The real life is good, often learn to steal which "lazy" people, especially to the middle age, do not believe it?
One: gossip, lazy care
Who is not said, who is not said behind, when you live in the mouth of others, you are also lost in their own hearts. Neighbor's wife is due to listen to the left and right neighborhood street room gossip, and daughter-in-law's association with the military, to the end of the living gas itself to the hospital clinic, but also let the child's married life came to an end, my grandma that has long been 72 heard of the grandmother, shouting that the old lady Li confused, originally should be a family of peace and beauty, was gossip ruined needless to say, but also to let these people have seen these sayings ridicule. We can use strong norms to require themselves, but we can never block the mouths of others, sometimes happiness is not due to obtain more, but rather catty less, a thousand efforts to pursue the perfection of other people's undoubtedly, attach importance to other people's point of view, not only is it easy to be used, but also will continue to labor and sadness.
Second: bad thing villain, lazy anger
Daily we are in and different people and different things with, inevitably encountered some of the powerful villain and less than ideal things, but I have always remembered to the heart of a sentence, not with the villain morale, not with trivial anger, because of such a person to ignore him, is considered to be the highest harm to him, that kind of thing, to forget it is considered to be an effective method. That kind of people and things, such as rotten danger, and they are entangled in the end to fall a fishy needless to say, can not be washed needless to say, will continue to fall deeper and deeper, to amuse their good fortune, consume the blessing of everyone, and is not a big misfortune, precisely this kind of scum trivia. Learned not to think too much, lazy and this kind of messy anger, and then bad people, also take you have no temper, and then bad things, are going to become old things, will be slowly forgotten.
Three: do not want too much, lazy worry
People in this life is only a hundred and eighty years old, worried about a day of music is also a day to think too much, inevitably worry and anxiety more, if you remember that we are in a hurry to rush through, just to the world to walk through, some trivial trivial where it is worth thinking too much of it life is fragmented, there is always a dishwasher, cleaning the house is not finished, do not finish the work, the work is not finished, the work is not finished. Life is fragmented, there are always endless dishes to wash, cleaning endless house, do not finish the work, a lot of things are due to think too much, have obsessive and produce an incorrect judgment, we have to do is to let the heart to let go a little bit of empty, a little bit of laziness, instead of letting them up and down their emotions. Think too much people are more likely to suffer, because too much repetitive thinking is usually will let itself fall into the trough of the emotions and its painful state of mind, do not want to be too much, lazy worry, not only a kind of cheerful or a kind of open-mindedness.