As the old saying goes, "one cannot forget the pain after the scar is healed". In order for people to remember the lesson, do not forget the pain once suffered, do not repeat the mistake.
But in my opinion, some of the injuries, fell scars, forget about the pain.
Some feelings, destined to have no future
About him, you regret?
To this question, Xiaolei sank for a moment, sighed inaudibly, and said, "He has his family, and I have my own life."
Xiaolei met him at the age of first love, the boy is not handsome, but funny and humorous, Xiaolei and he was always very happy together. The first time I saw him, I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him. However, the sweetness of love is always mixed with the sour, the roaring love will eventually endure the pain of waving. Xiaolei got a dream offer to go to Zhuhai. And the boys only want to stay in Beijing. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
At that time, Xiaolei cried her heart out, but she couldn't stop thinking about it, and the good parts of her life were like a movie re-release, annoying and hurtful.
Just like the lyrics in "Dislocation of space and time": I blew the evening breeze you blew, whether I have seen the same scenery, like disturbing jet lag to stay in the dislocation of space and time, the end is empty ......
And then reunited when he already had a girlfriend, but also to the point of talking about marriage, and then can not give her a possibility.
She is not without fantasies and his miracle, but she waited for the ultimate just a scar.
Some feelings can hardly be said not to regret, but if you are alone and difficult to forget, keep those past hurts, and ultimately taste the bitter only themselves.
So stay in those who have been and those who hurt, also should finally let him pass with the wind. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the pain you've been through.
After, can only be over. Forget those pains, in order to let yourself have a good state to meet the new future.
Scars should be a wake-up call, not a painful memory
Life is hardly smooth sailing, we will always encounter some bumps in the road, but also inevitably fall down and get hurt. But some people, but they are trapped in the bottom of the pit of the fall, even if the wound scars, but also in the memory of how much pain.
Before I saw a story online, a young man in the company's performance has been mediocre, listening to friends say that an investment project is very profitable, so in the friend's encouragement, determined to leave the company, began their own entrepreneurial road. However, due to the industry does not understand, and no experience, and soon encountered difficulties, the company's mismanagement closed down.
Afterwards, he felt that he didn't understand the industry, so he took out a loan and moved to another industry that he was naturally familiar with, but he was still unsuccessful.
The successive failures left him devastated and in debt. His family helped him to think of ways to pay off his debts, but he was in great pain every day, entangled in his own failures, feeling that he had accomplished nothing and that his life was hopeless.
As the old saying goes, don't forget the pain after a good wound. It is to caution people to learn from experience after failure, to summarize the lessons learned, and not to make the same mistakes on the road ahead. Instead of letting people dwell on the failure at that time, keep the pain at that time, and never move forward.
If a person is y involved in their own setbacks, injuries, and failures, then he will only be self-pitying, and never get back on his feet. The road is bumpy, fall down to stand up again, wipe off the dirt on the wound, we still have to smile and continue to move forward.
Scars will blossom
Shaohan Zhang in the singer's program on a song "A Diao" people remember, the lyrics of a sentence "but I will not give up hope because of the pain, suffered injuries to grow into scars, to bloom an incredibly beautiful flowers. More attracted a lot of people sigh, but also reminiscent of Zhang Shaohan from the debut to now experienced all kinds of.
Zhang Shaohan debuted in 2001, sweet-looking, amazing tone of her debut on the harvest a lot of attention, when the streets are playing her songs. Later, suffered a serious injury to family members, friends betrayal, resulting in physical problems, career also plummeted. Those scars cut on her heart by her family and friends used to haunt her for many years.
After singing "A Diao", Zhang Shaohan sent a microblogging wrote: "After so many years, slowly know what is called put down. Once upon a time, I felt that many people owed a word of apology. Now will also be able to let themselves try to let go, look back at those individuals or things, will become the life of the lost beauty."
Saying goodbye to the past, Zhang Shaohan set off again and once again shone on the stage. Many times, after experiencing injuries and pain, with the passage of time, life experience is constantly enriched, will find that some injuries, trapped in the heart of the repeated reminiscence, will only let themselves out of the predicament. The first thing you should do is to forget about the pain and let yourself start again.
Just like before the movie "Eight hundred", Yu Hao Ming played the role of many people quite impressive. The role he played in the drama, on the surface seems to be very civilized, but when the blood-bath to kill the enemy, but unexpectedly bravely forward.
Especially in the movie he undressed to reveal his back a piece of naked scars, let everyone shocked.
The scars on his back, though partly made by special effects, make us think of Yu Hao Ming's previous experience as a character who was burned by a petrol bomb.
Now Yu Hao Ming is so open about his scars, it is obvious that he has come out of the pain. The wound fell on the body, leaving scars, experienced pain, but also let him learn to grow. After experiencing the darkest moment of his life, he did not dwell on the injuries on his body, not to mention trapped in the pain on his heart, he stayed away from the screen time to recover his body, refined his acting skills, only later, everyone praised him.
A person who encounters hurt and pain, closed themselves in the past hurt, will form a vicious circle, the ultimate end will only be to destroy themselves. There are times when a person can only meet a better future by forgetting the pain of the past and allowing himself to face the future bravely and start afresh.
So, some of the pain on the road of life, the time to forget it. People always have to walk toward the front, toward the light. Forget the once less than ideal, in the future, more and more better and better.
Author's Note: Chestnut, a chestnut in love with the moon.