The Little Prince said, "Ritual is to make a day different from other days, to make a moment different from other moments!"
Wang Xiaobo said, "It is not enough for a man to have this life and this world, he should also have a poetic world. Our life needs some sense of ceremony, it is a kind of reverence, a kind of beauty, a kind of delicacy, an attitude, it doesn't need to be done for others to see, it only needs you to be attentive from the inside to the outside, so that the ordinary life is full of unique touches."
The sense of ceremony is actually not far away from us, just turn around in daily life within reach, it just depends on whether you are willing to do it or not. Cooking spend a little more effort to do a delicate platter; hard day off work, a warm hug; married when the wedding, banquet family and friends, so that everyone witness their happiness; birthday please three or five friends together to hold a birthday party to celebrate, and everyone to share their happiness ...... these big or small behavior, all belong to the sense of ceremony.
Why does life need a sense of ceremony?
Most of the time in real life, we repeat the two-point-one range of activities, repeat the mechanical monotony of the work, life gradually as a pool of stagnant water like no waves. We need to ritual this "source of living water" to their own boring life injection of vitality, reshaping the "sky light and clouds *** wandering" of the living life.
Ordinary and trivial days, the sense of ceremony is to please oneself. It can make you look forward to life, add interest to your boring life, make your mood refreshing, get rid of boredom.
More often than not, we live ourselves into a "brown man", used to complaining about the dullness of life, but not willing to make any changes.
In fact, it's not that life is boring, it's just that you don't have the means to make it interesting.
DouDou is an exhibition hall designer, and working late at night is the norm for her. But even if the work is tired, she has to dress up and go to work, and she never gets involved when her colleagues complain about their work.
Leisure time, love of life, her daily schedule is also very full, to learn street dance, English, baking, enrollment in a variety of outdoor sports, etc., and constantly enrich themselves, and strive to make their own life full of rituals, full of fun.
She said, "Work can be very tiring and boring sometimes, but life is my own, I want to make myself face life beautifully every day, make my life full of rituals, and spend every day in a fulfilling way, not letting myself down, not complaining all the time, and not wasting time."
Son is not a fish, how to know the joy of the fish, life has a sense of ceremony in her, although busy, but live more than we are more full of interesting, confirmed the eyes, is a delicate piggy girl la.
The sense of ceremony is not only to please oneself, but also to please others. In order to your so-called sense of ceremony, get yourself as well as the people around you are very tired, that will go against our original intention, so to grasp the degree.