Good intentions to teach my mother-in-law to dance square dance, and finally ruined my marriage, why?

Today, compared to the past, people's lives are also a lot better than before, you can say that basically do not worry about food and clothing, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will not go hungry.

And all kinds of leisure and entertainment facilities have been built, even many small towns and villages, have built squares for people to relax and enjoy.

There are squares, then there must be a group of square dancing moncler outlet, many young people hate square dancing, feel disturbed by their lives.

In fact, the square dance on the moncler outlet store has a lot of benefits, now the pace of life is fast, the young people are busy with their own careers, basically not much time to take care of the elderly.

Many old people are lonely, especially the kind of old people whose partners have passed away, going to the square dance not only allows the old people to find some friends, but also exercise, can be said to be the best of both worlds.

Because they and their husbands are busy at work, there is not much time to take care of their mothers-in-law, and they like to go fishing and their mothers-in-law don't want to go, so early every morning, they go out and fish alone.

Junru's mother-in-law is not very old, just 56 years old this year, now the son and daughter-in-law are capable, the two old people will retire early to enjoy the old age.

But her mother-in-law was not very educated, and she could do housework all her life, so she didn't know what to do all day long after she was free.

Junru has recently been teaching her mother-in-law how to dance, so that she can have something to do every day and not be left alone at home to enjoy the loneliness.

Originally, my mother-in-law was a little embarrassed, but after a long time of persuasion, she was willing to learn, and she downloaded a few square dance videos for her, so that when she had time, she would teach her, and when she didn't have time, she would learn on her own.

Later, as she practiced, she slowly began to run to the nearby park, where many old people were dancing during the day and at night.

After a period of time in which her mother-in-law went dancing, not only did her health improve, but her poor sleep was also resolved, and the family praised Junru for coming up with a good idea.

What Junru didn't realize, however, was that her good intentions of teaching her mother-in-law to dance had laid a huge hidden problem for her marriage.

Since her mother-in-law often went to the square dance alone and didn't dance very well, obviously a novice, a man ran up and hit on her.

The man was a good dancer, cleanly dressed, about the same age, and particularly energetic in his dancing.

And the man also took care of his mother-in-law when she danced with him. When she couldn't keep up, he would slowly lead her to dance, and after a while, the two became regular dance partners.

Every time and each other in the dance together mother-in-law feel very happy, the man every day dressed properly, mother-in-law gradually began to dress up their own, dress themselves up beautifully. Slowly, the two people actually have some good feelings, but each other did not poke, after all, are so old, and also have a family.

Later, the square dance leader signed up for a square dance competition, and the mother-in-law and her dance partner were selected to go to the field for the competition.

The husband and father-in-law, although they support the mother-in-law to go to the square dance, but do not support the mother-in-law to participate in any competition, saying that it is a scam of the old people's money, but the mother-in-law insisted on going, this is the first time that we have a disagreement because of the square dance. It was also after this competition came back, the mother-in-law and dance partner closer, and finally directly together, had an affair.

Paper can't hold fire, the mother-in-law and dance partner ambiguous thing, has spread in the square dance team, except that the mother-in-law is usually out alone, people do not know where the mother-in-law lives. It wasn't until a woman followed her to the door that my family learned about my mother-in-law's affair, and the woman's sentence, "You're so shameless," made my family look stupid.

Later, I learned that this woman was the wife of my mother-in-law's square dance partner, and that she left our house after making a big fuss over her. It did not take long for this matter to spread throughout the neighborhood, the husband and father-in-law scolded the mother-in-law shameless, so old but also the whole evening. However, what Junru didn't expect is that her husband and father-in-law slowly turned the conflict to herself, believing that she taught her mother-in-law to square dance, which caused such a situation.

A good home, every day is a constant quarrel, after a week of stalemate, and her husband Junru divorced, Junru how did not expect to teach her mother-in-law to dance square dance to make the end of their marriage.

Marriage requires loyalty, but marriage requires more management.

This thing seems to be a big problem for the mother-in-law, but in fact, the father-in-law also has an unshirkable responsibility, as the saying goes: "The young couple old age." The father-in-law every day himself just think to go fishing, knowing that his wife will not be anything, should take his wife together, rather than leave her at home. Even if his wife doesn't like fishing, then she can still have other things to do, so it's obvious that everyone is selfish for themselves, so don't talk about any feelings.

Causing the mother-in-law's feelings to favor others, surely not only this point, there must be a lot of problems between the couple has not been exposed. After such a thing happened to the mother-in-law, people actually put the blame on the daughter-in-law, it is a bit ridiculous, and the son also divorced the daughter-in-law.

Such a man is also nothing to bear, and even less sense of right and wrong, as the saying goes: "like father, like son", the son is such a father is no better, then why the mother-in-law emotionally biased in favor of others, explains it. However, the last word, betrayal of marriage is still immoral, if there is really no feelings, then divorce to find their own happiness again.