I think divorce and cheating will definitely increase if life expectancy gets longer.
Why? Life expectancy is getting longer, you're with your wife or husband for more years. Originally life was meant to be long or short. The long feeling is that you feel bored and uninteresting, the short feeling is that you feel that the great springtime is too good, and you want to live a few more years. And life expectancy has increased again, and you feel so bored, you will certainly go to look for new, exciting things. Life is about having fun in time. After facing a withered old face sometimes change a person instantly feel that person is too good, which creates cheating more and more. Why do people cheat, may be because his family was originally very unhappy, may be the wife husband sexual disharmony, there may be their feelings really have problems. Only outside to find a comfort for their empty hearts.
Many people are very opposed to derailment, in fact, I am also, after my husband if derailed, I can not accept. But at least now, I can still understand why some people cheat, they cheat is not a bad person, nor is it the main person responsible for destroying their own family marriage, it is not that they are irresponsible for the family. It's just that they have been repressed for too long, and it's hard to find someone they can look at and talk to, it's like they've grabbed a straw, and he doesn't want to lose it again. But in the face of their own families, and it is difficult to make a choice, not to say put down can be put down. So they chose to hide, sneak around and engage in underground romance, also known as cheating.
Being a cheater is already a common thing, if you live a little longer, the cheater will definitely be more ah. Originally he should have died, died before he could cheat, there was no more chance to cheat. But with a few more years to live, he would have surely made good use of it, to do things he never did, never dared to do. Like cheating, come to think of it I think cheating should still be pretty exciting.
For people who cheat, if it is because of emotional support should be understandable, after all, people are animals with feelings and thoughts. But if cheating is for money, then it should be criticized. We used to have a neighbor, I always think their family is particularly happy and harmonious. But once I went home and heard my mother say they were divorced. The reason was that the man cheated on his wife, and after several times, the man finally divorced his wife. Although they still lived together after the divorce, they were no longer in a relationship. A year later he remarried again, is out of the cheating object. He also tweeted that he had finally made it work, and it felt as if they had been thwarted by too many obstacles, and that it was his good fortune to make it work in his life. The point is that a lot of people say that the man and the woman are together for money, because the woman is the manager of a large supermarket, while the man is just a neighborhood employee. Isn't it hard to understand how they got together, and I don't understand why that woman has her eyes on him. But I believe there is a real possibility that the man is just after the woman's money, he wants to get something for nothing and he doesn't want to bear the burden of his family, I really despise such a person.
Whether cheating or not, it is their own freedom, as long as they feel right with themselves.