The best way to live in old age, if chosen and implemented properly, is not to make your children suffer and not to bother them.
One of the most familiar places to realize the old age at home.
If you have a companion in your own nest, it is not only a standard but also a perfect match for your old age. Of course, the premise is the need to get along with the old partner, and can do love, both sides both pay each other's pay, and harvest each other's harvest. There is no one more attentive, more convenient and more considerate than a companion to take care of, even if you are sick, you will alleviate the pain of the disease. Since there is a companion for the escort in old age, there is no need to trouble their own children, as always, children should take into account their respective families to take into account their respective families, should take into account their respective jobs to take into account their respective jobs, themselves and their companions to support each other through the old age is the most ideal mode of old age.
Second, money is indispensable for old age, and more money is better than less.
Money should not wait until the use of the time party hate less, money can have the strength to carefully select high-grade nursing home, never by the nursing home to choose. Thus the environment of the elderly can be self-control, specific to the various ages of people, money at different ages will make different living environment rise. Since money is the main material foundation, pension can also be regarded as a superstructure, children are not the main force of old age, but only need to do to take care of can be, more time can be more time to visit the nursing home, less time can be less time to visit the nursing home, I think there must be a son or daughter to step in, high-grade nursing home will be afraid of the old age to the situation is like a tiger to add wings. The presence of children, the form is greater than the meaning.
Three, the community can spend less money to some extent, to achieve a higher level of old age.
Community pension is a disguised group pension, life needs of various services can be realized group purchase, whether it is the community to run the collective canteen or community centralized employment of nannies, the community can be gatekeeper, and in the specific implementation process of supervision, based on the specific level of service to achieve the elimination of the fittest. And the community can organize activities at regular intervals, or punctual punctual to the body recently uncomfortable, or bedridden elderly home visits, thus a child only as a supplement to the old age, the community in a variety of situations for the elderly to create a diversified approach to old age, in the realization of the basis of the old age at home, through the collective power to do great things.
When the elderly are in urgent need of children to contribute money, children are often in mid-life, so it is inevitable that the children will be busy, the more sympathetic parents, the more in the old age as far as possible to avoid the trouble of children.