It is said that: "the young couple old to accompany", that is to say, in the hearts of the vast majority of us, people to the late years that is, after old age, the most reliable and can still count on the people, can only be their partners, after all, the couple with each other over the decades, the two people each other not only exists in a long time, but also a strong affection. The most important thing is that you can count on your partner to be there for you, after all.
This look says it is all right, but sometimes, the development of things but more is beyond our imagination, to put it bluntly, people to the late years of the most can rely on the person, not our partner, but "other people", then this person in the end who is it? Let's listen to what the 60-year-old aunt said.
My husband and I are working in the same company when I met, then my husband's family is very bad, his parents are farmers, he also has a younger brother and sister, he as the eldest son of the family, earned which a little salary most of them are mailed home, he only stayed in a very small part.
Perhaps his kind of manly sense of responsibility, or perhaps his hard work and down-to-earth hard work attracted me, at that time, although I was around there is no lack of many suitors, but I still have no choice but to choose to be with him, the two of us talked about more than half a year's love and then married.
When we got married, we rented a two-bedroom apartment not far from our company, and the conditions were particularly tough, but I think as long as the people we love are together, everything will slowly get better, after all, we are still young.
After we got married more than a year later, I was pregnant, my husband was very happy, he immediately sent me back to his hometown, so that his parents to take care of my life during pregnancy, he also repeatedly urged me to give birth to a child at home, working to earn money to him on the line, I was doubly pleased!
Later, with the birth of the daughter, I really took up, at home to raise the child and take care of the old man's heavy responsibility, in the care of the child and the old man's problem, I do not dare to say that I do how good and impeccable, but at least I feel that I can still afford to be on their conscience.
I do at home "housewife" at the same time, my husband with his own efforts, his career is also doing a "boom", he has been from an ordinary employee, to the position of the company's senior management, it is reasonable to say that the two of us a good day! The first thing I did was to get the money to pay for a new job, and then I had to pay for a new one.
With the husband's career more and more big, his temper and character has become more and more poor, we are this is no less quarrel and conflict, the husband is a drop of alcohol does not stain the person, and now he has become a "drunkard", almost every day is drunk back, and then he even a month are The first time I saw him was when he was in the hospital, and he was in the hospital for a month.
Daughter's age is growing day by day, and the feelings between me and my husband are deteriorating, I was still fantasizing, maybe only when the real old, I and my husband between this situation will slowly ease, to the time when my husband will be more and more cherish and good to me, but unfortunately, all of my good wishes on the again and again fell through.
Many years have passed, my husband and I have been to the twilight of the year, and my daughter has been married into a family, there are their own children, and the relationship between my husband and I, but still in a state of warmth, until one thing happened, only to let me completely recognize the husband's "real face! "
That year, I went to the hospital with other good sisters to do a physical examination, but the results show that my health status of some problems, I need to insert the instrument hospitalized for observation and treatment for a period of time, at that time my heart don't mention how difficult it is, and my instinctive first reaction is to give their husbands to call.
While my husband received the phone call, but not too much concern about my condition, on the contrary, it is a "hospitalization needs how much money, I will give you to turn over, I'm now busy with business it can not take care of you, you find a caregiver it! The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said, adding that the company has been working on a number of projects in the past few years.
I put down the phone, then tears down the cheeks slowly downstream, I did not dream of, and then we have been decades, but who had thought, in my most need for help and warmth of the time, my husband is such an attitude, which is too hurt my heart, it seems to be old to companion this three words, in my place is a living joke.
In my mood more and more low and difficult time, I did not expect, my daughter did not know where to learn the news of my hospitalization, she not only came, but also with my little grandson a come to take care of me, I was excited about the feelings of the really is beyond words.
In the days when I was hospitalized, my daughter really did her best to take care of me, and all of my food and drink and sleep problems were completed by my daughter alone, looking at my daughter's thin body, my heart is really a mixed bag, I don't know what to say.
I have not once persuaded my daughter to go home, after all, she still has children to take care of, but my daughter just does not agree, she also said to take care of me, this is something she should do, she let me rest assured that do not think, other things to her on the line.
Half a month later, I was finally discharged from the hospital, the daughter also assured that back to their own homes to go, through this incident, I also fully realize and feel that people to the old age of the closest people can only be their own children, the old man is most likely to be unreliable.
Perhaps what happened to Auntie Sun is just a case, it can not replace all of us, but the occurrence of this incident, but also to all of us a wake-up call, that is to say, the old man if you want to get the children's dedication to the care of the elderly, we must be in the young and single-minded treatment of their own children, which is essential to an important step.
And at the same time as our aunt Sun's husband, perhaps you feel that they did not take care of their wives, with their own this or that reason and reason, but you have to know, everyone has encountered the unfortunate time, when you were how to treat their wives, then your wife is very likely to be how to you.
So, as our men and our women to speak, we have to understand a truth, anyone who does not know how tomorrow will be, the accident may happen at any time in our own body, therefore, people no matter what time, they have to give themselves a way out, to facilitate others is to facilitate their own.