At the blink of an eye
We still don't know what we can leave behind for the world
We don't know if we can be remembered
Even to the moment of death, we may not know what the meaning of living is.
South Korea's box-office record-breaking movie "Honey, Don't Cross That River" is a true-to-life movie following a couple who spent 76 years together before suddenly facing death.
The movie has no flashy scenes, and is especially down-to-earth
The movie opens with the grandmother sitting alone at her grandfather's grave, crying like a lost child in the wilderness
The death of her grandfather and Dot changed her life forever
Facing death
Even when we've prepared ourselves for it, we still feel like we have to deal with it when it does come.
Even when we're prepared for it, when it does come, we still feel like we've been abandoned
That unquenchable sadness
Grandma looks up at the void in the back of the room with the kind of eyes that look like the eyes of a person who's already parted from the world and has no attachments to it
No one knows what the world will be like after death
The movie was the third time I've seen it with my mother
The camera is super slow, and it's a very slow, very slow, very slow, very slow, very slow, very slow, very slow. The camera was super slow,
When the camera went back to the past life of the two couples....
When the camera returns to the past life of the two couples, ... the whole camera waits for grandpa to sweep the leaves slowly, and grandpa gathers the leaves together bit by bit
Picking the small yellow flowers for grandma
It's just such a slow camera,
Grandma's legs are not comfortable, grandpa takes grandma's hand to go to the town to see a doctor, and slowly walks on the road full of sunshine
Grandma was bored, she asked grandpa to sing, and grandpa didn't sing at first, and then grandma said she would accompany grandpa to dance. Later, Grandma said she would dance for Grandpa
Just like returning to youth, Grandpa sang and Grandma danced
This is the kind of ordinary life full of bits and pieces that makes us feel especially happy and rare
In the past, some people always said that they don't believe in love any more
For me, it's just that I don't have confidence in myself, I don't believe that I have the ability to love people, to protect a person for a lifetime, and I don't believe that I have the power to protect a person for a lifetime. ability, have the courage to guard a person for the rest of his life
Grandma said, "she was fourteen years old when she married her grandfather, and when it was freezing cold, he came to pick her up, and from then on, he never let her suffer, he never made her angry, and he wouldn't say that the food wasn't good enough to eat, it wasn't good enough to eat. Just eat less."
The two lay in bed together, she said to herself, old companion ah, the two of us who will go first? If we can go together, it would be so nice. ......
Like the leaves in the sunlight, the hearts of those who bask in the sun are warm
There is a poem by Mu Xin, "Once Upon a Time"
Once upon a time, the day became slow
The car, the horse, and the mail were all slow
A lifetime of love is only enough to love someone
A lifetime of love is really enough to love someone
The love of a lifetime is only enough to love someone
The love of a lifetime is only enough to love someone.
The love of one's life is really for one's life
The accident came especially suddenly. Grandpa suddenly got up at night and coughed, and Grandma guarded Grandpa all night, and as if she began to realize what was going on, Grandma began to prepare for the aftermath a little by little, buying clothes for the children who had died so early, arranging Grandpa's clothes, and drying the linen.
Soon their little dog Xiaobu died
When the two husband and wife pushed the cart together to bury Xiaobu, Grandma cried behind Grandpa, holding the bridge railing beside him: "Xiaobu knew that Grandpa was going to go soon, and was afraid that Grandpa would not be able to find him at that place, and then he himself went over there first" Grandma choked up and said: "Soon, I also have to leave with grandpa."
It was the time of parting
Another dog in Grandpa's house became pregnant and gave birth to six puppies
When Grandma washed one of the puppies and held it close to the house
The puppy ran to Grandpa and lay down in front of him, and a new life and a life that was going to be lost, lay together, and the rain dripped from the eaves of the house
Later Grandpa passed away peacefully in hospital
He was in a hospital, and he had to go there for a while. Passed away peacefully
Grandma at Grandpa's grave
Even though she was prepared, Grandma mourned
"He greeted me in the snow, and I sent him off in the snow."
If those who love each other, they are able to hold each other's hands, walked through many roads, seen many landscapes.
Walking through slowly
This may be the best way to treat time
Staying by the side of those who are in love with each other, forgetting the existence of time
The reason for watching this documentary with my mom is that I hope in the rest of my mom's life, she and my dad can be like that, and cherish each other more and more
They can hold hands like that, walk over many bridges and past Many houses.
At night, they slept together and folded the quilt for each other
Cherishing is easier said than done
If all the moms in the world had their dads as the "love of their lives", what a wonderful world it would be!
I still haven't been able to forgive the cruelty of time, but I have more confidence that in this short life, to love someone, to follow a dream, to cherish every moment of life