Of course, people should compare with each other, how can we have a better one if we don't compare with each other? Of course, there is no relationship between motivation and comparison, everyone has their own goals, and the struggle for their own goals is the manifestation of motivation! It is very simple for people to be contented, that is, to achieve their own goals is good, do not have to look toward other people's goals! Looking at other people's goals, never be satisfied!
Between being content and not being content, we tend to be more content because it makes us open-minded. If there is nothing to ask for, nothing to need, there will not be too much load on the mind. In a contented state of mind, everything becomes reasonable, normal, and open, so what unrealistic desires and demands will we have?
Learning to be content, we can treat everything in front of us with a transcendent mentality, not to be happy with things, not to be sad, not to be a slave to the world's utilitarian
, not for the dust of all kinds of disturbances, ties, troubles, and make their own life continue to sublimate; learning to be content, we can only be in the society today's increasingly intense materialistic and dazzling, confusing the world of the gods
The world of the world of the world, the world of the world of the world of the world of the world. Get rid of vanity, spoiled, see the mountain heart quiet, see the lake heart wide, see the tree heart simple, see the star heart bright ......
How should a person be, to be contentedHow to say it! I think if people are satisfied when it is time to die, not satisfied to live with the power of interesting.
How should people learn to be strong?
To be strong in the face of difficulties, the method is not "bear" tears, but your heart can really withstand! If you are really strong, then you will not be able to face the difficulties of tears, not with your strong to "bear" tears. Your character is not strong enough, because you have experienced too little to bear too little, too much smooth sailing. Our generation of only child, parents spoiled too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, in the difficult time, we will always hide behind them, see them solve, see them bear. And they are old, a lot of things can only be our own to bear the time, we have been used to fear. No one is born strong, strong people are only after a lot of experience, know how to bear it. To become strong, you need to know how to go through. When misfortune and pain really hit, once is very painful; the second time, maybe you will be better; the third time, maybe you learn to comfort yourself; the fourth time, maybe you begin to calm down ...... one day when misfortune comes again, you no longer cry, but calmly think, smile and comfort and you suffer the same people!
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How should people learn to be grateful?Gratitude should start from the smallest point in life, from the smallest thing in life, to every person who has helped you, seriously say thank you.
Children surround their parents and bring joy to them, and parents need to learn to be grateful that their children come to them.
When you go to school, the teacher teaches the students knowledge tirelessly, and the students learn to be thankful and return to society later.
The roadside does not know the way, ask strangers for directions, they answered your questions and enthusiastically take you to your destination, learn to be grateful, because she did not take you as a bad guy.
There are so many practical examples of how to be thankful in life, always be thankful, how you are to the world, then how the world will be to you.
People need to learn to be grateful, especially for those who have helped them grow, including their own competitors! Receiving the grace of a drop of water, when the spring to return, since ancient China has a very good culture of gratitude. Only those who know how to be grateful will honor their parents and be loyal to the company. So always be grateful, so that the leadership will be more assured to reuse and promote you. For competitors, always be thankful in order to turn the war into peace.
In a person's life, small as it is, from childhood onwards, we have received the grace of parental upbringing, and so on to school, there are teachers of the education of the grace of the work after the leadership, colleagues of the care and help of the grace of the older, but also inevitably have to accept the support of the elders, the grace of the care of the big as a single member of the community, we live in a multi-level social environment, first from this environment, and then from the big environment, and then from the big environment, and then from the big environment. Gratitude shows that a person has a correct understanding of his relationship with others and society; repayment is a sense of responsibility that arises from this correct understanding. Without the gratitude and repayment of the members of society, it is hard to imagine that a society can develop normally. In the air of thanksgiving, people can be calm about many things; in the air of thanksgiving, people can seriously and pragmatically start from the smallest thing; in the air of thanksgiving, people spontaneously and really do strict discipline and leniency; in the air of thanksgiving, people face up to the mistakes and help each other; in the air of thanksgiving, people won't feel their own solitude! ......
The road of life, twists and turns, I do not know how many difficulties and obstacles, and even encounter setbacks and failures. In the moment of crisis, someone to you to extend a warm hand, lifting the life of the predicament; someone for you to point out the confusion, so that you are clear about the direction of progress; and even someone with the shoulders, body you up, so that you climbed the peak of life ...... you finally overcame the suffering, sailed away, sailing to the other side of the bright and happy. So, can you not be grateful? Can you not think of return? The key to gratitude lies in the consciousness of return. In return, it is to nurture, cultivate, teach, guide, help, support and even rescue their own hearts and minds, and through their own ten times, hundred times pay, with practical action to be repaid.
"Gratitude" is an imported word, and the Oxford Dictionary defines "gratitude" as "the willingness to show appreciation for the benefits received and to give back to others". "Gratitude" is because we live in this world, everything, including grass and trees, have a favor for us!
"Gratitude" is a kind of recognition.
"Gratitude" is a kind of recognition. This kind of recognition should be a kind of recognition from our hearts. We live in nature, nature gives us too many gifts. No one can live without nature, this is the simplest truth. Gratitude" for the sun is the realization of warmth, and "gratitude" for the blue sky is our recognition of the purity of the blue nothing. Gratitude" for the grassland is our admiration for the "wildfire, spring breeze blowing again". The "gratitude" for the sea is a kind of listening to the concurrent collection.
"Gratitude" is a kind of return. We come out of our mother's womb, and then she feeds us with her milk. And what's even greater is that a mother never expects anything from her. Just like the sun gives her warmth to us every day and never asks for anything in return, but we must understand "gratitude".
"Gratitude" is a kind of admiration. It is an admiration that should gush out from our veins.
"Gratitude" is to express gratitude for all the help given to all the things in the world, and to remember it;
"Gratitude" is the indispensable sunshine and rainfall in the life of each of us, and it should not be missing for a moment.
"Gratitude" is an expression of gratitude for favors, and is the emotion that haunts the heart of every person who does not forget the kindness of others. Learning to be grateful is to polish the dusty heart and not to numb, learning to be grateful is to be unrewarded for a little pay forever in the heart. For example, thanks to the parents who have given their lives for our growth.
"Gratitude" is a philosophy of life, a great wisdom in life. Gratitude can dissolve all the internal grudges, gratitude can wash away all the dust in the world. Life in the world, can not be smooth sailing, all kinds of failure, helplessness need us to face bravely, open-minded to deal with.
"Gratitude" is an attitude of life, is a virtue, is a piece of heart. If there is a lack of gratitude between people, it will inevitably lead to cold interpersonal relationships, so everyone should learn to be "thankful", which is especially important for children nowadays. This is especially important for children nowadays, because they are the center of the family, and they only know themselves, but do not know how to love others. Therefore, to make them learn to be "thankful" is actually to make them learn to respect others. Grateful for the help of others, gratitude education lets children know that everyone is enjoying the happiness that others bring to their lives through giving. When children thank others for their good deeds, the first reaction is often that they should do the same in the future, which gives children a behavioral implication, so that they know from childhood to love others and help others.
"Gratitude" is a person's innate nature, is a person's indelible conscience, but also a modern society, successful people healthy character performance, a person even do not know the gratitude of people must have a cold heart. On the road of life, at any time will produce touching things of gratitude. Not to mention the family, is daily life, work, study, encountered things encountered by the people to give every bit of care and help, are worthy of our hearts to remember grace, remember the selfless beauty of humanity and do not want to return the favor of help. Gratitude is not just to pay back, because some of the favor is we can not return, some of the favor is not equal to the amount of return can be a clear, but only with a pure heart to move to inscribe to remember, in order to really afford to give you the favor of the people.
"Gratitude" is the basis of respect. In the moral value of the coordinate system, the origin of the coordinates is "I", I and others, I and society, I and nature, all the relations are launched by the subject "I". Respect is the starting point of self-esteem, respect for others, society, nature, knowledge, and the pursuit of the meaning of life in mutual respect with others and society, as well as in harmony with nature, to show and develop their own independent personality. Gratitude is the spiritual underpinning of all good non-intellectual factors, gratitude is the fulcrum of learning to be a human being; gratitude makes the world so colorful, gratitude makes us so beautiful!
"Gratitude" is a beautiful feeling, without a grateful heart, the child can never really know how to honor his parents, understand the people who help him, and even less initiative to help others. Let the children know that thanking those who love and help them is an important part of moral education.
In this regard, the Americans can be modeled. From Abraham in 1863, President Abraham Lincoln declared Thanksgiving as a national holiday. In the intervening two hundred years, the annual thanksgiving event has spread from small places. It is a holiday of gratitude and love. Americans gather for a special prayer to thank and celebrate God's mercy and favor over the past year. In addition, it has become a social event, with large baskets placed in front of supermarkets for people to leave a share of food for the poor who have nothing to eat, and *** authorities, schools and churches prepare large quantities of food and open their doors to distribute it to the homeless. What is even more remarkable is that children, who are usually carefree, knock on the doors of their neighbors' houses to collect food on this day with great care. It also fosters a sense of helping the poor from an early age, giving themselves and all Americans the opportunity to do good.
This makes me realize something. If you think about it, there are really a lot of things we can be thankful for: for the love of our parents, for the food we eat, for the clothes we wear, for the houses we live in, for the beds we sleep in, for the lights we have, for our health, for the education of our teachers, for all the family members and friends who have helped and supported us, and for all the people we didn't even know in the old days, for the music that accompanied us when we were lonely, and for the other person who could talk to us.... ...and thank God! So, we can simply and plainly say that if you feel left out, abandoned, or betrayed by a friendship, perhaps you should try to reach out to someone else first, and learn to be grateful for something. (Of course, this may also be the medicine you need to lift your spirits.)
Gratitude is a healthy state of mind that makes the human body and mind better adapted to society and nature. The chain reaction that an act of gratitude can bring about may infectively change everyone around us, including ourselves. A soul-stirring or pleasant sound of gratitude never causes misunderstanding, and it is the simplest and easiest way to cross all barriers on earth without borders and make the world a more harmonious and happier place, isn't it? So we have to learn to be grateful -
In order to life can precipitate a rational.
That the basketball world flyer Jordan in the star-studded NBA game retired, we probably never see his soaring figure. This may be a permanent heartbreak. More perhaps, we should be thankful: thanks to Jordan to bring out of the magic of the ball skills and five NBA championship splendor, thanks to his never-say-die, never give up the strong fighting spirit.
In order to life can add a calm and release.
On April 1 last year, Leslie Cheung really did "only once in a lifetime to go down to the ground of the bird", countless fans are for him sad tears. Including this year's April Fool's Day, once again rainy. "The sky leaves no trace! But I have flown ~~~" Yes, after all, we have "who ****ing", "Silence is Golden" can be sung over and over again, as well as "Sinister Spirit", "Fei Zhengzhuan", "Farewell My Concubine" can be recalled.
Learning to be grateful can be regarded as a lesson that needs to be remedied in life. I remember a visit to the middle school teacher, to express to her deep in the heart of the thoughts, felt her eyes seem to flash with tears of excitement. I then thought, even if we don't express our gratitude to those who help us in time, it doesn't matter, the key is not to forget to look into each other's eyes and say, "Thank you! The gratitude.
The path of life, no matter how keen to single-handedly "lone hero", or the sky horse, alone, always off the environment. Each success is from the people, nature, all kinds of forces combined due to, but also in love, affection, friendship under the baking. Traditionally, the Chinese people have been talking about the grace of nurturing, the grace of knowing, the grace of lifting, the grace of life-saving, should we not advocate the "know the grace of repayment", "a drop of water, the spring to repay" style? Although we do not have Thanksgiving Day, but we should also learn to appreciate something, for themselves, but also for their own living in this land?
Ancient people say, "Do not forget to give, do not forget to be given". Learn to be grateful, so that life can be a little lighter, the future will be sunshine. So I will use everything I can do to thank the world, with all the power to repay everything.
Should people learn to know enough often?"Those who know enough are always happy". That is, people should learn to be satisfied, and only when they learn to be contented, will they experience where the joy of life lies.
If a person does not know what is contentment, always think that everything in this world is unfair to him, can not meet his heart's desire. He then always thinks that everything is unfair to him. Will such a person experience the joy of life? Of course not, because he is always feeling unfair for his own dissatisfaction, always angry for his own dissatisfaction. Such a person would have no joy to speak of.
In fact, there is always something wrong with a person living in the world, and if everyone is angry about it, then how many people in the world have to die of anger. If a person doesn't know what it means to be contented, he always thinks that everything in this world is unfair to him and cannot fulfill his heart's desire. He then always thinks that everything is unfair to him. Will such a person experience the joy of life? Of course not, because he is always feeling unfair for his own dissatisfaction, always angry for his own dissatisfaction. Such a person would have no joy to speak of.
In fact, a person living in the world will always have some things that are not as good as they should be, and if everyone is angry about this, then the world is not sure how many people to be angry. The phrase "those who know enough are always happy" is to let people know what is contentment. The first thing you need to know is to know how to cherish and own.
Think of the trials and tribulations, you are a weak person, you will think that life has no meaning for you, but if you are a strong person, you for any trials and tribulations, that is just a test of life. But if you're a strong person, you're just a test of life for any ordeal. And if you're a person who knows how to cherish, you'll always think that your ordeal is nothing compared to the ordeal of others.
The first thing you need to know is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life, and that's why you need to be able to get the best out of your life. But some people don't know how to cherish, without any fulfillment of life, always think that anyone is better off than him, and thus become greedy and insatiable. Those who put themselves on the path of crime, is it not because he does not know how to cherish and does not know what fulfillment is.
Learning to cherish what you have will give you a sense of fulfillment, and you will experience the joy of life.
The old man can be satisfied with what he has, but the young people still want to have something! Do not not seek to have much only seek the ability of the largest, you say not!
How should women learn to socialize
Smile ah, and the attitude of treating people ah, not every good at socializing people are the words of the flood. But what to say must be said, the other drink flattery or something does not matter. In your case, it is best to find a shrewd point of the seniors, play a good relationship, so that he / she more to give you a point to point, on the road naturally.
How should a woman learn to be strongThere must be a reason, you also said earlier: "My husband used to be very understanding," as to why it will
appeared as you said: "The last six months more than the old is not moving to sulk and make other people uncomfortable sometimes he
will drive me to the hospital, and then I will be able to go to the hospital, and then I will be able to go to the hospital. p>
Will drive me away and now he even hit me". You find your own reasons, you have to communicate with your husband
communication, husband and wife two words what words do not speak properly have to start a fight it, find the cause of the symptoms to the root
cure. From your text did not see the reason, so do not know how to give advice you.