Let couples become good 12 small habits
1. Household chores are not divided, together to complete
Couples treat the attitude of the housework, is to treat the temperature of the marriage, the feelings of the greatest sadness than to take for granted the individual's contribution to the family. Love is a verb, the action of love in the front, the feeling of love in the back, so you have to act to love each other first, in order to feel the love for each other.
2. Occasionally show weakness, leave the other side of the performance
The essence of weakness is actually a senior "emotional value", this emotional value can let the other side of the feeling of "be needed, be appreciated".
To give up the smallest thing to the lover, the marriage will be more a touch of tenderness.
Love is a need, and the occasional show of weakness is the most direct expression of the need for each other.
3. Hug each other every day
Pam Spahr said: "Hugs and kisses in the morning before going to work, so that people all day to recall", hugs can enhance the relationship. Studies have shown that hugging is more important than sex between partners.
4. Keep the desire to share
Happiness in life is not about having nothing to say, but about wanting to experience it with your loved ones every time the mood strikes.
Morning out to see the green trees and red flowers, hand shot, sent to the partner between the workplace barriers to order a cup of milk tea, happy, with the companion advocate to talk about surfing the Internet, see a funny paragraph, sent to the partner to laugh and laugh at the happy although small. At any time to connect, love will quietly love to become thick.
5. Do not turn over old scores
Some people say: "90% of the world's breakups, can be undone."
Most of the ones that can't be undone are because they like to rehash old scores and endlessly salvage sunk costs.
Don't lose the obsession, can't win happiness, can't let go of the past, can't open the future.
6. More praise each other
Many people will feel that "the more I praise the other half, the more he drifted", in fact, the real high-level praise is not to praise him to the sky, but to praise him home.
Remember the formula of this praise: specific events + praise of the advantages + their own feelings.
"Husband ~ you send me today this lipstick red color is so nice you eye is also too good right, I love it! More love for you today!"
7. Support hobbies, sincere encouragement
I like sports, will support me to have their own time to exercise;
You like to watch movies, I will accompany you to watch.
I like to travel, you will make time to go out with me to see the world.
You like to eat good food, and even though I yell about losing weight I'll still accompany you around to find good food.
True love is not stopping you from meeting a better version of yourself it's running together to the **** same future.
8. Treat your parents well, value your family
Small family matters, do not let the two sides of the old man involved, but life and know how to care for, filial piety to both parents.
Regularly take them to medical checkups, travel, have time to go home to see them more, accompanied by them to filial piety Guande, camping to teach their children.
9. Bedtime communication talk
Married, you and your lover are how to sleep?
Will you wait for him to fall asleep together? Or do you sleep back to back?
Or have you been sleeping in separate rooms?
Life is not the process of two people's wedding cigarettes, do not live into a one-person type of loneliness. Snuggle up with your lover, when you go to sleep, talk about the interesting things that happened during the day, and discuss the troubles that each of them encountered.
10. daily smile
More smile, will bring you good luck if you always board a face, that your week with are low pressure.
Wake up, wake up each other with the brightest smile, open after each other a good day. The first thing that you need to do is to get rid of the problem.
11. Give life more freshness
The secret of love is to add some freshness to life. If you have been promoted, invite your lover to the theater to watch a movie: if you have been praised, have a romantic candlelight dinner; if you have an anniversary, send your lover a gift.
When you feel that the couple's feelings ushered in the dull may wish to seize the nodes of life, add some fresh.
12. Stand in each other's position to think about the problem
Affections are all mutual, to warm the heart. We can not be too dry ego in getting along. Everything to stand each other's position to think.
Beautiful wedding cigarettes, from putting each other into the heart to start. Start from standing in each other's position to think about the problem.
Ending
Yang Jiang said:
"Life is half firewood, rice, oil and salt, and half stars.
Put a little salt. , it is into, put a little essence, it is sweet, want to mix into what flavor, all depends on oneself."
Marriage, by nature, is not something that is ready-made in life needs the **** same input from both husband and wife.
Deep words shallow words, long road slowly:walk people to middle age, although the youth has passed. But the heart is still warm, can still feel that happiness.
Business with the heart, the 12 small habits adhere to the start, the home into a can laugh, can cry, have a sense of belonging to the nest.