A few days ago, because of some coincidence, I learned of this book, I ran to find it, intending to read it to pass the leisure time, but when I opened the first page I could not stop my hand turning the pages, as if the back there are still attracted me to explore the place. As a result, the more I read, the harder it was, the more heartbreaking it was, and the more I procrastinated, I stayed on the balcony that afternoon, quietly flipping through the book - standing next to the young girl, Fang Siqi, and taking part in the nightmare of her teenage years and her "love". The sunlight outside the window playfully danced through the window around the body, warm, but the mood is like in the rainy day leakage of the broken hayloft, damp and cold and throbbing pain.
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The language of this book is really beautiful, beautiful, very beautiful, in the words of the author, Eugene Lin, it is beautiful and loving language, but I tasted a different bitter flavor behind this beauty. Her words are crying, bleeding, and begging for help.
I think "Fang Siqi's Paradise of First Love" is telling us three very important things
First, the charm and power of language
Second, sex education for teenagers and the establishment of the concept of right and wrong
Third, the equality of rights between the sexes
"Yiting, I'm long gone from being myself, and that's the nostalgia I feel for myself"
"Yiting, I am not myself. Nostalgia"
On one side, he said: I want to vent the stress of life on you, this is my way of being in you.
Warmth and goodness. Warmth is bodily fluids, goodness is physical strength, congratulations are first blood, frugality is condoms, and concessions are life.
"You have to know that your beauty doesn't belong to you, it belongs to everyone, so it had to belong to me"
As Lin Yihan said in the interview, the language of this book is beautiful, even the words that come out of Li's mouth are literate and virtuous, seductive love words. Even Lee's words are literary and seductive, provided they are not addressed to his schoolgirls "immersed in a virtual pink bubble".
The power of words is to find humor in the most inhumane of contexts, and not to make a spectacle of it, but to be quietly happy. The text is the same love poem that you can recite to your fifty-year-old wife or fifteen-year-old lover. Then there are the words that come out of Li Guohua's mouth, he can take care of his wife's youthful schoolgirls before the matter is revealed, and after the matter is revealed, all the responsibility is pushed away, and the fault is Siqi, and then continue to look for a new "target" for seduction, cajoling, and inculcating the evil in the name of love.
As Siqi's diary reads, "Writing a suicide note would be too much like acting. If I did, I would only write one sentence: This love makes me so uncomfortable."
Up to this point, SiQi still believes in the "love" that Li Guohua instilled in her, and only "love" can make this incident less abnormal.
Li Guohua, in his capacity as a teacher and talent, accompanied by elegant and touching words of love, to the ignorant and inexperienced female students, inculcating the sin of "love", so much so that Guo Xiaoqi again by him to deal with the time of the bitter pleading: "Teacher, I love you ah, I with that senior, nothing, just a classmate, I really do not know what to say. I have nothing to do with that senior, just a classmate, the person I really love is you, the teacher", while Li Guohua "disposed of" Xiaoqi reason is that Siqi came to Taipei, the two can no longer be in the same house, yes, that is, the same house, the girls have the key to go over to accompany Li at any time to the place that is known as "home", the place that is known as "home". The place called "home", the place where the unscrupulous homeroom teacher Cai Liang drove the clueless female students to give "teacher counseling". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new bag, and when you throw it out the door, you'll see Xiaoqi sitting in front of the door, begging like a dog, and you'll feel like it's a long, long, long, long, long, long, long, long scene, and it's so beautiful!
It can not be denied that language is full of charm is also full of power! Otherwise, there will not be so many people in real life who suffer from aggression after the fear of being able to drown people's spittle and not dare to bring the wrongdoers to justice; otherwise there will not be so many people who are overwhelmed by life to seek help on the network, but instead of the idea of lightness of life so as to put an end to their own precious life; otherwise there will not be a big hit of the explosion of the article rose up and pointed to the depths of the heart, so that people to introspection to look at their own! ......
Two, sex education for teenagers
Siqi said to her mother, while pretending not to care, that our family seems to have no shortage of education, just a lack of sex education.
As a result, SiQi got a reply from her mother, who said, "Education is for those who need it, and you don't need it, so why do you need sex education".
At home, while organizing her luggage, SiQi said to her mother in an innocent tone: "I heard that there is a student at school with the teacher," "Who?" "I don't know." "Don't know." "Such a slut at such a young age." Siqi stopped talking, she decided for a split second that she would never speak again in her life.
This conversation is SiQi before going to school in Taipei, packing with mom said, SiQi in fact have to try to go to the side of the people to ask for help, but before asking for help, she will be implicitly test the other side of the matter of the opinion, to mom, to YiWen sister, but ultimately, she was "imprisoned" in the LiGuoHua full of poetry and songs "poetry and songs". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.
It's true that teenage girls don't need sex, but they do need sex education! Not only do girls need it, but boys need it too! It is because most parents have been closed to sex education knowledge, so that the teenagers in the "sex" like an illiterate general ignorance, they may be closed to the parents of the "sex knowledge" to produce strong curiosity, so that *** invite the same! They may be so curious about what their parents say about sex that they invite their equally curious friends to discuss the mysteries of sex with them. They may not know anything about the "sex knowledge" that their parents don't talk about, so they are hurt by those who deliberately coax them? They may ......
Which of these possibilities is not heartbreaking, so teenagers are in great need of relevant sex education to fill their already colorful youth. The need for sex education for teenagers has become an urgent necessity!
Siki wrote in her diary, "I realized that the whole thing could have been reduced to this: he stuck it in, and I apologized for it."
What a heartbreaking story, the little SiQi can not, so LiGuoHua said "with the mouth can also", SiQi like did not complete the teacher's homework assignments to LiGuoHua general apology, the whole thing is SiQi diary wrote as "he hard inserted, and I apologize for it! "
Please teach teens some appropriate sexual knowledge, so they know what behavior is not supposed to happen when, what behavior is violating them, do not let more SiQi appeared!
Three, the equality of the rights of the sexes
Since then twenty years, Li found the world there are beautiful girls user him, love him. He found that society is too convenient for sexual emergency dry, rape a girl, the world feels that it is her own fault, even she feels that it is her own fault, guilt will drive her back to him. Guilt is the ancient and pedigreed sheepdog.
In earlier times, the Chinese nation was the focus of the patriarchal, girls were called "money-losing goods", while the boy is the family's baby bumps, to the Chinese people **** and after the establishment of the country everyone began to advocate for equality between men and women. However, from a variety of reports, gender equality has not penetrated into the hearts and minds of everyone.
The girl was molested on the bus, people would say wearing so little, not molest you molest who;
The girl was drugged in the bar, was taken to do illegal acts, people would say, the girl to go to what bar, not drug you drug who;
The girl was alone home from work, was tailed by the followers of the rape, people would say, look so beautiful, not rape you rape who;
The girl was harassed by a man, but she was not a woman, and the woman was not a man.
The girl was harassed, people will say, flies do not bite seamless eggs, you also can not go ......
I do not know why, no matter what the girl to wear, where to go, what to do, as long as the woman was harassed that must be the woman's own mistakes, and the abuser a little bit of a problem. I don't know why, but if a woman is assaulted, it's her fault, and the abuser has no problem with it at all.
Why isn't there a guy being molested on the bus, and people are saying, "The guy was wearing so little, don't molest him, molest who?
Why is it that no boy is drugged in a bar and taken to do wrongdoing, and people say, "What kind of bar does a boy go to, if he doesn't drug you, who does he drug?
Why is it that no boy has ever come home from work alone and been raped by a follower, and then people say, "That man is so handsome, who would he rape if he didn't rape him?
Why is it that when a boy is harassed, people say, "No fly can bite a seamless egg, and the man is no better?
In the era when everyone is clamoring for equality between men and women, there are still most people who do not take it seriously, and still hold men's rights in the palm of their hands
In the era when everyone is clamoring for equality between men and women, there are still female babies, female students, and women who are being abducted and sold;
In the era when everyone is clamoring for equality between men and women, there are still women who are being regarded as vulnerable groups and being harassed, and then being attacked by the language, and then being attacked by the people. By those who make it difficult to breathe foul language ......
So, from this book we can also read the unequal rights of the two sexes, I just hope that the equality of rights of the two sexes can soon penetrate into the hearts of the people, into the practice, not just on paper, do not let more SiQi appeared, one more SiQi appeared to be at least three more families to suffer. The pain of the world's most important people is not only the pain of the world's most important people.
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