Penny Dai declared not to be a mom, I think it is just a consideration and choice of each person at different stages, a person's life at each stage of the perception and needs are different, we need to respect each person's own choices, and accept the diversity.
Temporary considerations do not mean that we will always choose this way. There are some women who, for various physical reasons, cannot have children in their lifetime, so what should they do? Those who don't have children in their lifetime can actually have a wonderful life.
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As usual
Most people do what they are told to do when they are old enough to do it, such as getting married and having a baby, and more often than not, it's the little ones that fill their lives. Then people who don't have children for the rest of their lives can lead equally fulfilling lives.
For example, they can have pets, dogs and so on, which can also make their own life full of love, more often than not, it is not the pets need us, but we need pets, animals.
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Freedom and Flexibility
No need to raise a baby, bring up a child, there is no child dependence on the foster, relatively speaking, the time is also more free, the living arrangement is more flexible, such as go out, travel, do their own things, etc..
Most families with children, in fact, big things and small things, basically all around the child, because the child, consider the child's education ah, and other aspects of things, will choose not the same plan and action.
People who have never had children in their lives are free and flexible at this point without having to say much.
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Not begrudge love
Not having children in their life or not having children does not mean that they don't like children, and love is not only confined to the love between blood relatives for them, or their love is wider and bigger.
Don't begrudge love, love the world, and the world will give you more love.
So you can't judge and look at a person with or without children, with or without children, with different eyes, but more importantly, to understand and respect the person's own situation and choice.
Again, there are children, the child is not really belong to you, not you can dominate the call to the reason, strictly speaking, each child is an independent individual, we also have to respect them, only we brought him into the world.
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