We just graduated from college, my boyfriend has been urging me to get married, what should I do?

I feel like this kind of thing you should talk to your boyfriend, because after all, is just finished college, it is time to find a job, but also to change a person's fate, if you just graduated do not go to look for a job, but go to get married, then on behalf of the boy is not good, because good boys are graduated, the first to go to look for a job or start their own business, not the first to rush to get married, but the first startup! The first thing you need to do is to start a business and get married.

Before, I was also like this, because at that time, I was early love, I just finished high school, because I engaged in high school, after high school graduation, after the examination, he went to my home to find me, to get married with me, do not go to college, directly to start our happy life, I was with him and said, you want to think too good right, because just finished high school, there is no work, and education is not I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this.

So, I said to him that marriage is impossible, I ask you to give up this idea, because we just graduated from high school, a little social experience, even the usual home life needs what is not clear, and the future of the child after who to raise, to find a job no one wants, because we do not have a high level of education, and now looking for a job must be a university graduate, so I still ask you to go back to it. Go back, don't waste your time.

So, whether it is a high school graduate or college graduate, mainly just after graduation to get married, do not agree, because they just want to keep you, is the performance of the low emotional intelligence, so, be sure to talk to their boyfriends clearly.