"Age is a pig-killing knife, it's really solid."
"So many can not recognize who is who."
"Full of small fresh screen, how green we were then!"
"Now the youngest of us is close to three sheets, all over the early twenties ah!"
Everyone is lamenting the fact that time has flown by, and that the personnel are both different.
Yes, time flies, I came out to work for nearly eight years, the university time and just joined the scene is still vivid in my mind, in a flash, I was not the initial social rash.
In the face of the fact that they are getting older, they have also been unconvinced, slightly sour. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to do it.
I envy the young boys and girls who pass by, they are full of youth, full of collagen; envy those who ride a bicycle speeding past the wind of the teenagers, they have as if inexhaustible energy and unlimited possibilities for the future ......
I once tried my best to catch the tail end of the youth, but by the time I reached the age of thirty, I had no idea what to do.
Ancient clouds, industry waste in the play and destroyed with, we should think about, is how to live, in order to give life the meaning it deserves, in order not to waste time, do not waste time, do not live up to the years. The first thing you need to do is to look back at your life and see if you can still laugh at it.
Some people live to seventy years old and eighty, but most of their lives are over and over, nothing, in vain to this world to walk a time. Some people only live a short two or three decades, but strive to shine, leaving a colorful in history.
Wang Bo, the poet of the early Tang Dynasty, left a lot of heirloom masterpieces in his short career of 27 years, especially his Tengwangge Preface, which is our cultural treasure. Yao Beina died at the age of 32, but she also insisted on trying to sing during her battle with the disease, and her songs such as "Painting Love" and "Red Face Robbery" are popular.
One is to have a goal, to find the direction to move forward. I think that the early part of life to do addition, the middle and late to do subtraction. Before graduation, you can try many things, diversified development, in the enrichment of experience, growth of insights at the same time, to explore their own really good and interested in things. At the time of graduation, we should slowly do subtraction, clear what we want to do in the future, want to become a person, and then eliminate interference, focus on, and work hard towards this goal. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that, but I'm sure you'll be able to do it," he said.
The second is to have a plan, develop the habit of acting according to plan. Everything is not pre-prepared is wasted, to break down the goal into several specific controllable small goals, and then around these small goals to formulate their annual plan, weekly plan and daily plan. Step by step, a little bit to complete the small goal, close to the total goal.
Everyone has only 24 hours in a day, and your time is spent wherever you want it to be. If you brush the phone every night, play games, watch TV, a night so past, day after day, a year after you in addition to the dark circles under the eyes what gained nothing. If you exercise every night for half an hour, learn English for half an hour, read a book for an hour, and still have a lot of time left to have fun, a year later, you can at least have a body that has not blossomed and a mouthful of fluent English, and also finished reading a few books. That's the simple difference between having a plan and not having a plan.
Third, there is persistence, and you can't give up halfway through a setback. In the process of pursuing our dreams, we will always encounter such and such difficulties and challenges, some people therefore retreat, doubt, denial, and even give up, some people are grit their teeth and stick to it, and eventually the darkness will come. Jay Chou, the king of music, was once disheartened when his works were rejected one after another. The famous director Ang Lee also thought of giving up his movie career to study computer technology. The good thing is that they all persevered, so that today's brilliant achievements.
I have often doubted my ability to write, thinking that I might not be the right person for the job, but I believe that hard work is more important than talent, and I have never thought of giving up, even though it is difficult.
Some young people around me are obviously only in their early twenties, but look at their lives, work every day, lazy, indulgent life, or stay at home to play games, or go out with friends to eat, drink, and play mahjong, always a look of lethargy, can not be motivated by anything, as if I have already seen the state of their ten years, twenty years later, fat, greasy, numbness, uninteresting.
On the other hand, a colleague who is in her forties but still looks like she is in her early thirties is trying to run her own small side business in addition to her serious work. She has opened a tea shop and a jewelry store with her friends, accompanied her family to go out on trips during holidays, and even enrolled in classes with her children to learn the piano and Latin, and is dressed up in a sophisticated manner and is very energetic, which makes her more energetic than a lot of young people.
One should get rid of the comfort, love to toss. Love to toss and do subtraction is not contradictory, we have to do is to focus on one or two goals, and then around the goal to make hard toss. Good and evil is human nature, forcing oneself to jump out of the comfort zone is not an easy thing. But opportunity belongs to those who are prepared, and no one can succeed casually.
If you want to get a raise, in addition to working hard, you can also improve your education and title, and work hard to get a variety of qualifications. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes.
Secondly, we need to keep up with the times and love to learn. There is no end to learning, and the industry is endless. For their own hobbies or work on the professional issues of learning and charging, you can sign up for interest classes, you can buy online courses, you can also find free teaching resources online.
Because the work will sometimes use PPT, I feel that the PPT I did was mediocre, nothing bright, so I went to the Internet to watch a few courses on how to make a beautiful PPT, and then benefited a lot. Although English seems to be useless at work, one of my classmates insisted on studying and took the IELTS exam, and then got promoted when the company expanded its business. Anything we learn is not useless, and one day it will come in handy inadvertently.
Thirdly, we should stay away from low-level interest and have moderation. Some young people just out of the society caught a lot of bad habits, smoking, drinking, playing cards, gambling ...... over time, the accumulation of heavy hard to return. We should be wary of the erosion of those styles, cultivate healthy hobbies and interests, and chase the drama, play games, although it is not considered a low level of interest, but there should be some moderation, can not be wasted sleep and food, waste of time.
The same age, will maintain and will not maintain the difference is really quite big, like Guo Degang and Lin Zhiying, like Huang Xiaoming and Huang Bo, like Wang Dongcheng and Song Xiaobao. There is also the recent explosion of Nie Yuan, are about forty years old to play the emperor, Zhang Tielin, Chen Jianbin and the heroine acted like a father and daughter rivalry, he and the heroine's only like a couple, the netizens called sweet. A person to look smaller than the actual age, in addition to innate factors, the acquired self-maintenance is also very important.
One should insist on exercising and finding the right kind of exercise for you. When was the last time you ran? When was the last time you went to the gym? Many people go to work after the "busy" "tired" as an excuse, lack of exercise for many years, resulting in deformation of the body out of shape, and those who insist on exercise can not see how many traces of age.
I have a colleague was very fat, decided to lose weight, he did a fitness card, and insisted on going to the gym every day to exercise a clock, half a year on the 28 pounds of thin, and now everyone to see him exclaimed "the more you live, the younger you are". If you don't have time to go out and exercise, you can also use fractions of time to exercise at home, buy a yoga mat, under a sports APP can be.
Secondly, we need to ensure that sleep, find effective ways to avoid staying up late. The harm of staying up late is well known and needs no elaboration. Long-term rest is not good, the face is dull, depressed, dark circles, chloasma, wrinkles and other problems will gradually appear, buy more expensive skin care products are difficult to repair. Personally, the most effective way I've tried to avoid staying up late is to take a shower earlier. I used to take a shower before going to bed, so I almost always take a shower around 1 a.m. Now I come back and take a shower before doing anything else, and surprisingly I'm able to go to bed on time.
Thirdly, I need to take care of my skin and learn to be more sophisticated. I used to know nothing about skincare, and I didn't even know that there were amino acids and soap-based cleansers. Later on, I watched the fashion section of the B station, and then I slowly paid attention to the beauty and skin care. Previously always be friends flirted with dress too earth, but taste this thing is not overnight can improve, so I used the most stupid method - from head to toe reference Taobao seller show! Love of beauty, do a delicate man or woman, others look pleasing to the eye, they will also be more happy and confident.
Four to maintain self-discipline, can not be greedy for a moment of pleasure. There is a saying on the Keep: self-discipline gives me freedom. Indeed, self-discipline makes the body and mind more comfortable. I am more disciplined on weekdays than on weekends, when I tend to indulge myself by staying at home, staying up late to catch up with dramas and overeating, and thus always feel sick with headaches. Indulging myself only gives me a short-lived pleasure, after which there is a greater emptiness and self-doubt.
Beauty is late, general white head, are regrettable things. If you go with the flow, life is empty, you will be afraid of getting old. If the direction is clear, the days are full, but will be grateful for the years, let us grow as we are.