Life is made up of meanings, and each stage of life has a different meaning to pursue, and society has a fixed script for each person. When we are just born, we begin to perceive the world and need someone to raise us to survive. When we have the ability to feed ourselves, we begin to explore new areas of experience in life: going to school, going to work, falling in love, getting married, having children ...... Have you ever wondered what the meaning of life is when we are successful, have a happy family, have traveled to a lot of places, seen a lot of people, and experienced a lot of fun and interesting things?
We can continue to live our lives step by step according to the script of the stages of life, but there will always be a moment when you suddenly feel very lonely, and the people around you who are close to you can't soothe this sense of loneliness; you suddenly feel very confused, and what you are doing at hand is not so important; you suddenly no longer look forward to the next day, and there is a kind of indescribable boredom; you suddenly don't know what you want to do, and what you do can't fill the Inside the hole ......
Sooner or later, we will enter a similar "bottleneck", the stimulation of the external world can not satisfy us, and we have to continue to live, we in the end how to find the meaning of the next life, to live a good future! The first thing I want to do is to get a good understanding of how to make the most of the situation.
First of all, start reflecting and examining your past life to find a fixed pattern. You need to break out of the old, limiting meanings of life if you are to find true meaning in your life. You can reflect on what you have experienced in the past, are there any "striking similarities"? The kind of thing that is just a change of people and environment, but from the beginning to the end is almost the same as before, is your inherent pattern. If you don't break it, your future life will be the same.
Secondly, from the inherent patterns that limit you, find the things you really like. Hobbies are the true needs of a person's heart, are there any hobbies that you really like but interrupted for practical reasons? Or just a do not know who told you the belief closed your heart, for example: the future engaged in this profession has no future ......
Third, to play your innate talent talent, love what you love, every day is the best day. No longer look forward to a day when all the dreams come true, do what you really like, sincerely love the people and things around you, every day is a unique day, such a life, full of meaning.
Everyday is perfect day! Good Luck!
Yao Zhi Tianwen, nicknamed Yao Yao, Master of Communication at Renmin University of China, body and soul healer. She has a master's degree in communication from Renmin University of China and is a spiritual healer. Personal micro-signal: rryy314; WeChat public number: loves-knows.