However, it is not really filial to take parents from the countryside to live in the city.
At first glance, you may feel uncomfortable. Traditional virtues always put "filial piety" first. My parents raised me when I was old, and I took my parents to enjoy it. How can it be unfilial?
That is, he can take care of and filial to his mother conveniently, but ignores that her mother is lonely when she comes to a big city. Although she lives well, dresses well and uses it well, her mother is divorced from the familiar environment, familiar friends and changes in diet.
It's not that bringing parents with you is unfilial, but that bringing parents with you will lead to bad parents for various reasons, which is really unfilial.
An analysis of the causes of parents' poverty caused by relying on their parents;
1. Parents leave the original environment and find themselves in a new environment, such as climate, water, soil and customs.
2. My parents broke the circle of contacts for decades and came to a strange city, and no one spoke.
When parents come, the daughter-in-law doesn't like it, and there is a generation gap, which often leads to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
4. Parents from rural areas to cities can't get used to urban meals. In rural areas, they often eat steamed bread and drink miscellaneous grains porridge, but in cities, they eat rice every day.
5. Nothing is convenient to do. You need a license to keep a dog, and you need to enter a password when you enter the door. You don't know how to turn off the household appliances when they are on.
6. Some parents like the quiet in the countryside, but don't like the square dance, car horns and noisy barbecues in the city at night.
After reading the above points, you will find that parents who live in cities from rural areas are "special groups", but they can't take special care of them. If they can't integrate into the new environment as soon as possible, they can only get used to the habits they can't get used to.
Finally, you will find that those parents who often face the loess in the countryside and have lived for most of their lives can't integrate into the bustling city life at all, and even are very exclusive.
You think bringing your parents from the countryside can not only make them enjoy happiness, but also open their eyes. It is good for children to wrap their knees, but this is not the case.
Therefore, if you are really filial, don't take your parents to live with you easily. This is a fact.
If both parents have pensions and are in good health, then if they want to go back to their hometown, you should eat more snacks and visit them. If parents have no pension, they are in poor health and can't take care of themselves.
Then in line with the principle of "you raise me young and I raise you old", we must take over and live together. Although taking over will break the existing rhythm and peace of life of small families, there is nothing to do. If parents are like this, you can't refuse, no matter what!
In a word, taking parents to live in the city depends on the situation, and we should respect their opinions more. If parents don't want to come, don't bring them over for a few days occasionally, but it will bring them closer.