The more humble you are, the less you will be cherished by others
Compatriot Yan Jie is free to love, and married thousands of miles away for the so-called love. I even believe my husband said before marriage to support you. After marriage, I have been at home to take care of the children and crops, while my husband worked in a nearby town. My husband is a hardworking man. Through his own hard work, he went from being a bottom worker in a factory to a manager in a company. After Yanjie got married, she stayed at home with her husband and children to take care of the crops and raised both children to be college students, but she didn't grow up. Rather, she did not want to burden her husband for the sake of her children and family, and lived herself into a yellow face in his mouth. Then he found out that her husband had an extramarital affair.
The woman was an employee of her husband's company, a woman with a family and a so-called distant relative of her husband. Xiao Yan also went to the woman's home to find the woman and begged her not to continue with her husband, and even begged the woman's husband to take care of his wife. Who knew that people would bite back? "You can take care of your own man, don't worry about the rest." Even Yanjie pleaded with her husband for the sake of her children not to mess around outside and to take care of her family, so her husband actually told her to mind her own business. Running to her husband's company to change his mind, she either delivers food or chicken soup every day or even spends the whole day at the company.
But after going there for a few days in a row, my husband not only ignored Yanjie, he didn't come home at night. Even once went out to buy groceries met my husband and the woman to go shopping. He felt very angry, but he did not move forward, but silently went home. Because that's when he suddenly let go of such a man. Women really need to settle down, there is really nothing that can not be done. After Yanjie calmed down, she stopped stalking her husband and even began a state of indifference. Instead, her husband responded. Before, he wouldn't answer 10 phone calls. Now I call Yan Jie once a day, but now the person who doesn't answer the phone becomes Yan Jie. Even after coming home, Yanjie doesn't care about her husband. Won't even reach out to her husband for her pocket money.
Chatting, Yan Jie said that Yan Jie had not made the decision not to divorce because he did not know how to tell his children, but he would not ask for a husband again. She asked herself whether she was sorry for her family or her husband, so she had the right to stand and talk to him. Now when she talks to Yanjie again, she won't even talk about herself or her husband because she has really let go. Already in middle age, Yan Jie is improving herself, practicing yoga and square dancing every day. She is not only prettier than before, but also has a sunnier disposition. Although we can't see the sadness of her life, she shows us a superficial charm that at least lets those around her know that she lives a happy life every day. This happiness comes not from others, but from herself, allowing her to live her life with more and more confidence.
A humble attitude in a relationship does not change true love, and marriage is not guaranteed. The more humble the relationship, the more it will make the other party look down on you, and the one who suffers in the end is yourself. So, whenever you find yourself in love with the problem, or the other side no longer love you, do not ask him in a low voice. What you have to do is to go back and examine yourself, and then improve yourself under the principle of maintaining yourself, so that you are getting better and better. Only by getting better and better can you attract more perfect people.