Editor / Small Love Letter
"In your heart, free flight, brilliant starlight, eternal wandering ......"
"I want to know the fish in your lotus pond, just to wait with you for the bright white moonlight ......"
Phoenix Legend's songs once became the first choice of square dance music, bright rhythm and melody is loved by everyone.
This pair of China's most successful male-female music duo has been working together for 18 years now, and the long time they have been working together and getting along with each other, we all thought that Linghua and Zeng Yi were a couple, but we didn't realize that the two of them had their own families.
In March 2011, Linghua married her boyfriend Xu Mingzhao in her hometown of Inner Mongolia.
Just why did Linghua Zeng Yi towards the night and day also did not become a couple, and finally chose Xu Mingzhao **** life?
01, Love at first sight, passionate pursuit
2004, Linghua and Zeng Yi officially formed the Phoenix Legends into the singing world. The two were still newcomers to the scene, and often traveled to different parts of the country to perform.
At one of their concerts, Linghua and Xu Mingzhao officially met.
At the time, Xu Mingzhao was still a music editor-in-chief and the host of the concert.
Linghua was just starting out, not as famous as she is today, so she sat quietly on the stage.
As the host, Xu Mingzhao saw this beautiful girl at once.
Perhaps it was fate that made Xu Mingzhao fall y in love with Linghua at first sight.
At the time, Phoenix Legends had just been established, and Linghua and Zeng Yi were running around every day for their careers, so many people wondered if they were a couple, including Xu Mingzhao.
In order to better understand the real relationship between the two, Xu Mingzhao intended to invite the two to dinner, just also explore the bottom.
When he learned that the two were just friends, he took advantage of Linghua's absence to say to Zeng Yi, "I'm ready to chase Linghua, do you think it's possible."
After hearing this, Zeng Yi waved his hand and said, "No way, Linghua won't like your type."
At that time, both the friends around Linghua and the staff thought that Xu Mingzhao would not be successful, and the two of them could not be together.
Because Linghua's first impression of Xu Mingzhao was not good, the three of them ate hot pot, and Linghua felt that Xu Mingzhao's food was too ugly, so she did not like it.
In addition, Xu Mingzhao was not Linghua's favorite type, and she felt that her future partner must not be such a tall, white man, in Linghua's heart, she felt that such a man is not reliable.
But Xu Mingzhao didn't back down because of other people's disapproval, but began to launch a passionate pursuit of Linghua.
At that time, Linghua had just come to Beijing alone to develop her career, and her condition was not very good, and she was lonely and insecure.
Xu Mingzhao began to care about Linghua in every way, from her career to her life.
Linghua is a nervous, very careless girl, sometimes work or business trips always forget things, every time it is Xu Mingzhao thoughtful to help Linghua organize packing.
And the two are a singer, a music editor-in-chief, there are a lot of **** the same language, in the slow understanding, the two people get closer and closer.
Xu Mingzhao's good to Linghua is also seen by everyone, as Linghua's best friend Zeng Yi also intends to set up the two, often pointing out Xu Mingzhao. With the support of his friends around him, Xu Mingzhao's pursuit of his wife is also smoother.
Gradually, Linghua was attracted to such a reliable and stable man, and changed her impression of Xu Mingzhao, and the relationship between the two is slowly warming up.
In 2005, Linghua and Xu Mingzhao officially started their love affair.
02, Love is a long way to go
The love of Linghua, the career also began to take off. 2005 October, the Phoenix Legends successful Avenue of Stars runner-up.
In 2006, a song called "Above the Moon" brought Linghua and Zeng Yi into the limelight.
"Flying Free", "The Most Dazzling Ethnic Wind", "Moonlight in the Lotus Pond", and many other popular songs made the music world a "music wind" belonging to the Phoenix Legends.
With the development of their careers, Linghua and Zeng Yi's schedules are getting busier and busier, and sometimes they can't go home for months.
If someone else were to watch his girlfriend and other men so inseparable, he would be jealous and angry, but Xu Mingzhao is just the opposite.
Not only not angry, but very supportive of Linghua's career, but also Linghua and Zeng Yi more grinding, more rehearsals.
Linghua has also said that Xu Mingzhao is very generous among men and is very understanding.
Linghua and Zeng Yi years of hard work and not easy Xu Mingzhao in the eyes, it can also be said that he is accompanied by the Phoenix Legend step by step over.
As the closest person to Linghua, he naturally understands the weight of the cause in Linghua's heart, so the support and understanding is Xu Mingzhao to bring Linghua the biggest help.
As time passes, Linghua and Xu Mingzhao have ****ed together for seven years of love, and it's time to give each other a new answer sheet and identity.
March 16, 2011, the two held a wedding in Linghua's hometown of Inner Mongolia, sweet happy couple into a son after the stick with the son of a loving couple.
Before the wedding, Linghua has been preparing for the concert related things, while busy with the career, and at the same time do not rest assured that the family, that period of time so that Linghua's body is a little bit unable to eat.
Xu Mingzhao looked at his wife's hard work like this and said to her, "You don't have to worry about the wedding, I can prepare myself."
With her husband's understanding, Linghua became the happiest bride.
After 8 months apart, Zeng Yi also walked into the marriage hall with his longtime girlfriend, Linghua and Xu Mingzhao*** attended his wedding together.
Although Linghua and Xu Mingzhao have been walking for years to fix their marriage, there are many people who don't know the story between them.
When they learned that Linghua and Zeng Yi were married separately, many fans were surprised how Linghua's marriage partner was not Zeng Yi.
In fact, the tacit agreement between the two at work does not mean the same in life, Linghua and Zeng Yi have a big difference in their habits.
And the two have known each other for many years, and have long regarded each other as brotherly friends, it is impossible to come together.
On the day of the wedding, Linghua set the house rules for Xu Mingzhao, and also framed and hung on the wall at home, always reminding her husband.
"Wife said all right, wife at home to accompany his wife, not in the good work. The wife has the right to modify the house rules, the husband only has the right to enforce them."
Although the rules of the house look to be Linghua on Xu Mingzhao's "oppression", but between the lines is Xu Mingzhao on Linghua's favor and tolerance, is the two people for many years of deep affection and witness.
03, Love is like the beginning, happiness is full
After the marriage, Linghua became a happy little woman, Xu Mingzhao to take care of her.
As a singer, Linghua's voice is her weapon. Xu Mingzhao would brew a cup of honey water for Linghua every morning, and has persisted for ten years.
Although this may be a small thing, but ten years as one day is not easy.
Whenever Linghua remembers, she will feel from the bottom of her heart that Xu Mingzhao is really good to herself.
Linghua has to travel a lot because of her work, and every time, Xu Mingzhao helps her to organize her luggage, check her documents, and tell her to stay healthy.
When you come back from a business trip, Xu Mingzhao will ask Linghua what she wants to eat in advance, and prepare it for her in advance, as long as you come home, the table will always be set up with Xu Mingzhao's good food for her.
But life is not only sweet and cozy, sometimes also face conflicts and quarrels.
Linghua and Xu Mingzhao have had many close fights over driving.
Whenever Xu Mingzhao is driving, Linghua always likes to sit on the passenger side and nag him to turn off the high beams, hit the turn signal, and stay away from the car in front of him. ......
Sometimes Xu Mingzhao gets annoyed and breaks down, but he never yells at Linghua.
He said to Linghua, "For the sake of both of our marital security, don't let the two of us get divorced just for the sake of driving, let the driver drive in the future."
And Xu Mingzhao for coaxing his wife is also very good, sometimes Linghua angry will say break up and divorce, but Xu Mingzhao know that this is his wife's angry words.
So he said to Linghua: "I gave you so many years of honey water, you now give me a hundred cups, we will divorce."
Linghua was amused by Xu Mingzhao after hearing this, where she still remembers what quarrel and anger.
In 2013, Phoenix Legend was invited to perform in Beijing TV's variety show "Sing Together", and after the end, the host released a video of Xu Mingzhao's surprise prepared in advance for Linghua.
In the video Xu Mingzhao sang a song called "Old Boy" to send his love to his wife, expressing his full love for her.
Linghua was also very touched by Xu Mingzhao's song, saying, "They say that two people coming together is a blessing that has been cultivated over thousands of years, and I hope that we can grow old together."
The two have been as loving as ever since they got married, but the sweetness of the world of two can't match the warmth of a family of three. Xu Mingzhao wants a child very much, but it is very stressful for Linghua's career.
Xu Mingzhao said to Linghua that I know your career is very important, but you want to think that after ten years, when you two sing on the stage, there are two children sitting under the stage, I think that's the happiest thing in life.
In April 2014, Linghua announced she was pregnant, and three months later, Linghua gave birth to a daughter, and the sweet couple finally ushered in the most precious treasure of their lives.
Life is like a dish, from the moment it is served it contains the sweet and sour of a family. But no matter how hard and tiring life is, a sweet love is always the best seasoning.
Linghua and Xu Mingzhao's seven-year love run eventually ushered in a happy ending, and now the two have been hand in hand for 11 years of married life, still happy and sweet.
Perhaps back then, Linghua would not have thought that she would be with Xu Mingzhao, but love is such an inconclusive, destiny to who can not stop.
As Jacky Cheung sang in "You are the most precious": the future of the day with you to be beautiful, the dream will be true a little more, I learned to be intoxicated in your love, I do not retreat.