Some people say, everything is most afraid of the heart, I think this may be with the old man Wang said the meaning of this, there is a different flavor of it!
Everything has a heart, the world is flavorful, even if it is an extremely ordinary life.
When running in the morning, I often meet a woman older than me ten years old, a person running, occasionally to run, often encountered, met a number of times, but not inevitably familiar with, at first every time I met will be tacit understanding of nodding and smiling, is to say hello, and then ripe will be a hitched a few words of conversation.
She has a very good figure, a son who is already working, and a husband who is working abroad, leaving her alone to keep the house and live a quiet life.
*** with the same hobby, *** with the same character, so that the language between us more and more, slowly from the beginning to talk about running, talk about exercise, talk about the impact of exercise on the body and physical fitness, talk about the most popular way of exercise - square dance, yoga to talk about life, talk about life. Nothing to talk about, seemingly unenthusiastic to get along, but there is more and more tacit understanding within.
"Like us, the lowest level of society's ordinary people, life has become a foregone conclusion, ordinary has no power to change, just so calm and stable life, but also very good." The way she said this with a serious face made me respect her. This kind of "resignation" like helplessness, not only do not let me feel negative, but also have a real sense of solidity. Her self-identified "ordinary and common" concept, the source of a thousand sails through the calm, not a life of misery scared of negative pessimism, which is not to yield to the cruelty of reality, but rather a kind of wisdom is like a fool's truth?
Some people say, the benevolent man enjoys the mountains, the wise man enjoys the water. I don't know if people like me who like mountains and also like water are benevolent and wise, but I know that there is nothing wrong with mediocrity in fact.
"That's it", three words once let me so terrible, so shudder, every time I hear a sense of horror, often speechless to this kind of stereotypical thinking of the unenlightened and "ordinary, ordinary" of the peace of mind, but now I am I think the idea of "just like that" is actually a kind of vigilance in life, but also a kind of self-respect and protection.
A person's life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns, like a sine function, from the beginning to the end, all the way up and down, endless changes, no one's life is a smooth river.
Life is brilliant, or ordinary ordinary, is a normal, no need to blame yourself, more need not make a fuss. No matter how successful, ultimately to flow into the mediocrity of life.
Suffering is one of the best universities, some people in the watch, some people in the escape, some people go forward. How to live are lovely, if you love it y. How to live are very good.
Everything has a heart, the earth is flavorful. Not a negative escape, but precisely an optimistic face, the face of life's bitterness and happiness, the face of life as intended and not as intended, with the heart is good.
Leisurely mediocrity, a person get up to write and read, do a good job of breakfast, cleaning and cleaning, serving flowers and plants, morning exercise, listening to music, sunshine ...... morning days are basically so wasted.
No joy, no sadness, no calculations, no utilitarianism, there are just indifferent to the release of fame and fortune and the reassurance of the end of a thousand sails, no and who is long, there is just met is a good peace of mind and comfortable. The faraway place is less attached, also less want to go to see the impulse and anxiety to go to see. Occasionally, the end of the morning exercise will dig wild vegetables, or pick wildflowers, home to find a vase randomly inserted, simple and real, the heart is often full of love, properly created some of the rituals of life.
and a side of the edge of the people chatting, nothing to do with the set, nothing to do with the sincere pay, there are just happy and talk about talking about gossip, chatting about the family, talk about gossip, casually casually, the other name who, from where, where to go, what have done, joy, anger, sadness and happiness ...... everything is a fan, everything is not a fan, simple and natural! The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of the situation and how it is going to affect your life.
Sometimes will tease the children, tease small pets, see the airplane, or kites occasionally wantonly fly through the azure sky ...... back to basics, everything is just good look.
Simple lunch, are the favorite delicious, real and bland fireworks on earth. Who said that the days should be exhausted into a struggle, and who said that living should strive to succeed, otherwise what are the two kinds of salted fish, the only heart is at ease is the best daily.
The work will still work hard, but will not affect the daily life, after all, the work has never let your life has been a big leap, so you can be at peace with not breaking the ground for the sake of those illusory cake consume too much energy.
Work and love is the same, in fact, is the most down-to-earth things, is the most mundane and realistic, work is the dependence on life, not realistic point will be sorry for the life, love and the spirit of the dye, do not care will be sorry for their own, pay no return on things, always will not be too much heart.
Just as there is no free lunch in the world, there is no work in the world that does not count. The fact that a person's virtue does not match his or her position and that a person's position does not retain his or her virtue is both a nuisance and a folly.
Feelings are also, emotional world no one is a fool, just sometimes feelings greater than reason, only to make people lose dignity, the world, any kind of feelings, who cares about, who used the heart, who will lose, the end of the scattered people scattered, sentimental and righteous people a lifetime of entanglement. I only wish to be able to accompany the people I love and love me in the ordinary days to waste time together.
Everything has a heart, the earth can have flavor. The care must be with the heart, with the heart must be cared for. The only way to get to the top of the world is to have a human touch.
Because of this sentence, I often guess will, Wang Lao should be a gentle and elegant, calm and relaxed, idle and comfortable scholar seems to be a natural optimism.
With this conjecture, to understand the works of Wang Lao, found that he wrote a novel has a light and elegant shine the beauty of human nature; write the food people recall; write the humor of the little people; by Jia Pingwa, Shen Congwen, Mo Yan, double Xuedao, Feng Tang and other famous modern writers, can be said to be everyone in the everyone.
And to really read Wang Zengqi, we have to see the pessimistic undertones of his heart, in order to find support or fun in life. Just like if you focus all your attention on making money, career, house, car, people will be vulgar, even if you get worldly success, you must be at a loss inside.
Some people say that Wang Lao is a wonderful pessimist. But I think pessimistic people may also have an advantage, that is, it is easier to appreciate the tiny beauty of life, Wang Zengqi is the most knowledgeable writer, the most literary cook.
Wang Zengqi, who has experienced the twists and turns of life, has used his pen to create a utopian world of beauty for the world. He used words to explore the true and good side of human nature, and used warmth and purity to wash away the bitterness, melancholy and confusion of this world.
Just as Wang's son said: "Dad always showed the best things to everyone, and kept the suffering things in his heart, because he felt that even when he was desperate again, he must give a ray of hope that will never be cut off"
Just as what Wang Zengqi said in "All Things Considered, All Things Tasted Good on Earth":
We have had all sorts of traumas, but we should live happily today. should be fastidious.
Whose life has no suffering, failure? If you use your heart, you have no regrets. The two power to take their own weight, two power to take their own light, think about it, then look down.
Life is a practice, try to live into their favorite appearance is the best. Some people are always trying to please others, to please the world, and change themselves, until they lost themselves.
The world, the hustle and bustle of fame and fortune, there will always be such and such a temptation, if you are busy, and forget to look at their own, will be buried in the prosperity of the bright, it is difficult to find the original that clean and simple self.
There is always a kind of people in the world, the wind and rain, life with heart, peace of mind, calm and quiet, the world is independent, the heart is full of loneliness and cool, not for the outside world is disturbed, such people, often in accordance with their own favorite look to live, because the heart has incense, and will not be burdened.
The people who can really live a happy life are usually those who are full of heart, down-to-earth, simple, and do not have high requirements for material conditions.
Everything is afraid of the heart, everything has a heart, the earth is flavorful.