32 laid off, bounced around several small companies, 35 can not get into the big factory, middle-aged men on the old, under the small, the consumer platform that men are not as good as dogs. The middle-aged OLD man, there is dignity?
Many men always feel that even if the family income declined, but also to carry their own, can not let the family's standard of living decline, middle-aged men's greatest sorrow is the desire to provide for, greatly exceeding their own ability.
This is the root of the midlife crisis.
(ii) was also a young man.
When I was a teenager, I had red lips and white teeth, and I had a flutter of a teenager who was quite good at what he did.
Naijiajian has passed.
Now it is full of sadness, the brows with all the sadness of the downtrodden middle-aged man.
In particular, the poor eat more carbohydrates, because of the laziness and lack of exercise to the body of the body.
And there is no dignity in that.
As a man struggling all his life, it is for his parents to be proud, his wife has face, his children have a good life
To say that for themselves, men do not pay so much attention to food and drink, stalls sit down, a couple of brothers ha a small drink, jerk a barbecue, talk about national issues, is not it a good time. The game, drinking, and smoking can take hours.
Eileen Chang said: "After the middle-aged man, often feel lonely, because he opened his eyes, surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but no one he can rely on."
(C) The middle age of men and women is different.
Have you ever found that the husband and wife are the same people to the middle age,
the man is more and more silent,
the woman is more and more bold?
The man did not have the confidence and pride of youth,
The woman did not have the tenderness and shyness of youth.
The man began to like parking after staying in the car quietly listening to the song,
The woman began to like the food fitness yoga maintenance flower cutting,
The man likes to fish alone,
The woman likes a lot of people on the square dance.
The man is more and more silent in the silence,
The woman is more and more articulate in the social...
(d) Middle age is a process of slowly being hammered.
Wang Xiaobo said: life is a slow process of hammering. People are getting older and older, and their expectations are disappearing day by day, and finally they become like a hammered cow.
When I first read this in high school, I felt that my life would not be like this, and now I finally understand that I will not be able to escape from the hammer of the lucky few.
No man is born silent, young people do not know the taste of sadness, for the endowment of new words strong sadness.
The boy's desire for expression is so exuberant that he is willing to write poems, novels, and even songs for his beloved; they denounce injustice, sympathize with the underclass, and promote the word, loud and clear.
Their hearts are full of hesitation and their eyes are full of tears. They don't realize that the top of the pyramid is destined to be small, and fate doesn't allow all teenagers to make their dreams come true.
Time erosion, years of polishing, the heart of the fire is no longer hot, the light in the eyes is no longer clear.
The middle-aged man knows all the sadness, but said the sky is cooler than a good autumn. The power of the people is not strength is pale, people will only respect the right and money.
(E) middle-aged people to give up fantasy.
Middle-aged men, means to learn, give up fantasy, give up hope, give up faith in the sacred, give up the pursuit of immaculate. Learn to face reality, face life, face their own naked desire, face the merciless pounding of life, in the face of life's despair, forced to compromise, forced to smooth, forced to smile at all, forced to put their own worship dignity on the back of life, the left face was slapped, and then smiled and sent on the right face. Now I'm still thinking about where I can go in the future.
Ordinary middle-aged men's sadness is that the belly of a greasy, three high uric acid high bones brittle, but still want to whip across the four seas to see the most beautiful scenery bubble the most beautiful girl, young people are not able to do things, the old can be realized? Which so much sadness and nostalgia for the past, honestly go home and mop the floor and wash the dishes can also change the wife and children a smile. I'm not going to be able to do that!