First, I am serious about life
1. The influence of the family
I was born in an ordinary family of workers. My mom and dad were honest and loyal workers. They raised a family, took care of the elderly, raised their children, and carried heavy burdens, but they walked every step of the way. They weather the storms of life, bear hardships and stand hard work, are resilient and tenacious, live by heart, and take everyone and everything in life seriously. Dad used to say: "Be true to people, be serious about things, this is life."
My parents' attitude towards life has had a significant impact on the formation of my outlook on life. I studied seriously when I was small, worked pragmatically when I became an adult, and treated the people around me with care in life. Regardless of whether the achievement is big or small, the mood is always very happy, very down-to-earth, and this kind of serious and positive attitude towards life is what I like.
2. I work hard
In the work, I have no special talent. However, I love work, love students. Every time I prepare the lesson I am very serious, try to find the knowledge points and students learning ability of the fit; every student's homework I carefully corrected, in order to targeted tutoring; every open class, I ask for advice from excellent teachers, show the best of themselves ...... I work and learn, constantly enrich themselves, improve themselves. I am slowly emerging, my work performance is recognized by everyone, and my personal work quality has been improved. In the many times conducted teacher training, each training, I am serious about it, seriously write the speech, seriously do the courseware, consider in what way the training so that teachers like to listen, happy to learn, have improved.
I work with a serious attitude, live with enthusiasm, treat people and things with a sincere heart, and create the future with a positive mindset. Just as my father said, work seriously and treat people sincerely, this is the attitude of life. I never make do, I firmly believe that life will treat people with a serious attitude. A person who works seriously, falls in love seriously, and treats people seriously should be worthy of respect.
Second, I am not willing to make do
1. make do is irresponsible
If a person is making do, they themselves are living in the world with a negative attitude, if a person is full of negativity, how can we do things best? How can one make the best of one's life? How can a person who can't treat himself well look to the future, and how can he do the best for those around him. Imagine, a person who makes do with his body, who makes do with his feelings, who makes do with his family, who makes do with his work, who makes do with his future. Such a careless approach to life, people's mood will be increasingly pessimistic, the road of life will be narrower and narrower, themselves and those around them will not have the best life, which is irresponsible performance for themselves and their families.
2. Live together will not be happy
Live together life is not happy, live together is to live. Treating people and things in life, you have to face with the attitude of will, your attitude is casual, you can't enjoy the nature of the birds and flowers, can't experience the husband and wife of the mutual help, can't really do the father and son filial piety, there is no colleague between the sincere treatment. Even you can't plan your life with heart, to create your future, not to mention the purpose to realize their own life planning, reflecting their own value of life. Such a negative you also can not achieve the people around you, such a life will be happy.
Third, how to have a positive life
1. To have the right attitude
At each stage, we must establish our own life goals, and actively pursue and strive to achieve. With optimism, open-minded, sincere attitude towards people and things around you, so that life is positive, happy, only with a positive life, it is possible to have a happy life.
2. Treat yourself well and treat people with care
A person has to treat himself well, this good one refers to the material, one refers to the spiritual. People should study hard to improve themselves; protect the body and mind, to be a healthy person; work hard to serve the community; treat the people around you with care. With heart to heart, love for love, you can get real love, friendship, affection, in order to live in a loving environment, your heart can get real happiness!
Friends, life is so short, so as long as you are fortunate to live in the world, never make do! To face positively, strive for, to live happily, live a wonderful life, live with value, live without complaint!
I am living.
I am grateful to my mom and dad for giving birth to my brother and me. With them we are what we are now.
Since I was a child, my family was not rich, but it did not let us suffer, did not do any housework, and let me know what is life.
Life is the atmosphere, family harmony, will increase the atmosphere of happiness.
Life is communication, good communication, is to respect each person's decision.
Life is loving yourself and those around you. Knowing how to love makes you know how to live better.
Thanks to my mom and dad let me learn to live from childhood, know how to live, in this society, the pressure of competition is so great is in the life rather than make do.
I also hope that everyone can be in the life and not in the make do!
I was born in the early 50s of last century, and am now nearly old. I have always considered myself to be living, and living a real, happy, joyful life.
I was born and raised under the red flag. I grew up under the red flag. I didn't have the pressure of today's children to go to school; after school, I played freely, rolled iron rings, bounced balls (a kind of glass ball), and played hide-and-seek at night, which made me very happy. We grew up singing "We are the successors of ****anism" every day. It can be said to be a carefree life.
In the blink of an eye, the adult, natural employment, to participate in the work. 7, 80s, simple-minded, no unemployment worries, a mind, learn the business, work hard, for the construction of socialism, sweating, contribute to the youth, year after year was rated as an advanced worker. It can be said to be a meaningful life.
In the mid-90s, when I entered middle age, I had two parents to support, and a child in high school. In the critical period of my life, and coincided with the unit efficiency is not good, long years of payroll, and finally laid off.
Our generation, a no culture, two no specialties, there is not afraid of all the difficulties in the determination, have to overcome the difficulties of perseverance. The next day after the layoff, my wife and I set up a breakfast stall on the side of the highway, and contracted five acres of land. The work of selling breakfast is a hard work that a good man can't do and a good man won't do. Cultivating 5 acres of land is hard and tiring, not to mention that I am exhausted after working for 15 to 6 hours a day. But the roof leakage is not even rain, this time I suffered from "necrosis of the femoral head" disease, the leg no day and no night pain, pain all night can not sleep, one night of pain really can not hold out, I said in my heart, tomorrow to the hospital, the leg saw off, it does not hurt, I still have to work, but also to earn money, but also for my son's study in the university. But the day is not yet bright, I got up again, into a new day of busy work, I clenched my teeth and insisted, and then again pain and suffering and tiredness I can also hold out. Every time I took an exam, my child was rewarded for my efforts with the top grade. Whenever I did so, all the pain, suffering and tiredness were already behind me, and all I had was joy, pride and happiness. The first time I saw my son, he was admitted to one of the top universities in China with an excellent score.
In the most critical period of my life, I was unemployed, laid off, without an economic source, with an old man, a young man, no culture, no specialties, the torture of illness, for the family's livelihood, pain and fatigue, multiple pressures, the more pressure, the stronger, and always walk leisurely, full of confidence and hope. Life can be described as bitter ` tired and happy happy.
After retirement, there is a stable pension, life is guaranteed, the son graduated from college after a preferred job. The life of food and clothing is not worried, the day is getting better and better, really sesame seed blossom higher and higher, can be said to be blessed in old age, carefree, happy and fulfilled.
It has always felt like living.
I am 80 years later, married at that time, there is no pressure to buy a house, there is no pressure on the bride price, because I was married naked. At that time, the social culture is still relatively positive, men do not worry about not having a wife, women do not worry about not marrying out.
By the time I got married, my son was born, and it was a gift from God. The joy that my son brought me was the driving force of my life!
Then the loan to buy a house, the county house mortgage pressure is small, we can carry. I think that hard work, the New Year's Eve back home and a warm home, feel like going home on vacation tourism.
Although the long years outside, encountered a lot of frustration, suffered a lot of rows. I think I have a lovely son and a cozy house, so it's worthwhile for me to continue to work hard and live a good life!
Pro old, the child is self-reliant, square dance also left me a seat!
What is life? Life is a cup of water, although the flavor is flat, tasteless, but we can not get away from it, just like fish can not get away from water.
How can we make life flavorful? Like we usually drink tea, a cup of plain water you add some tea leaves in it, then what you taste is another flavor, will make you drink to your mouth feel less boring, with the fragrance of tea.
So life is the same, if you are willing to be ordinary, resting on the status quo, then your life, it is also to make do. Life is very bitter, let a person is very depressing, but we have to learn to take pleasure in the bitter, labor and leisure, let our life a little more color. Life is also a double-edged sword, can let us experience the sweet and sour, joy and sorrow of life, but also can make us become better and stronger.
So life has to be colorful and not just make do. Because as the saying goes: when the sun goes down, there is a day of sorrow and a day of joy. Instead of moping around like this, it is better to meet the baptism of life with a bitter-sweet attitude, which will make our every day more solid.
Thanks for asking if you are living, or just making do, a smooth life is called living, against the wind and the current life is called making do, ← old people often say a word called resignation, blessed people do not need to be busy, no blessed people tired of broken heart, let nature take its course, with the destiny of the life. At the same time, born of parents, sisters and brothers of different characters, different destinies, different life happiness, or their own life, who can do anything about it, half a life can make do is not bad, don't want to make do people, from the wolf's den to escape, there are jumping into the tiger's den, the old man often said, people do not fight with life, but the fate of the family locks, have a life to earn money, have no life to spend money, put the black beans, starving to death cattle, what a person what life, life is hard people complaining about the sky and the earth, just don't know to blame themselves, find their own life, and the life is not a good thing to know. I'm not sure if I know how to blame myself, find my own cause of complaint `, advise myself, endure people can not endure, suffer people can not be suffered, eat the pain in the bitter, in the world of the position of the people on the people, the netizens to mention more insights `
This question is very good! It is both new and universal. If we say that we are living, then our thoughts, emotions, and actions are positive, active and creative, if we say that we just get by, then our behavior shows, passivity, negativity and helplessness. Why are there two very different views of life? The root cause lies in the contradiction between the subjective desire and the objective reality, the world is the same, the sky is the sky, the ground is also the ground, not the same is the ideology we face life. You think life is very beautiful, it is really very beautiful, if you think life is very helpless, it is also really helpless. When faced with a flower, one person may say, "It's beautiful! Another person might say, Isn't it just a flower? What's so beautiful about it? Another person may say, "What does it matter to you if the flower is beautiful? Another says how many days can it be beautiful? Just a flower out of the four points of view, four ideas, but also reflects the four moods, but also inevitably lead to four attitudes towards life.
If the world does not welcome me, then I will create a new world. I can not give others how to live to define, I can only give their own life to find something different. After a good meal, we still have a little spiritual pursuit, but also like to sit alone in the yard or on the balcony, looking at the deep starry sky, can meditate, can be a god, can be a thing of the two forgotten.
Are you happy?
Your heart should be able to answer whether you are happy or not. If you are not happy, what is the reason? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that. Because of the spirit? If you know what the problem is, will you find a way to overcome it? Will you be positive and optimistic in the face of difficulties or confusion?
I live a very full life, I play for their own cozy life, I am proud of their own ideals and efforts, I am still healthy and feel lucky, I can still breathe fresh air to feel contented.
Life, the pursuit of will be full, contentment will be happy.
You're living, or you're making do?
I don't know if this kind of making do with giving is considered making do? In order to live a rounded life, in order to live a smooth life, everyone has more or less this kind of make do nature. From the heart who do not want to make up, but very often have to make up.
But I think I'm still trying to live my life as much as I can, love what I love, do what I want to do, pursue myself, live life to the fullest.
Good evening! That year I walked into a home I was unfamiliar with! From then on I was a member of this family! In later years I became a mom! Has always been the old man child life in the wealth of rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea! I didn't want them to be worse off than they were! But today, it's just that I don't have enough experience in life! It's just that I don't have enough experience in life! I'm stuck for what I've done! Everyone can laugh about it after dinner! There is nothing to do but sigh! Otherwise what ......