Shaohua easy to pass, youth is easy to old.
Time, really is the world's most fair thing, people live a life, and ultimately can not be avoided, is just the old age and death of the four words.
Young, all the hardships in front of the age, often more than a fearless determination, and once began to age, the original belongs to the normal iteration of life are prone to make people sentimental.
Old age, originally is a continuous process of loss, but also from the lively gradually to the lonely journey.
Previously, I often heard the idea that raising a child is a defense against old age, but the reality is that there are many examples that tell us that this may not be the case.
In fact, when you are old, the "secret" of happiness in old age is not the old partner, nor the children. They are both a kind of companion in your life, but can't mean forever.
In the end, you will find that everything still depends on yourself.
First of all, you have to have a healthy body
After the person is old, to still have a healthy body is already a gift from God.
Once I heard a 70-year-old man say this sentence: "People in this life ah, no matter what the pursuit of what, in the end is nothing but an empty, only their own health, old age in order to be less tortured. "
The old man, a birth of four children, in fact, her children in general, are still more filial, every now and then will go back to visit her.
It is just that the children have their own homes, responsibilities and burdens on their shoulders, and the arrow of love is always down, and many times there will inevitably be neglected.
The old man said, "As long as one's health is good, everything is fine, one can move, can walk, can eat well, the later years will not be too bad, if the body collapsed, can only lie in bed, no matter how many children you have, the quality of life can not be good."
So, in later years, focusing on personal health, eating regularly, not eating what you can't eat, and developing a good habit is a very important thing.
Of course, the most important thing is to try to be as young as possible when you have to lay a good foundation for the physical condition of old age, so that they do physical health.
At the end of one's life, gold is not expensive enough, but health is worth a thousand dollars.
Secondly, you need to have an open and optimistic mind.
In the face of old age, do not be pessimistic, everyone's life is so experienced, you are not the first, nor will it be the last.
You are just a drop in the ocean in this world's torrent, very small, but in the world of individuals, but also incredibly grand and important.
Zhou Guoping once wrote this sentence in his book: I realized that after middle age, we should gradually establish two aspects of awareness, on the one hand, to reach a reconciliation with the inevitable defects of life, and on the other hand, the fundamental value of life to know how to cherish.
In fact, it is even more important to do so in one's old age.
Having an open and optimistic mind, being your own spiritual pillar, not feeling sorry for yourself and living in anxiety and pain all day long is already a blessing in your old age.
People in their old age, to learn to appreciate the beauty of life in the smallest places, viewing their own age landscape.
Life at different ages will have different scenery.
It is like another passage in Zhou Guoping's book: When we are young, we are immersed in the landscape, and the landscape is one, we can't appreciate it yet, and the appreciators are still our parents and others. When we grow up, we will more or less appreciate the scenery of our own age, look at the romance and loneliness of our youth, look at the maturity and hard work of our prime. Then, old age is coming, well, let us stand outside the shell, laugh at their own full of gray hair, wrinkles, footsteps, mood calm, serenely appreciate the last landscape of their lives.
People in this life, live to the end, often live is a good state of mind.
The same thing, some people can only see which is not good, full of sadness, while some people can learn to learn the bitter sweet, own a different kind of beauty.
People in their old age, it is better to look at everything a little more open, accept can not be changed, thanks to their own have. No matter what, we should try to live a full life, so that we can walk the last journey of life.
Lastly, don't worry about your kids, just mind your own business
They like to worry, and it's best to change that in your old age.
As the old saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own blessings, children's affairs, do not bother, or manage their own on the line, so as not to help not to mention the actual favor, but also affect their mood.
Some time ago, I just heard my mom say that an old man in his hometown lost money because of his son's business, and he didn't think twice about it, and he was worried about it, which led him to fall ill.
Actually, it's not that serious, and the old man's son wasn't even that worried.
In the end, it is still a kind of aftereffect left by the habitual worrying in the young. But in spite of this, when people get old, they still need to be more relaxed, open a lot of things, everything more to their own priority.
After all, if you really get sick, it's not a burden on your kids, so it's more trouble than it's worth.
Of course, as a child, you also need to pay attention to one thing: a lot of things that you know will make your parents worry, don't tell them again, but just two more people worry about it, and it can't play any real role.
Loneliness in old age
After people get old, it is always customary to link life with loneliness.
Friends are getting fewer and fewer, emotions are becoming more and more indifferent, the people who are with us are getting farther and farther away, the body's aging is accelerating, and a simple action when you were young may be an ordeal to do. These, perhaps when talking about it, always make people who have not yet experienced it feel a kind of worry and fear.
And in the end, we must all slowly come to terms with loneliness.
Because no one can share this process of growing old for you, not your children, not your partner.
It's one of life's trials and tribulations, and one that everyone must endure. Anyone's life will go through a lot of wind and rain, and tell a story that is not a twisted and winding story.
Flower blossoms and falls, spring, summer, fall and winter natural change.
Who can not avoid old age, can only be in the life of the inevitable, adjust the mentality, well prepared, try to use a peaceful state, dignified walk through the last course of life.