"Are you there?"
"Yes!"
"What are you doing?"
"no!"
……
What are you doing? Generally it can be synonymous with "I miss you".
Why? You can make up for it yourself. If you don't miss someone and you don't care about someone, then do you care about what ta is doing at the moment? Not to mention, you also specialize in WeChat people. I think very few people will have nothing to do when they are full, so just find someone to pass the loneliness and boredom!
Of course, it must be admitted that some people are just idle. This situation is not mentioned for the time being.
What I want to say is that it will be more concise and easy to understand if you understand "what are you doing" with the mentality of understanding "good night". Since "good night" was developed into a sentence pattern of "I love you, love you", I seldom say good night to people with ordinary relationships, especially the opposite sex. After all, this sentence is too ambiguous. If it's the same sex, it's ok, but if it's the opposite sex and the other person has all kinds of ideas about you, it's better to use this word less. Otherwise, let the other person produce all kinds of powerful brain-filling pictures and daydreams, and you will really only have all kinds of heart jams and tragedies.
Say "what are you doing".
In the face of this question, different people must have different answers.
For example, Yang Er, my best friend, suddenly got a WeChat message, Coke, what are you doing? I miss you.
As long as the mobile phone is by my side at that time, I will definitely reply a message about what I am doing and I miss you. Then I started talking nonsense, gossiping for hours, or even one night. I can't help it I have a good relationship. Care about each other.
And if the sender of this message is an irrelevant person, or even someone he doesn't like very much, then my reply will generally be more dramatic. (There should be a charming smile here)
Out of courtesy and self-cultivation, I will reply as long as I see the information.
Of course, if you don't receive the message, that's another matter.
When you are a person on WeChat, well, you have a good impression on him or even a person you like very much, then you have to understand the implication of that person's reply. Otherwise, it is likely to leave all kinds of bad impressions on each other. And your "fantasy" can only get a "then there is no then" ending.
But the premise of "caring about the impression you leave on the other side" is that you are not very miserable and the other side does not really dislike it. Otherwise, your so-called fantasy is actually just your own idea.
Here is a joke to prove it.
If a boy keeps calling you ugly, it means that you are still good-looking, because in the face of a very beautiful girl, the boy will directly evaluate her beauty, while in the face of a really ugly girl, the boy will generally ignore her. (This should be accompanied by a bold Microsoft elegant and black life without love)
For example.
A likes B, but B is ambiguous.
What are you doing?
B: No!
At this point, A should know that B either doesn't want to talk to himself or really doesn't do anything and may have time to chat with himself.
So the second question of A is crucial.
A can talk about what he is doing, and then see B's reaction. If B doesn't show much interest, enough is enough. If B shows interest, then we can talk happily.
However, if all the questions of A are answered by B, that is, "Uh-huh, oh, ah", then A should know better and get out before he gets too deep, because B doesn't like you at all. Only if you don't like it, you will always be perfunctory.
Emotional things, not one party has been working hard, after all, love does not have a work-study program award. It takes two people to say yes together. As long as one party says no, it is useless for the other party to pay more.
Now in my friends list, there are indeed several people who have exactly the same opening remarks and are asking me what I am doing. I can't say that my vanity has greatly expanded, but someone has always thought that he is a happy thing.