Loneliness is terrible, it can make people negative, frustrated, lose the direction of life and life is confused; loneliness is like a chronic poison, will not kill you in a moment, it is always slowly invade your bone marrow, corrosion of your soul, when you find it is often difficult to extricate themselves.
There are a lot of old people around me who have lost their partners, especially men, and they will soon start looking for a new partner. Women seem to be a little stronger, many single old ladies live a solitary life, but they will regulate themselves. They are often seen walking in groups, or dancing in squares, or playing mahjong. People who live alone are physically healthy and have few problems, but once they are sick, they will be in danger if they have an attack. The first thing I want to do is to get out of the way of the society and accelerate the process of getting old.
I do not agree with the suggestion that some people think that loneliness is enjoyable, no one will deliberately pursue loneliness, the difference is that each person's ability to bear loneliness and treat it differently. The true meaning of life lies in the interaction between people. If you have been alone for a long time, you should really reflect on whether there is a great lack of interpersonal interaction.
Adjusting your mindset, I believe you will slowly come out of the loneliness.