In more than four years, he grew from a hungry newborn to a naive child. From babbling to reciting poems, from toddler to strutting, we are constantly making progress, growing and being surprised. In fact, in this process, I also learned a lot, enriched some knowledge, and opened a new chapter while becoming a grandparents.
Learned some knowledge about infant health care. For example, shortly after his birth, he often choked when drinking milk. I looked up the information and told my son and daughter-in-law that first, when he was hungry, give him a sip of warm water to relieve him, and then drink milk so that he wouldn't choke easily. And don't feed when you are full, don't feed when you are excited, and lie on your side with an angle when you hold it.
Another example is burping. When eating in a hurry or getting cold, he burps constantly, and it is very distressing and anxious to see his little face with his mouth open and trembling from time to time. Quickly check the information and find three tricks: straighten him up and pat him on the back, which can alleviate the occurrence of hiccups. Not yet. Pick him up first, and then gently scratch the soles of his feet to make him laugh and cry, so that the contraction of the diaphragm suddenly stops, thus stopping burping. You can also use brightly colored and noisy toys to Doby him and distract him from burping.
Learned some knowledge of children's psychology. For example, I found that children over one year old had a great time in front of us, not crying, not making trouble, being good, obedient, obedient. As long as her mother is off work or with her mother, she is completely different, spoiled and willful. What is the reason? Through consulting the information, I know that from my mother's mother, she is the closest person to him, and she is spoiled and willful in front of her mother. On the one hand, she gained a sense of security. Children, like adults, can let go of their inner burdens and show their true side in front of the people they trust most. The second is to highlight the sense of existence. Children's emotional expression is sincere and simple. Give the person you like a signal, make some noise, and let her pay more attention to herself. Knowing this, we should pay special attention to him, and his mother will not blame him too much, so that his young mind can enjoy comfort.
Learned some knowledge about children's behavior. For example, since he can sit, he is good at tearing paper, grabbing a piece of paper or toilet paper and tearing it until it is torn to pieces. I thought, how can he tear things? The data show that tearing paper belongs to the normal process of hand function development. At the age of 6 to 8 months, the sound of tearing paper with both hands and the joy of tearing it in half can interest the baby. In addition, when tearing paper, both wrists rotate forward and backward at the same time, and the happiness of trying to exercise with both hands belongs to the coordinated exercise and development process of both hands, hands and brain. Knowing this, we won't stop him, just watch him not to put anything in his mouth and don't make dangerous moves.
Another example is throwing things. From the meeting station, he likes to throw toys and picture books under the bed. He threw them in front and we picked them up from behind. According to the data, it is normal for babies to throw things in order to gain the ability of spatial orientation and position orientation. It is an inevitable phenomenon to judge the relationship between oneself and space by throwing objects. After understanding this, we will not reprimand or stop, but participate and guide together. Put a box in front, and throw all the thrown objects into the box to see who can throw them correctly. This not only makes him more interested in throwing things, knows how to store things, but also cultivates his close relationship with adults, turning throwing things into a very interesting game.
I learned some nursery rhymes and nursery rhymes. To coax children, we must use the rhythm, language and movements that children are willing to accept. So I recited 50 children's songs and nursery rhymes, and I could "shake, shake, shake to the Waipo Bridge. Grandma praised me for my good baby, a bag of sugar, a bag of fruit, a cake, and the baby smiled." When I was sitting on my lap, I sang, "Pull the saw, pull the saw, sing a big play in front of grandma, pick up my daughter, pick up my son-in-law, and go with you." When spring comes, you can sing "Spring is coming, spring is coming, the flowers are fragrant on the branches, the swallows in the beams are noisy, and the cattle and sheep are happy." When you see the moon, you can sing "The moon bends to the sky, the horns bend to both sides, the sickle bends to mow the grass, and the plow bends to plow the field." Naturally, he is always cooperative and cheerful.
In order to shape his good consciousness and standardized behavior, I recited the three-character classics and disciples' rules again.
I am particularly happy that he learned some songs of network celebrities with car music and square dance music, such as "Thank you for listening to me", "You smile so beautifully" and "Drunken Butterfly Change". He can sing, but I still don't understand, so I learned it in time. After more than two years, I have learned more than a dozen new songs, which are also fashionable.
Changed some bad habits. Adults' lives are sometimes wild and their manners are no longer so particular. Once, shortly after he went to kindergarten, I pointed to him and said something. He said to me very seriously: "Grandpa, the kindergarten teacher said not to point a finger at the child. That's impolite. You should put your five fingers together. This is like this. " Say it and demonstrate it. I was very moved when I saw it. From then on, I really changed the problem of pointing at people with one finger, and five fingers became a habit together. He often sings "stand and sit", correcting his sitting posture while correcting mine, which is both naive and beneficial.
The philosopher said, "Knowledge comes from practice." President Mao Zedong also said, "Learn from the war." In a few years, I understood that I learned to see my grandson by seeing my grandson. People must do what they learn, learn by doing and learn by doing. Like children, they have a strong curiosity and a strong thirst for knowledge. They are constantly good at discovering, thinking, solving and solving problems. There is no end to learning!
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