Why have you been a good wife and mother all your life, but you can't get along with your daughter-in-law

That's because she wasn't born to you. She grew up in another family. She has many habits that you don't like, and you also have many habits that she doesn't like. This is normal. You sincerely hope that you can handle the relationship with your daughter-in-law as well as the relationship between mother and daughter, but you can't do it after trying for a long time. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a history. Almost all families in China face this problem. The best solution is to find similarities. You love your son, and she loves your son. You will not hurt her subjectively, and she will not hurt you subjectively; You all want to build this home well. . . This is what you have in common. With this similarity, we need to find a way, and the suggestions are as follows:

1, mind your own business, don't take the initiative to intervene between your son and daughter-in-law, unless they take the initiative to ask for your advice, they won't participate. It's best not to look, listen and ask. You have to believe that they will take care of themselves.

As long as she still loves your son, that's enough. You should let it go from your heart. You should have your own life. In the morning, I pull the old man to dance square dance, watch TV series on the Internet and play mahjong at night. You should enjoy yourself after working hard for half your life.

It is best not to live with your son and daughter-in-law. They usually visit you once a week.

Do what you can for your grandchildren, and don't be forced if you can't. Have a chat with your little sister when you are free, but be careful not to talk about your daughter-in-law, but be an audience when others talk about you.

You can really do this, and you will have a brand-new feeling!