? I still remember one time when Ms. Tien's daughter, Nyuko, who was 1 year and 7 months old, came over, and I said to Nyuko, "Come on, Auntie is holding you." She naturally stretched out her little hand, soft, loose on my hand, did not grasp, so loose on my hand to follow me, so relaxed, so trust, so entrusted, so natural. My heart was melting. I was so touched by this life-to-life trust, because since I was young, I am a person who is easily tensed and anxious, in a strange environment, facing strange people, I would unconsciously frown, hold my hand tightly, and tense up my muscles, as if if not to do so, I would "fall" from a high altitude, and I was afraid of such a feeling of being out of control. I clearly remember that at the welcome dinner the night before the course, I was so formal, my whole body curled up, like a baby curled up in its mother's womb, unable to stretch. Until the third day of patting, after Mr. Tian Tian patted me, my hands, surprisingly, were free to stretch out, no more tension, no more tightness, loose, like the loose feeling of Nyoko's hands on my hands.
? How can I go on to say what I have gained from this course? When my partner invited me to the first duet, my body just wanted to back away, and as I did, I bawled my eyes out, tears, washing over my face. My body, releasing years of repressed grief. How many emotions do our bodies, really, carry for us? After a specific event in our childhood, the emotions that we were not able to release in the moment, when we really feel our body and allow it, it will unload all this "baggage". After a few days of clearing and releasing, on the last day of the pas de deux, when my partner came to me slowly and finally put her hands between my eyebrows and caressed my forehead, at first I was shivering all over and couldn't move a muscle. She sensed my body's rejection and ebbed away. For just a little while, I felt a warmth rise in my heart, my hands began to dance freely, followed by one of my legs, stepping forward. Then, with a wow, I cried, and so did she, and we embraced, and this time the tears, they were tears of emotion, and they flowed freely for this courage to step forward.
? Nowadays, there are so many courses for body and soul growth, how do you go about choosing the right course and teacher for you? I think it's a matter of looking at the state of the teacher's life and how she gets along with her partner and her children. First of all, the first feeling I got from Ms. Tian Tian was comfortable, with the powerful aura of a queen. The phase is born from the heart, a person who lives out of the state, first of all, is a person who makes people feel comfortable, she allows herself to the maximum extent, naturally allows others to the maximum extent, this kind of allowing, makes people comfortable. Secondly, I see the way she treats her partner and her children, the tenderness and respect that is born from love is overwhelming. When I came home from the course, I treated my eldest child with a lot more permission. This is the transformative power of the collective energy field of Gifted Hands. I am sure that all the students in the room will take this home with them and continue to pass it on. This is the power of a living teacher to "lead" and "transform" without even realizing it.
? In the whole course, there is no pre-planned outline, and even the starting time is not fixed. Everything is as natural as the flow of energy. She is attentive to each student in the course, knows each student's heart and mind, and gives permission to those who are not ready to open up and meet, she knows, but doesn't poke holes in them. For students with great courage to break the shell of children, she has no reservations, inadvertently set up "traps", when the "soap bubbles" floating to the time, gently poke. This "grasp" of the right time, in addition to awareness, in addition to the clear, nothing else. Throughout the whole process, there is not a single lofty word for practice, no bragging about one's ability, but all down-to-earth words, clear and easy to understand, but with a great flavor of life's fireworks, witty, but right on the mark. This "degree" of "grasp", if the teacher himself, no deep awareness of their own, no love and compassion for the students, can not do so properly.
? You have heard of which course teacher, after class, will go out to eat with the students, let everyone free to express at the table, the teacher continues to comment, after dinner, pulling everyone to go dancing "square dance" or play "Zen cards" "extra class! After the meal, he dragged everyone to dance "square dance" or play "Zen cards" "extra class"? Have you ever heard of a teacher who, at the end of a full course, calls on everyone to stay a few more days and takes them out to "eat, drink and have fun", to play comedy, to play photography? This is the kind of thing that only a teacher who spends his life with his life can do, and Tian Tian is such a teacher.
How about, still hesitate? Still trying to "understand" what "gifted hands" means? Still trying to guess what the course is about? When you are ready, please do not hesitate to come, this course is not just tapping, not just mind-body healing, not just dance healing, to quote Mr. Tien, this is a holographic course that opens up a large area by opening up a point. In the end, may we all be like the little golden man in the picture, open, welcoming, but as immovable.