How can people respect each other and live in harmony? This issue really gives people a headache. I don't know why I'm still being treated like this at my age, but it makes me feel like I have no place to go, and my self-esteem that I've built up over my lifetime has been shattered in no time. The original was disliked by people taste so difficult, I really understand.
I am a rural woman and have lived in the countryside all my life. I'm not sure if I've ever been to a place like ours where there's not much to talk about, but naturally I can't compare it to people born and raised in the city, I'll admit that. However, I am not that is very slovenly women, home and outside the home, or every day will be cleaned, although not spotless, but also the windows are clean, I have never been said by others dirty, lazy, can not do and so on, this kind of word has nothing to do with me. My partner died a few years ago, when my son was in the city to study in the fourth year of college, also almost graduated, we are not the kind of very rich family, but also not lack of food, is not feel very difficult to live in the kind of people.
After graduation, my son was looking for a job in the city, and he got married and started a family a short time ago, and everything went very well. The first thing I did was to get my hands on a new car, and I was able to get it to work. I didn't want to leave the countryside where I'd lived for decades, and I thought I'd be able to live a good life in this kind of environment, and I didn't have to worry about being alone, but I couldn't help but agree with my son. Daughter-in-law is a quite clean, in my opinion, more or less some cleanliness of the city girl, she came back from the outside, the soles of shoes have to be sprayed with alcohol to disinfect, and other aspects of the natural need to say nothing more. But since I came over, she is still quite polite to me, we still get along well on the surface, did not produce what contradiction and unpleasant.
Just a month or so ago, every Saturday my daughter-in-law forced me to dance in the square, I do not want to go can not, she gave the reason is that the elderly have to be more active, to go there can make more friends, life is also rich and colorful some of the, I think, she is also a good intention, will listen to. Once I had a sudden stomach ache and didn't want to go to the toilet outside, so I came back early. At that time, the door was not closed, I gently pushed and opened. When I walked in, I found my daughter-in-law in the kitchen cooking and sterilizing my towels. She and my son didn't notice that I was back, and she said loudly that I was unclean, and that if she hadn't found a way to get rid of me, I didn't know how many germs would have been on my things. My son told her she was being fussy, and she was all upset, saying she had never seen anyone as careless and sloppy as me.
It was only at this point that I realized that she had always had a dislike for me, but had hidden it from my son. At that time, I froze in place for a long time, the two of them saw me suddenly appeared, also a little panicked. My son saw me tears in the eyes inside the spinning, busy comfort me, said I think too much, but I don't quite believe it, also think that live on, I and my daughter-in-law when the contradiction will be more and more, everyone said, I should go back to my hometown?