Why do we feel completely confused when things happen?

Once something goes wrong, I feel particularly flustered, my head is slow to respond, I am helpless, my mood is unstable and my temper is bad.

? Whenever I meet something happy, I will be elated, dancing, excited and my heart will beat faster.

? When I was in great joy and great sorrow, I was utterly confused and impetuous. I just feel different and unstable, but it's the same.

? Maybe I care too much about these things.

? In my mind, no matter how big or small things are, good or bad, my mood is always affected by things.

? I can't hold anything in my heart, I can't stand it.

? As a result, when you encounter something, you will be utterly confused and out of breath.

? How I long for nothing!

? Contrary to expectations, it is impossible for people to live without encountering something. Even if you run away again, something will come to you, and you can't escape.

? If you want to keep yourself from getting upset, you need to take everything you face seriously.

? According to the priority of things, solve them one by one.

? Face things directly and go forward bravely. No matter when and where, we need to think more and look at it from multiple angles.

? Be quiet first, think again, and do it if you are half or sixty percent sure.

? In the face of gains and losses, success or failure, there should not be too much selfishness or greed.

? You can't lose your heart, it's against heaven.

? What we encounter is either that we don't want to do it, or that we don't do it well, or that the process of things is rather difficult and tortuous, and the result of things is not satisfactory. What's more, on the contrary.

? For example: the projects you have done, check them repeatedly and evaluate them carefully. I thought the project was foolproof, but there was a fatal error, which led to the failure of the project.

? When such a thing happens, I really feel broken and extremely depressed.

? There will be countless negative emotions in my heart because of this, and I can't breathe.

? There is no point in complaining at this time, and the result is already there. What can I do except try my best to remedy it?

? Emotion is on the verge of collapse and I can't control myself.

? Emotional control and mental calm are extremely important at this time.

? Such a person is really a strong man, who can suppress the crater where emotions are about to erupt.

? It's hard for me to do it. Even if you press yourself down, it will cause internal injuries and anger.

? It can't be solved well.

? When you are confused, you need to calm your mind, slowly straighten out your thoughts, see the whole picture or its true state, and find a solution.

? Face up to things and difficulties. Not confrontation, but a comprehensive solution.

? Finally, let it return to dust, and everything will turn into nothingness.

? The perfect state of doing things is that everything turns into nothingness. Do not hurt others or please others; I have neither wronged myself nor fulfilled myself. In the end, things are seamless and hearts are seamless, which is perfect!

? Only by walking through the snow without trace can you know the height of kung fu!

? Ordinary people think that nothing has happened, but in fact it has long been resolved by others.

? Why are we so upset?

? Because we have the heart of choice, the heart of gain and loss, and the idea of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

? When everything comes, we can't help but put various labels on it to distinguish it from others.

? Things exist objectively, there is no difference between good and bad, just because of one's own judgment.

? What is good for you is good, and what is bad for you is bad.

? Is it too narrow to simply divide by such standards?

? People will experience many things in their lifetime. How to distinguish and how to deal with it needs to be decided by yourself.

? Neither cater to nor exclude, accept when you come, and don't pursue. Do everything around you well, you can do it almost without doing it, and you can do it to the extreme if you do it well.

? Different things will have different meanings because of your different efforts and attitudes.

? Everything goes with the flow and pays attention to resolution.

? Being in things, not for things;

? You can step out and enter the game, or you can get out of it.

? Follow your heart to choose.

? It's not that things are out of order, but that my mind is out of order. Less success or failure, more calm, no avoidance, no retreat, no wavering.

? Accept what you are facing, which may seem difficult or crisis, or there may be opportunities or opportunities.

? Calm yourself down and settle down; Let yourself be broad-minded; Let yourself be less swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and you will naturally lose less.

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