Rural elderly with their children to live in the city good or bad?

There are two sides to bringing the rural elderly into the city to live with their sons and daughters, there are advantages and disadvantages, it is usually better to ask the elderly what they think.

When we make our living conditions better through our own efforts, we usually take the rural mom and dad to the city to live with ourselves. Usually work children can still cook for themselves. The first thing you need to do is to get back home and have a hot meal, and you can take care of each other with the old man.

Because the old man is old, let them in the countryside sometimes not very comfortable. In the city with the children live together, if there is something sometimes inconvenient to do things need help when the children can help.

But some of the rural elderly often do not adapt to the city after coming, because at home when rarely take the car. They are usually at home talking and laughing with their neighbors and friends, playing cards and so on. But when they come to the city, they need to take the bus or subway to go anywhere. And since everyone in the neighborhood doesn't really talk to each other, the elderly feel very lonely at home when their children are at work.

I met an old man pushing his grandchildren in the neighborhood, and his baby was about the same age as mine, so we chatted.

He said he hated living in the city because his wife was still in the countryside when he was there. He was in the city to help bring up the children, but he really felt that he could seldom talk to other people, unlike in the countryside where he could always go to the door, and he didn't know his way around in the city, so he was always bored at home, and his mood was very bad.

So take the old man into the city to live, not directly a person, it is best to put the two people a piece to take over, the two people have something to say can do a companion. Usually on weekends you should take the elderly out more, do not always bored at home, so they will feel very boring.