Many middle-aged women believe that days when their husbands aren't home are just the peak of life. I didn't used to be married and I thought it was great to spend time with the person I loved, but now I think it's important for couples to have separate spaces as well. That's what middle-aged women think. His company had an event in another location and traveled for three days in a row. When he says he's traveling, I'm still happy no matter what. At the end of the day, I can comfortably sleep alone in a queen-sized bed, and at the end of the day, I can lie down on my back and lie down as I please.
Daddy is like this, I want it when I don't have it and sometimes I find it a bit of a hassle. I don't have to cook or take the kids out of the dining room when he's not there. Not too cool. Don't have to look at his stinky clothes and socks and throw them out without looking at him, get dressed and talk about the mountains on the internet, or spend months hiking and wilderness traveling with friends while trying to walk. Casual strolls. There's always a sense of frustration when couples stay together for long periods of time. Especially these days, women are so busy during the day during the day that they don't have any free time. When I get home, I have to take care of the house and attend to my children and husband. After a long day at work, I have to struggle. Who still has time to kill. When you are in love, there are no children, no housework, and no pressure to borrow money, but once you are married, all kinds of trivialities come to you, and it is not easy to say that you love you. As a result, I have always felt that young people jump at random when they are not pressured to do so. After all, youth doesn't pass. Once baptized, it is impossible to have a pure heart.
Life is a constant beating process, hammer after hammer, breaking yourself into pieces and being torn to shreds. The two most stable periods for a middle-aged woman are when her husband is away on business and when her children are at school. The whole world is quiet, except for the clicking of the washing machine and the ticking of the house clock. At this time, you are very aware that you are alive and well. I think men probably feel the same way. Sometimes the other half goes back to stay with the family for a few more days. She feels very happy both physically and mentally. He holds his wife's hand in his left hand and says, Don't go, stay with me. That right hand quietly opens an online game, hoping to play until dawn. People are a compound of contradictions. On the one hand, they want to enjoy the convenience of marriage, but at the same time, they do not take any responsibility. Therefore, occasional separation is so precious. Before having a baby, I couldn't blame it on someone else's child because it was so cute. But after the baby is born, realize that babies are not only cute, but hateful.
The sacred part of school, which I sometimes think is less about the teaching of knowledge and more about the occasional chance for us middle-aged women to breathe. If you gave me thousands of dollars a month to be with my children 24 hours a day, then I think I would go crazy. The internet says that mothers who can afford it should be fully present with their children. And then I'm really embarrassed that I can't do it, I really can't. Children are not as naive as you think. We don't understand or dare to understand their world! As a greasy middle-aged woman, the best moments of my life are probably when my kids are in school and my husband is traveling. That's when I can still drive my minivan, hum a song, and stop and go, just as I did when I wasn't married, my eyes bright and implied.
Of course, there is no guarantee that this fall will be able to reach the male gods. But now that I suspect my eyes have turned into those of a blind fish, I can still electrify people, and that's a technicality. A middle-aged woman's peak moment is when she's childless, husbandless, housebound, free of life's chores, free to run wild and free to run wild.