In the world of relationships, I believe that when some people and their partners reach the "marriage" stage, there will be a lot of conflicts. They may not be as passionate and patient as before. In the face of such a situation, some people will choose to settle, and some people hope that through the efforts of each other can change all this. So how do you keep your emotions fresh as you and your partner enter the "marriage" phase? These are four ways to wake you up!
Don't worry too much about trivialities, and don't get serious with your partner. Since two people have chosen to be together and are willing to be each other's partner, they need not only mutual respect and understanding, but also tolerance and understanding.
If you insist on being harsh to your other half because of some small things, he may not only think that you are a small person, but also think that everything he does is invisible to you.
This will, to some extent, discourage your significant other from living well with you, and at the same time, it will make the distance between you and your significant other longer and create a gap in your relationship. Learn to sympathize and create small surprises for each other. Generally speaking, middle-aged people usually appear in the marriage life of the "old couple" situation.
There was also a middle-aged helper who said that there was a lack of freshness and excitement between her and her husband. Even when she tried to spice up their relationship with little surprises, her husband refused. At the same time, she would be scolded by her husband, i.e., "It's an old woman. What are you doing with all these fancy things?"
The words chilled her heart and made her skeptical and uneasy about the marriage. She was afraid that her marriage would be boring and that more problems would arise between her and her husband as the novelty wore off, leading to the breakup of their marriage.
Many people may feel exaggerated when they read these words. But the truth is mostly true. After all, romance is also one of the most important factors in maintaining love for a long time, and so is marriage. You don't need to be romantic all the time, but you do need some "out of the blue" surprises.
Couples need to know how to relax. Being too tight or too loose is not the best way to maintain love. At this stage, partners need to trust and be loyal to each other. Some people may choose to seek solace outside of marriage to fill their need for freshness because of a decline in couple intimacy.
But such behavior is inherently wrong and extremely irresponsible for the marriage. Therefore, put down the incorrect ideas, cherish their pillows is the hard truth. Giving each other a sense of space and security in marriage is of utmost importance for both men and women. Doubt and skepticism is allowed, but also need to have a basis.
Lower your expectations of marriage. Upon entering into marriage, most people are full of expectations. Some of them will feel that with their marriage they will be the happiest people and have the most complete life.
But in this case, when the faggotry of real life breaks their beautiful expectations, they will argue with their partners because they can't accept it, making the couple centrifugal. So, you choose marriage and accept the many possibilities it brings you.
It is that it can bring you happiness as well as trouble and confusion. While the passion between you and your partner will turn into companionship as you enter the "being a companion" phase, even then you have to learn how to turn that companionship into the care and intimacy you need.
With the right approach, the "marriage" phase can be the beginning of another period of happiness for you and your partner.