The first aspect is to find out whether there is something wrong with family or love. To solve a problem, the first problem is to find the root of that problem, that is, to find the reason of that problem. If there are family problems, we should actively solve them. If there is a problem with love, it is necessary to solve it with love. We should prescribe the right medicine, not solve it blindly. After the contradiction between family and love, we will give up one aspect. This is not the best way to solve the problem.
In the second aspect, we should take care of family ties and not damage love. Because there is blood relationship, it is lighter. We should pay special attention to this aspect of kinship. When there is a contradiction between affection and love, we should not only care about one aspect, but also care about both aspects together. Find the problem first, and then find out which aspects have more problems, such as the commonness of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many people think that mother-in-law will embarrass daughter-in-law. What is affection? There are many factors in this respect. First of all, we must solve the problem of affection and let affection and love combine at the same time.
The third aspect is to properly handle the relationship between family and love. In other words, when people are in love, don't put their mother's family behind them, because affection and love can be combined at the same time, and they will become affection after properly handling love. It is often said that even the best love will turn into affection, so this is the best way to deal with the contradiction between affection and love, taking into account both.
To sum up, the above aspects explain what to do when there is a contradiction between family and love.