Today, the aging of the population is becoming more and more serious, and the life expectancy of the elderly is getting longer and longer. After middle-aged and old people are widowed, they naturally have the need to marry or even start a family. And we see such a strange phenomenon in society, that is:very often, middle-aged and elderly men are looking for wives, while women are not so eager. Why is there such a strange phenomenon? Three old men speak their minds. Old Li:65 years old, actually looking for a free babysitter. Old Li is a retired teacher. His wife has been away for more than ten years. The third year after his wife left, he started looking for a wife and his children supported him. After all, the whole family knows that finding a wife is finding a free nanny for his later years. After all, he was weak and his kids were too busy working to take care of him.
And Lao Li did find a wife, the woman was a few years younger than him, but when they got married the woman said she wanted money and wrote her name on the house book. When Lao Li was with his children, he always felt that he might lose money when the time came. So for now, Lao Li is still alone, with his children all set up for him. When he can't move, he'll be sent to a nursing home. Lao Wang:65 years old and looking for someone to talk to! Old Wang and Old Li are the same age, but their family situations are completely different. Old Wang didn't have any children for most of his life. After his wife left, he sat alone in a big room every day and almost felt depressed.
So he wanted to find a wife, not a free babysitter, but someone he could talk to and spend the rest of his life with ****. Just like what happened to Lao Li, Lao Wang also met a woman who wanted a room and a ticket, not that he didn't want to give it to someone else. But he really can't tell if someone else is sincere or not. Now he also met a woman a few years younger than him at a square dance, and the two got along with each other's feelings, but the other's kids didn't agree, so he had to let it go. Lao Lin:60 years old, always feel young! Old Lin was the owner of a small business when he was young. He has been around women most of his life, so he is used to having women around him.
But once he retired, especially after the sudden death of his wife, he felt empty inside, but the most important point was that he didn't want to live the life of an old man, an old man who didn't want to be alone too soon. In his own words, he felt quite young. If his wife was gone, he could find another young and pretty one. But who knew that his children were quite against him, especially his son, who thought he was old and disrespectful, and even accused him of being angry with his mother because he always did stupid things when he was young. But Old Lin didn't think so. He felt that he was only 60 years old and his life had just begun. Why can't he have a second spring? These are the voices of three middle-aged and elderly people. Although they have different motives for "looking for a wife", they all truly reflect human nature.