1, the highest state of learning is "enlightenment"
Knowledge can be acquired through study, but wisdom can hardly be acquired through study alone.
A person's wisdom, in addition to learning, also needs enlightenment and enlightenment, which is the highest state of learning.
How to achieve it? We need to constantly reflect on ourselves, reflect on the past, sum up experiences and lessons, feel with our hearts, and extract our own life wisdom from experience.
To be a man, you should understand that no matter how much truth others say, it is not as good as your own understanding. What you realize is your wisdom. What others tell you is their wisdom.
2. The highest state of being a man is "giving up"
Give up and you will get it. If you can't bear it, you can't bear it. You can get more if you want. The highest state of being a man is "giving up".
Willing to pay, there will be gains; If you are willing to work hard, you will be rewarded; If you are willing to be kind, you can feel at ease; Only by giving up love can we get more love.
Giving up, on the one hand, is giving and giving, on the other hand, giving up things that don't belong to you, so meaningless, don't force, don't entangle, don't care.
Life needs precipitation, life needs to know how to choose, taking is a kind of ability, giving up is the wisdom of life. People who give up often live better and understand better, and those who are alive should give up.
3. The highest state of life is "music"
Whether life can be happy depends on people. Some people are not rich, but they live happily. Some people, sitting on the golden hill and silver hill, are very anxious.
Really, whether a person can live well depends on his own heart. If his heart is satisfied, he will be happy forever. How can he be happy if his heart is not satisfied?
Happiness comes from our hearts. As long as there is happiness in our hearts, no matter how cruel life is, we can live with temperature and live a beautiful and wonderful life in adversity.
4. The highest state of cultivation is "emptiness"
Life is practice, and the most important thing is to cultivate the mind. If you want to repair your heart, you must know how to empty your heart and keep an empty cup at all times. In this way, we can better face the future life.
Walking on the road of life, we are constantly stuffing things into our hearts, good and bad, and our hearts are full, tired and heavy.
When we cultivate our hearts, we empty our hearts and make our hearts clean and bright, so that we can live a relaxed and comfortable life.
The highest level of making friends is "sincerity"
Sincerity is the most important thing among friends. You are sincere to me, and you are sincere to me. Then their friendship will last forever.
Honesty is the bridge of friendship. Without honesty, the bridge will collapse. With honesty, the bridge will become stronger and can withstand the impact of floods.
Sincerity is responsible for yourself, others and the friendship between friends. Friendship is hard-won, so we should all be honest with others.
6. The highest state of life is "quietness"
Still water can look in the mirror, while meditation can observe the heart. The highest state of life is "quietness". When you are quiet, you can look at yourself, see the reality clearly, recognize others and deal with the problems in life more rationally.
Quiet is a rare ability, which can dispel people's inner impetuousness and become less impulsive and reckless. People who can calm down are really powerful people.
How quiet the heart is, how blessed it is. When we face a problem, we should calm down first and then solve the problem. Only in this way can we avoid some unnecessary troubles.
7. The highest state of love is "tolerance"
In the world of love, many people always ask each other, thinking that they love each other very much, and the other party should do something for themselves. In fact, this kind of behavior will only destroy their love.
Love to the depths without regrets. If you really love someone, you must know how to tolerate each other, accept each other's advantages and tolerate each other's shortcomings. You should respect each other, not take.
Love is not taking, but giving, not criticizing, but understanding, not taking, but tolerating.
The above seven highest realms of life are worthy of our understanding. Once you understand it, your life, your life, your love and your friendship will all become better!