life, often a long time to find time to accompany the child for a while. But the elderly is different, after the retirement of the elderly have a lot of time to accompany the child to play, give the child more companionship. What children need most is companionship, and children who grow up with companionship will be much happier. And the elderly also hope that there are children and grandchildren around to let themselves enjoy the joy of heaven.
2: Enrich the child's childhood.Maybe now young parents with children, most of the children to play some electronic products, or high-tech and so on, a long time to go on, it is easy to let the child addicted to it can not be extricated. The old man with children is more rich, take the child to play chess, square dancing and so on, this is the children really like childhood, can enrich their lives, so they are more free and happy.
Three: more patient.The most important thing is that the old man with children is really very patient, even if the child tantrums do not eat anything, the old people are able to be very patient education of the child, for the young people may be impatient, not so much patience to coax the child, minutes on the temper.
The old people have lived half a lifetime, eaten more salt than we have eaten rice, in the education of children in this matter is certainly a lot of experience, some of the old people out of the education of children than the young people education are good. But there are also some old people will be very spoiled children, on the contrary, is harmful to them.