In fact, this sentence applies to many occasions, such as in the team to play basketball, teammates are poor physical strength, leaving you alone is still energetic, if this time you are timid, then you do not dare to attack, even if they are still a bit of technology, but also will be played out of order, it may be worthwhile to use that line, in the inner motivation of their own, to themselves, said, afraid of, lose their lives, and so you take steps, and then you will not be able to use it, but you will be able to use it. Relying on yourself to take the championship for the team, just at this time you understand that fate is in their own hands, the key moment still have to rely on themselves, just like this key ball.
In society, many people's fate is unfair, from birth, some people are born with the golden key, but this is the fate of this thing is destined to make people elusive, there is a good saying: "life sometimes must be there, life is not the time not to be forced."
Destiny also loves to joke with us, let you see a lot of unfair, but also like Xue Zhiqian said: "Sometimes unfair is good, it will let you work harder." Xue Zhiqian in the past few years, but last year experienced Li Yutong after a fall, but Xue Zhiqian is not like the previous stars so quickly and others forget, just a few days ago the microblogging night, he proved himself with music, his life is also considered to be a big ups and downs, and rise again, but also proves that the fate is in their own hands, the key moment or rely on themselves.
If we feel more miserable than others because of the unfairness of fate, and to complain as well as light, then you may not have seen those who broke their hands and feet born with disabilities, they try to live the look, really very touching, but also admirable, although they are not a normal person, but more than the normal people live to be optimistic and positive, so that people can see that this is the destiny of this thing is to rely on their own to master, even if there is no help, but we still have their own, the person is not the only thing that can help us, but also to help us. We, but we also have their own, people in the face of life and death, will stimulate their own potential to obtain the ability to survive, that ability is to rely on their own.
The dancer without legs:
Dance is to use both feet to jump, a dancer performs in the body movement to the audience to convey their feelings, so people think that people without legs can not dance at all. But a weak young woman with a smile on her face always did, she is a dance teacher in Mianzhu, Sichuan Province, called Liao Zhi.
This is not a fantasy. In CCTV's "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala" program, no legs of the dancer Liao Zhi "stood" in the center of the stage, kneeling on the drum, she performed a dance called "inspired by. With red silk flying, Liao Zhi, who has lost both legs, used her mutilated body to spin and roll on a big drum, making all kinds of difficult dance moves. This is a shocking performance, the scene of thunderous applause, the audience are full of tears to see Liao Zhi this unforgettable dance performance. Several senior judges in the review of Liao Zhi's performance, one moved to tears, choked up words can not go on, which is a dancer without legs to bring people a great deal of emotion.
Liao Zhi is Hanwang Town, Mianzhu City, Sichuan Province, this is a dance teacher to teach students to dance. 2008 May 12 Wenchuan earthquake, Liao Zhi and their own ten-month-old daughter and mother-in-law were buried in the rubble, was buried twenty-six hours later, Liao Zhi was rescued, her daughter and mother-in-law but unfortunately killed. Liao Zhi survived, but the lower legs and feet below the knee were amputated, she became a disabled person in daily life away from the wheelchair, this year, she was just 24 years old.
A dancer who has always danced on stage suddenly lost her legs, a blow more cruel than the loss of life. However, just one month after the amputation, Liao Zhi, who was still lying in the hospital bed, danced on the hospital bed for the children to see in order to comfort the neighboring children who were recuperating from their injuries. She suddenly had the idea that she must continue her dancing career without her legs. It is this belief that has supported Liao Zhi until now, and has led to the brilliant achievements of a dancer without legs on the stage.
We have seen disabled actors with only one leg dancing, but rarely see people who have lost their legs can show off on the stage. To realize how difficult it is for a person without legs to dance, it is almost a miracle to achieve this goal. However, with the support and encouragement of many kind-hearted people, Liao Zhi finally stood on the stage of the benefit concert. That night, Liao Zhi and her partner performed the duo dance "Toward Hope". She wore a red dress and her male partner wore a white dance jacket, and the two danced wonderfully on the stage, and no one could tell that this beautiful girl's legs had been amputated. Some of the audience were puzzled by the fact that Liao Zhi's legs were in good condition. At this time, the music into the climax, Liao Zhi was dancing partner violently lifted over her head, she grabbed the right foot with both hands, removed a false leg and threw it on the ground, the red skirt folds are like blood, vertical down ride. At that moment, the whole audience was silent, a moment later, all the audience were sob, tears, they were touched by Liao Zhi's strong and unyielding spirit.
Liao Zhi's "Inspiration" is a huge success, behind these achievements, Liao Zhi for the dance of the suffering experienced, not ordinary people can imagine. Liao Zhi once said, after the Wenchuan earthquake this life and death disaster, she began to understand a word - cherish. If not for the earthquake, Liao Zhi would have had a beautiful family, a happy young mother, her daughter would be three years old now, and she would still be teaching students in the dance school. The terrible earthquake cost her everything, her loved ones, and the legs she used to dance. But Liao Zhi did not sink down, she cherished life, laugh at life, strong living, looking forward to their own another brilliant, this is her faith, she succeeded.
At this moment, no one denies that Liao Zhi, a dancer without legs, is the most beautiful woman in the world, and that she has used her small body to hold up a piece of the sky, which, in Liao Zhi's own words, means that "Sichuan is rising, and the disaster area is rising".
But God is actually fair, everyone has their own life as well as their own destiny, fate is also in their own hands, choose how to live is also to see their own, after all, life is not rehearsed. If we do not have good control of fate, even if God gave a chance, the key moment you will not go to rely on yourself, missed the key period, there is not so much opportunity.
There is no draft in life either:
A poor youth saw that his neighbors were living a rich life through hard work, and he was always looking forward to a happy life for himself.
The young man then complained about God's unfairness. God heard the young man's incessant complaints, and one day he came to the young man and said, "My son, in order to show that I'm fair, I'm going to give you a chance to choose, and you can make four wishes. I will help you fulfill them all. But child you must remember there are only four chances, if you have a new wish I will come back to see you!"
The youth was overwhelmed with joy inside as he listened. Think about their own so poor, old long wanted to have a house of their own, if you can then have a servant at their command would be even better. I will ask for a house and a servant first!
God smiled and nodded.
In a few moments, a luxurious house appeared in front of the young man, and in the large garden, the servant was bending down to trim the flowers and plants. The young youth had his own home and servants. In the next two months, the youth successively had a beautiful and lovely dainty wife and a house full of wealth, he was finally satisfied with his life. The servants will help to take care of everything in the house every day, and he himself will be accompanied by his beautiful wife every day, walking leisurely and enjoying a good life, without the need to make their own efforts to be able to feed and clothe themselves.
The young man had a serious illness a few years later, and was diagnosed by all the famous and not-so-famous doctors, but still did not get better. No one could find the cause of the illness, and there was no medicine. The young man's body was getting weaker and weaker day by day, but there was a belief that supported him, and he believed that God would appear again. However God did not appear in the end. After the torture of the disease, the young man left a sentence on his deathbed: God is actually fair, everyone has their own life, but there is no draft of life.
At first glance, everyone is a blank sheet of paper. On this blank paper, some people write happiness, some people write pain; some people write happiness, some people write sadness; some people seem to be casual, but the pen to the place can be a wonderful pen; some people cautiously hesitant pen, but found that the pen to the place is still far less than what they would like. When I was a child, I thought life was a draft, with a pencil, you can scribble, you can use the eraser to come back again, until you are satisfied.
There are many things that can be started over. Homework is not done, you can tear it off and start over; to go somewhere on the wrong road, you can turn around and walk through.
A spring is far away, we just need to wait for nine months can again bathe in the warm spring breeze, but the track of life can not, the pen has replaced the pencil in the hands of our childhood, we can not scribble. Every step, every do a thing ...... whether it is right, or wrong, will be drawn on this white paper on a heavy one. The process of life is actually the process of our pursuit of mental maturity, and the maturity of the mind is also a gradual process of culling, but life can not be like cooking, all the ingredients are ready to go down the pot, a table of delicious always coincidentally. Life, we must be very clear about what we need, what is most important to them. To learn to look back at the right time, otherwise always in pursuit, and do not know what they lost.
Life is not all multiple choice or right/wrong questions, most are application questions. A lot of what we think of as drafts is actually the answer sheet of life. Everyone understands that "white horse" is used to describe the passage of time quickly, but they always feel that there is still a long way to go, so they let the opportunity to lose again and again, wasted a good paper and a life. Therefore, what we can do is to grasp every opportunity, and successfully utilize every opportunity, so that the white paper of life will be gorgeous, can be full of fragrance. There is no draft of life, no longer because of the pain of tramping, no longer let the years wasted, missed the sun, do not miss the moon, rise up to catch up with the life is the most important ......
If you want to change their status quo, to jump out of their own do not like the circle of life, but also want to change their own destiny and life, then the key moment can not fall off the chain, to rely on their own efforts step by step out of their own future ....
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