Some people say that career is an aphrodisiac for men, bearing the confidence and dignity of men. I think career is also a woman's confidence and dignity. Women don't need an aphrodisiac, women need care and understanding!
It is not easy for a woman to go to work and do a mediocre job. That's called hard work, becoming bigger and stronger, and that's called career! At the same time, we must take good care of our family! Even if you have a successful career, there is a bright side in front of you. After work, you will continue to be a good wife and mother, and assume the responsibilities and roles of housewives. You dare not relax at all about children's education, school transportation, family eating and drinking, food, clothing, housing and transportation, family hygiene, and all the trivial things in life.
Women are emotional, and a good word and a compliment from a man will make him happy to take on more. My good friend Ling, a typical traditional woman in China, is gentle as water, a good wife and a good mother. I am distressed that my husband is tired from work. Since the child went to kindergarten, the bus has fallen on her. From kindergarten, primary school, junior high school and senior high school, it has been more than ten years, rain or shine. Get up every morning to prepare breakfast for the family, then call my husband and children to get up for dinner, and then send the children to school after dinner, and my husband will go to work.
For more than ten years, bicycles have been replaced by electric cars, and electric cars have been replaced by cars. Ling's contribution has never changed. At the same time of going to work and taking care of her family, she often recharges herself. At night, she reads until the early hours of the morning. At the age of forty-one, she passed the examination of real estate appraiser and then passed the examination of land appraiser. After working first, she became a professional woman.
At the beginning of my career, I still got up early every day to cook, send my children to school, and arrive at the office at seven in the morning to start my day's work. Exhausted every day, the first thing to do when I get home is to change my shoes and clothes and run to the kitchen. She said she had formed a habit and didn't feel tired. Her husband loves her cooking, so she can't sleep when she gets up early.
In order to take care of their husbands or children and repay their families, men will say "I support you", but for women, they regard their families as their careers, devote themselves wholeheartedly to their careers and try their best.
If a woman who returns to her family is lucky, meets a good man, understands the efforts of women, understands the hardships at home, washes and cooks, takes care of children, does housework and takes care of the elderly, and can give understanding and care from morning till night when she has no leisure, it is simply Amitabha.
If you meet a self-righteous man, it is the hardest to think that he works hard all day to make money! Not only do I not understand women, but I also feel how comfortable and relaxed women are at home every day! Nothing more than buying food, cooking, washing clothes and raising children. Without pressure, you won't go to work. It is his hard work to earn money to support his family. He is raising you. What are you dissatisfied with? What are you dissatisfied with?
Such a person seems to be the savior. At home, he is the boss, because he is the hardest. He was helpless when he met such a man. Why not think about it? Why do women return to the family, not just to take care of this family? In this case, many women choose injustice and choose an unhappy life.
When the children went to primary school, Li resigned at home, took care of the family wholeheartedly and took the children to school. The children's grades are average, and the college entrance examination results are not ideal. Her husband accused her of staying at home every day, being a full-time housewife and not taking care of her children's studies. Sally felt very wronged. She worked hard for many years. She is busy at home from morning till night, and finally complains. Now that she is old, it is difficult for her to go out and look for a job. She has no business experience, so she has to continue to suffer at home and submit to humiliation.
If a woman is in a bad mood, first of all, her body is affected, followed by the family happiness index, and her happiness becomes lower. Although she continues to work hard for her family, the whole person does not feel care and understanding, and feels wronged and depressed, which directly affects family harmony.
Whether a family is happy or not is the effort of two people, not one. It is not easy for men, and it is even harder for women. Understand each other and cherish each other!
Family happiness lies not in how much money you earn, but in how much money you have. But two people respect each other, understand each other, smile every day in life and be happy every day!
If we blame each other, accusing each other of paying less, unequal family status and disharmony in life, then even if we have more money, we are mentally depressed and unhappy, and we can't feel the happiness of our family and life, we will still be worried, anxious and anxious. In the end, women became dissatisfied women, men and angry men. It is not easy for men, nor is it easy for women. Understand each other and cherish each other!