In the entertainment circle, when it comes to short-haired actresses with temperament and charisma, I think there are two most typical ones: Sun Li and Ma Yili.
When it comes to Ma Yili's love history, leaving aside the various scandalous love affairs in her youth, her two stories with Guan Hu and Article alone make people feel that she is a particular failure in terms of relationships.
Ma Yili's independent personality
Born in 1976, Ma Yili grew up in a very ordinary family, her parents were less than junior high school education is the most common double workers.
While the family was not particularly well off, Ma Yili was raised as a "rich white beauty", which is not a favor, but a cultivation of self-confidence and temperament.
When she was in the second grade of elementary school, her parents sent her to a tutoring class because they couldn't tutor her because of their limited knowledge, and they struggled to make ends meet.
After that, Ma Yi Li fell in love with art, and her father enrolled her in an art class without saying a word. Every day when she practiced in the dance class, her father waited outside, waiting for two hours.
With regard to her studies and life, her parents never treated her as a delicate girl, warning her not to do anything less than a boy.
It was in this environment that Ma developed an independent, strong and confident character, even a bit forceful.
There is a saying in "My First Half Life" that instead of letting others take umbrellas, it is better to take umbrellas for yourself, and this is the case in study, work and life, so the earlier you do this preparation, the better.
This is very much like the first half of Ma Yili's life.
Because of the tomboyish nature of her upbringing, you can't see the tenderness of a woman in Ma Yili a lot of the time.
If you are facing a career, it is easy for such a son to be successful, but if you are facing a relationship, it is very likely that you will be in conflict with the other party because of your personality.
Obviously, Ma Yili's career is a success and her relationship is a failure.
In 1998, Ma Yili graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy, stepped into the film and television circle, has filmed "Black Hole", "The Past Life", "Xishi eyes", "Returning Pearl Ⅲ of the Heavenly Palace", "Qiao family compound" and other film and television drama.
While the author's most memorable works are "The Defense of Marriage", "Little Daddy", "Up North Doesn't Believe in Tears", and "The First Half of My Life", because these several have a **** the same point is that the characters played by Ma Yili in the dramas are all very independent, headstrong and strong.
This is really like Ma Yili's true colors.
Ma Yili and Guan Hu
When it comes to Ma Yili's relationship, she has always been curious about what kind of man would fall into her eyes, and looking through her love history, it's not hard to find out that the type of man she prefers is either tall and handsome or talented.
She liked a senior brother during her college days, and the two fell in love at first sight. The boy was tall and handsome, and he took good care of Ma Yili. It was like the love of youthful ignorance, very simple and sweet.
The relationship didn't have much at stake and didn't go through any ups and downs, so after they graduated, they went their separate ways and broke up.
And the man who really made Ma Yili love him to the bone was indeed Guan Hu, who is eight years older than her.
Born in 1968, Guan Hu graduated from the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy and met Ma in 1999.
Before that, although Guan Hu had directed some works, the response was mediocre, and he had not really been recognized by the market, so his fame was still very low, and he was like a talented scholar waiting for his chance to come.
In 2000, Guan Hu invited Ma Yili to take part in a TV series called "Black Hole," which starred Tao Zeru and Chen Daoming, and Ma Yili's role in the series was only that of a "third party girl.
But even so, Ma Yili showed off her skills, and her performance in the play was remarkable, as many stars in that era had not yet become famous, including Huang Bo, who had a good relationship with Guan Hu, and only showed his face in the play.
Through the play, Ma Yili clearly recognized what kind of man Guan Hu was, and Guan Hu was also attracted by this young and beautiful woman with personality.
Before the movie was finished, the two fell in love, and at the time, many people said they were a talented couple.
What I didn't realize was that the drama "Black Hole" was a hit, and Guan Hu became famous, so he once again made several works, with "Winter Solstice", "Seven Days", "Survival of the Civilian Workers", "Emergency Link", "alive, really good" and other TV dramas to quickly gain a firm foothold.
And at this time, Ma Yili, because of her boyfriend Guan Hu's relationship, resources are getting better and better.
Not only the theater and Guan Hu co-produced "Xishi Eyes", but also got the "Pearl Palace III of Heaven and Earth" heroine Xia Ziwei such a role.
In the years of love with Guan Hu, whether it is career or feelings, give people the feeling that each other to find the right person, each other in the achievement, in time, the two are absolutely extraordinary.
But the problem is that the two can work well together in the theater, but in the relationship, the two contradictions gradually revealed.
Because the two are more and more red, so the work is more and more busy, get together and leave more often, at first Guan Hu would like to let Ma Yili reduce the work, focus on the home, but the strong Ma Yili will not be willing to do the woman behind it.
Because of this, the conflict between the two is getting more and more intense, often appear cold war scene, and it is at this time, Ma Yili's girlfriend Liang Jing appeared.
Life, girlfriends are the most worthy of friendship and trust, so Ma Yili and Guan Hu's feelings, Liang Jing knows everything, as a good friend, every time the two quarrelled, it was Liang Jing in which to adjust.
One way or another, Liang Jing has become the object of Ma Yili and Guan Hu's feelings. As the saying goes, what kind of people will have what kind of friends, so Liang Jing's personality is very much like that of Ma Yili, but she has a little bit more tenderness and patience of a woman than Ma Yili.
Men, and then strong also afraid of women's tenderness, Guan Hu is no exception.
Before Ma Yili and Guan Hu broke up, many people did not know what kind of story Liang Jing and Guan Hu had. But since 2004, when the two announced their breakup, it didn't take long for Guan Hu to hold hands with Liang Jing, and that hand-holding went straight into marriage.
This incident, Ma Yili never dreamed that his ex-boyfriend would come together with his best friend, let her more difficult is that when Guan Hu and Liang Jing produced feelings, she is oblivious to, perhaps after the breakup, perhaps before the breakup.
But for these rumors, Ma Yili has never stated the truth, she is still immersed in the sadness with Guan Hu.
Many years later, and friends have talked about the relationship, Ma Yili said she has no regrets, because the beginning and the result are their own doing.
In her eyes, Guan Hu is a person with high attainment in art, but in life, like a child, need people to take care of him.
She added: "You can't change Guan Hu's personality, otherwise, his achievements in art will be lower, I can only let nature take its course."
Leaving the man eight years older, Ma Yili never dreamed of a future where she would marry a man eight years younger than herself.
What she couldn't have imagined more was that the man she would marry in the future would also betray her.
Ma Yili and Article
The story of Ma Yili and Article is already a household name, so I won't go into details.
It's worth noting that there was a little story before they got together.
In 2007, Ma Yili had two productions on the air, "Struggle" with Tong Dawei, Wen and Li Xiaolu, and "Where is Happiness" with Jia Yiping and Zhang Bo.
At that time, in these two dramas, Ma Yili had a scandal with Tong Dawei, Article and Zhang Bo respectively.
The situation is a bit complicated, specifically, Ma Yili and Tong Dawei knew each other very early, Tong Dawei also had a love for Ma Yili very early, coupled with the "Struggle" this drama Tong Dawei and Ma Yili play a couple relationship, so the two are often in contact with the gossip.
And the article at that time debut only two or three years, into the cast after the Ma Yili, but then at most a kind of crush, and then again at that time the article has a girlfriend.
But to our surprise, Ma Yili was rumored to be with Zhang Bo, who was said to be very attentive and caring on the set, and Ma Yili often went in and out of the show in pairs with Zhang Bo.
And Zhang Bo and the article is a classmate relationship, so in the see Zhang Bo and Ma Yili fight in the heat of the day, the article can not help it, decisively broke up with his girlfriend, joined the pursuit of Ma Yili team.
At first, Ma Yili accepted Zhang Bo, because at that time the article had a girlfriend, so she was not too much to come, but saw the article for her breakup, but also can not resist the strong pursuit of the offensive.
In the end, Zhang Bo was eliminated, and Wen Wen was promoted, after which Ma Yili and Wen Wen fell in love, got married, and had a daughter.
At first, the outside world was unanimously unimpressed with the eight-year-old sibling love, but seeing that they have both gone through so many stories, the pair's feelings remain the same, and many people began to believe in their admiration for their relationship.
And the article because of this eight years old wife, in the circle of resources is also getting better and better, gradually from supporting roles to starring role, it is said that Teng Huatao can appreciate the article, is because of Ma Yili's introduction.
But hell knows, in 2011 when the article and Yao Di shooting "Naked Wedding Times", the two actually rubbed the spark of love.
I vaguely remember Ma Yili's classic line "Let's walk and cherish" after the revelation of his story with Yao Di in 2014, which is still regarded as one of the five most savored words in a marital relationship.
But, five years later, Ma Yili and Wen still officially announced their divorce!
In this marriage, many people scorned the article is scum, this is the article life can not wash away the stain, and for Ma Yili forgave the article, the outside world is even more to give her labeled "understanding of the big body" good woman.
But no one knows how much her heart ached at that moment, faced with her own man cheating on her, not only could not be angry, but also had to appear on the network to calm the storm.
She didn't expect to be such a flop in the world of relationships.
Before the divorce, many people said that Ma Yili's strong and domineering character was smoothed out, but five years later, the divorce, so that people again feel that Ma Yili has never compromised.
It is important to know that at the time of the article cheating, Ma Yili faded out of the acting circle, and it is the period of pregnancy, she knows that the divorce can not bring any benefits to themselves, so she chose to hold back.
5 years, so that Ma Yili back to the screen, the child also grew up without having to worry about, in everything back to Ma Yili's control, she will no longer need the article, this time to announce the divorce, for her hundred percent.
But looking back at the first half of Ma Yili's life, although there are gains and losses, but in the world of feelings, she is still a loser compared to Sun Li.