"Sexy" girls are hot and as good as adult women. What happened to the reaction?

Nowadays, parents generally adopt a "free-range" attitude towards their children, which is euphemistically called cultivating children's personality, but giving children too much freedom will make parents more entangled.

Generally, little girls are labeled as "cute" and "lively" in everyone's eyes, but recently a girl labeled as "sexy" became popular on the Internet. A group of photos of her are circulating on the Internet. The little girl in the photo has the hairstyle of an adult girl, and the clothes she wears are sexy and exposed, and even the exposed figure looks better. Some netizens said that the little girl looks like an adult woman.

Although the little girl looks petite and cute, the little girl in bikini and navel dress in the photo still gives people a very serious sense of disobedience. Because children are not physically mature at all, wearing sexy clothes that only adult women can wear at the age of eight or nine is very similar to the way children steal adult clothes. But the girl in the photo seems to have a bright smile, which shows that she has long been used to this inappropriate dress.

The sex education behind this is worthy of parents' deep thinking. What makes a little girl in the first and second grades of primary school often imitate the dressing style of adults? Moreover, if the child comes into contact with this inappropriate dress concept too early, will it affect her future growth? In fact, all this is related to the general precocity of children nowadays.

0 1 Why are children precocious now?

1.? Influenced by the current popular culture

Today's children are not like their parents when they were young. They may start playing mobile phones and brushing tablets before kindergarten. When they were in the first and second grades of primary school, they may not be proficient in their own lessons, but they are well aware of the popular trends of major social software. Nowadays, network celebrity culture is very popular, and children will subconsciously imitate the clothes and ideas of network celebrities when they watch it too much. Moreover, most of the current film and television dramas are sweet-talking love dramas, which will also affect the ideas of adolescent boys and girls and make them make inappropriate moves.

2.? The influence of diet

As for children's precocity, it has a lot to do with their daily diet. Some parents are very indulgent to their children and will buy them a lot of junk food such as their favorite fast food. Although these foods can provide children with strong sensory enjoyment, they also contain high calories and some growth hormones, which may promote children's early development, and premature children may have a negative impact on normal growth and development.

If parents find that their children are precocious, they must give relevant guidance to prevent them from going astray!

How to popularize sex education knowledge for children?

First of all, don't avoid talking about it. Many parents always feel ashamed when they talk about sex education. Even if the child asks this topic out of curiosity, parents will inadvertently lead the topic away. However, the avoidance of parents will not dispel children's curiosity in this regard. On the contrary, children themselves will learn about relevant knowledge through channels such as the Internet. However, the content of the online world is chaotic and complicated, and many contents are not suitable for children who are too young to read at all. If children are influenced by these bad contents on the internet, parents will regret avoiding talking about them.

Second, we should seize the opportunity. When children take the initiative to ask their parents about related topics, parents must seize the opportunity to give their children popular science knowledge. If it is difficult for parents to explain scientifically, they can choose some picture books, documentaries and other sex education content for their children to read or watch, so that children can understand the scientific knowledge of sex education more vividly and deeply. At the same time, after learning what this is, children will not care too much about these aspects out of strong curiosity!

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Therefore, if parents find that their children have precocious puberty, don't show panic first. Communicate with children more and popularize correct knowledge of sex education. I believe children will understand their parents' original intention!