New love, old love, but a friend.
The Cantonese version of "Swinging" has a more or less playful lyrics, which seems to tell the world in a sneering way that how light one can look at love is as light as one can look at it, and how open one can look at one's expectations of people is as open as one can look at them.
I remember the first time I listened to Xu Meijing, it was a day worse than a lost love.
The footage of him standing in the cold wind and kissing passionately hadn't lasted more than 24 hours, and my cell phone had already received a message from him confessing afterward: "I'm sorry, I think it's necessary for us to have a chat ......
Another ambiguity that hadn't yet had a chance to start and couldn't be talked about, like the story that took place in "A Friend". Only, the different experiences flowed with similar bitterness.
In "A Friend", I believe that this scene happens every now and then: two laughing young people walking on a cold and windy road, they originally intended to give each other a passionate kiss at a sparsely populated corner, a dependence on which they can settle down in the big city. But to no avail, the couple has another friend stuck between them, and that friend looks like he'd love to be in the relationship too.
But love is so preoccupied with first-come-first-served, and the one who is late is more reluctant than the spare tire's heart.
If, however, the spare tire in A Friend is to be likened to the girl who took the wrong bus, what about me, the enabler?
It seems that every girl can unconditionally tolerate each other's recklessness after she meets the one she likes, even if he is famous and married ......
Xu Mei Jing is not such a person.
When she fell in love with lyricist and co-star Chen Chia Ming is unknown. It's just that whenever she sings the lyrics that Chen wrote for her, it's more or less a melodrama.
When I met Chen Chia-Ming, he was married.
The popular ShangHua Records made this thin, married man a "Singaporean version of Lee Jong Sheng". At that time, Xu Meijing was still a new girl, she was cool, stubborn, like humming songs, like to be alone.
Chen Chia-Ming fell in love with this girl who loved to hum songs.
"Singapore will never find a voice as beautiful as yours."
The story begins with Shizai. Perhaps it was the secluded ethereal spirit in Sik Choy's voice that Chen Chia Ming saw in her that he poured his heart and soul into creating so many songs to soothe the urban soul, so that no matter what she sang, it would always be unconsciously embedded in the depths of every lonely soul.
I guess, count her in too.
Loneliness is always more than you love
Desperation is always you have to love her
Late-night dance with her to spend
Where will someone be willing to be so stupid
Soothing so many lonely souls, only can not soothe their own . This man can do for her may be to make her voice more and more red, and Xu Meijing more want, should be for this man to wash his hands and cook soup.
It is a pity that Chen Jiaming is a man who refuses to divorce for her.
If romance is really a word of sorry, then good love for such a man who does not divorce for Xu Meijing. Because it seems to take more courage to let down your wife than to reorganize a relationship.
A threesome A threesome with a pleasant scene
To be able to accommodate me is tantamount to pity
You believe how happy I am
Life is still too long and too brutal
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Xu Meijing must have thought that meeting Yuan Yaohua would kick-start her second spring. After all, on this road of life, it is not smart to block yourself with one road.
But she never thought that the climax of hot love went so fast.
Yuan Yaohua is also not a man of any responsibility, he experienced a career downturn, after the company's snow, became more and more violent.
At this time, Xu Meijing was pregnant with Yuan Yaohua's child, and she chose to stay by his side during his most difficult moments, like many other lovesick girls do.
As expected, the dog blood story is in the folk.
Yuan Yaohua played missing, Xu Meijing's spirit is extremely broken. At this time, a sudden call from Chen Jiaming hit a whole night of insomnia.
"I miss you."
Xu MeiJing flew back to Singapore to see Chen Chia-Ming against all odds, thinking it would be a sign that Chen Chia-Ming would finally accept her. Instead, Chen Chia Ming said, "There's still no way to start a family with you.
You see, in the game of love, it's the first look that counts.
When we all thought that the script of the story should end there, and Xu Mei Jing should slap Chen Chia Ming and never come back, then suddenly came the news that Huang Fengyi, Xu Mei Jing's personal assistant in Singapore, committed suicide after secretly having an affair with Chen Chia Ming.
In the past, I always heard people say that the tears of the heart will be pouring out of the city. Perhaps, even the strongest heart can not withstand the world, love will make people.
Xu Mei Jing is like a ball being kicked around between Chen Jiaming and Yuan Yaohua.
You can call Yuan Yaohua a scumbag with no sense of responsibility, and you can say that Chen Jiaming is a coward who runs away after teasing a young girl, but Xu Meijing still broke down.
She later retired from singing after recording her last album, "Static", in 2000.
Some people said one day, six years later, that she had been diagnosed with schizophrenia;
others said they had seen Xu Meijing in a square somewhere in Italy.
She was looking at the pigeons roaming the square, her eyes so vacant, clearly not wanting to be disturbed.
In September 2016, I went to the MIDI Festival in Nanjing because I had heard earlier that Xu Meijing would show up. Seventeen years, you just returned to Nanjing, but unfortunately not to their own concert.
The woman, 40 several, when I saw her again, on the China Records era of that cool and secluded Xu Meijing has become a middle-aged blossomed appearance; when a head of black hair also fluttered into a long roll, you with an enigmatic smile to open the song ......
But the dark blue eyeshadow is clear and then The same, how swinging ah.
In front of the camera, you were shy, but still greeted people lightly:
Thank you, take care.
The person who should take care of herself the most is her, right?
96 years of "are all night people" red across the Yangtze River, twenty years later she came to Nanjing with a whisper, return to the people's field of vision, but the time has changed.
I don't know if she has ever regretted that when Li Zongsheng invited her to join Rolling Stone Records, she politely rejected her big brother in order to work with Chen Chia-Ming, turning down the opportunity that would have put her on a higher stage.
Maybe you're used to hearing "It's All About the Night", but I love the Cantonese version of "Knowing".
The Cantonese lyrics are just so soulful, there is no such thing as once-in-a-lifetime love, and if there is, it must be vegan; then the rest of it is a knowing offense.
Who also knows that night and night with her that inside
Willing to do your set
Get your love
Still have to get your capriciousness
Can let people enjoy the old song has a lot, can still let people still enjoy people and things should be few and far between, right.
The current Xu Mei Jing
Why tears
Tears still have to be faced alone
Unnecessary burden
How can we not bear to lose
Today's Xu Mei Jing, long past the beautiful years that made her magnificent.
In fact, many of the old love song singers are so fade out, even if one day, we again see them with wrinkles on stage performance, perhaps still will be saddened tears, every woman was once a young girl, is the time and the cruel reality of the young girl's heart rubbed out.
Everything is doomed
Because I am capricious with you
I wish, now keep beside you for you to warm the nest of him, is still you in the youthful ignorance of the live capture of that one.