Father died unexpectedly when I was 20 years old, in order to be able to comfort my mother's feelings, I did a lot of ideological work with my sister, after a year of companionship mother also out of grief. I also got married with my sister later, my mother sent us to get married when they said that she would be the only one, my sister and I said, we will often come back, you are not alone.
After we got married, my sister and I started to go home every month to see my mother, and every time I went back, my mother was very happy, and I told my mother, "Why don't I get you to live in our house, and also take care of you," she said, "I don't want to stay at home by myself," and after mentioning it many times, I stopped. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to find a way to make it work.
This year, I brought my mother to my home for New Year's Eve, but she refused to agree, so I said, "You've done this in previous years, haven't you? I'm not sure if it's a good idea to go to my house or my sister's house for New Year's Eve. This year, why do you want to spend the New Year alone at home, so how lonely ah. Mother said I'm not lonely, there are next-door neighbors, together lively, have not been many years with the neighbors lively New Year's Eve, looking at the mother's insistence I did not say anything, just random mother, give her to buy a good New Year's Eve things, explaining a few words I went back to my husband's home.
New Year's Eve I let my five-year-old daughter called her mother to pay tribute to the New Year, in said two sentences, the mother hung up the phone, I did not think it strange, after a night of thought struggle, I really can not sit down, the next day I told my husband I want to go back to my mother's home to see how my mother did not come to New Year's Eve this year, my husband said that that would go back to look at it, and to pay tribute to New Year's Eve anyway, with my husband, we said good I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one," he said.
Entered the house, I looked at the table wrapped dumplings, and then look at the table sitting man I looked at my mother, my mother said, this is your Uncle Yang, this year to come over to stay with me for New Year's Eve, it turned out that my mother contacted one of her classmates through the cell phone this year, and learned that each other's partners have passed away, and each other have a good feeling about this year's Uncle Yang is not toil hard to come from the field to stay with my mother for the New Year's Eve, I said it is no wonder how I said no wonder how not to go home with me for New Year's Eve! It turned out to be someone to accompany her, my husband and I politely said hello to Uncle Yang by the way to ask about the family situation.
Uncle Yang told us that his family has two sons, are married, he himself has a house to live in, and now lacks a companion to old age, the main purpose of this time is to get to know us, and then there is to take my mother over, when I said to take my mother over I hesitated, and then look at my mother's eyes, and then look at my husband didn't say anything, I took my family and left! Mother's home, go home and sister through the gas, sister at first did not agree, think about the back of the mother all these years are a person quite lonely, although I live close to the two sisters, but the back of the companionship of the time is still too little, but also acquiesced to the mother remarried.
Listening to my sister also said so, Uncle Yang also often call to say, mother also looked for me a few times, finally I in order to not let my mother so sad, agreed to her far away from the marriage, I know that my mother married over there will be faced with a lot of bad problems over there, I have asked my mother, but also asked Uncle Yang, one said that he did not regret, one said that he will definitely be good to her, will not let her suffer, and will not let his family children to hurt his mother, and I will not let his family children to hurt my mother, and I will not let him to do so. Getting Uncle Yang's words, the mother went over on March 8, and at first we often videoed and called, and the mother told me everything was fine.
This time it happens to be my daughter's summer vacation, my sister because she is pregnant with a second child is inconvenient, I intend to take my daughter to see my mother, I didn't tell my mother in advance that I was going to go, I came to my mother's house where she lives now, and was frozen by the downstairs, and saw my mother dressed in sweeping coveralls in the distance, and thought to myself that my mother since she married my father has never done anything, and now married to Uncle Yang how to still work!
Mother's mother was not the only one, but she was the only one who had a good time.
Mother said I married to do something, can not let others gossip, after all, I was married here, even if you Yang uncle in my good, time will change, so in order to be able to this home is not looked down upon, I do what I can do, listening to my mother's words, I immediately empathize, because no matter how, we can not be idle, because some things are bound to change over time. Time will certainly change, so I am very much in favor of the mother so, let her take care of their own body, there are things to remember to say to us, don't aggravate yourself.