There is an old saying that "being smart is a mistake", and it is not necessarily a good thing for a woman to be too smart. In contrast, a woman who looks "dumb" is more likely to be favored by men.
It has been proved that men do not like than he is too smart too many women, often look more "stupid" woman, more men have the desire to protect, the heart of love.
So, if a woman is too smart in front of a man, most men will stay away from her.
Because in front of a woman who is too smart, where can a man show his strengths? Some of his caution and desperate attempts to hide things are also nowhere to be seen in front of a smart woman.
I believe that no man will like the feeling of frustration that everything is out of his control. It is only in front of those "stupid" women that he is able to show his manhood and be appreciated and boasted about.
The man's self-esteem and self-improvement will not allow a woman to be too smart and cover up his sharpness.
So, in the world of feelings, men will instead look for the "stupid" woman who can make him gain self-esteem and self-improvement.
So, what kind of "stupid" women are more likely to make men fall in love?
Jingzi and Zhou Liang are good friends since childhood, and have never quarreled over anything, and they even went to the same university.
They were the best of girlfriends, and thought that this relationship would last for the rest of their lives, as they made plans to travel together and go square dancing together when they got old.
But when they went to college, they fell in love with the same boy, who was called Liang Qin.
Both Jingzi and Zhou Liang didn't want to let go of Liang Qin, so the two made a pact saying, "It's a fair competition to see who Liang Qin falls in love with, and no matter who he falls in love with, the other party will have to back down and not make things difficult."
Shizuko was a competitive person, and because she was the president of the student council, she had developed a habit of accomplishing everything on her own.
While Zhou Liang was a gentle and quiet girl, looking soft and weak and at the mercy of others.
Both of them were on the offensive against Liang Qin, Jing Zi often used an overbearing and unreasonable method to force Liang Qin to take a walk with her on a date, and even sometimes made some small tactics that she thought were very clever to ask Liang Qin out.
Zhou Liang is a different way, after Liang Qin asked her out, she always looks clumsy, although Liang Qin always laughs at her, but every time will reach out to help her to deal with her those "clumsy" small things.
On this day, when Jingzi was walking with Liang Qin, Liang Qin said to Jingzi, "Don't ask me to take a walk with you again, I am now with Zhou Liang, and I am afraid that she will not be happy if I come out with you again.
Jing Zi was a bit sad and even angry and questioned, "Why would you choose Zhou Liang and not me, I organize things well every time and I don't need you to worry about it, why would you choose her and not me."
Liang Qin shook his head helplessly and said, "You know what? It's because you arranged everything, making me appear to have nothing to do and no use for me. And Zhou Liang is different, she needs me in many places, and it's in front of her that I feel like a capable man."
Jingzi suddenly realized that Liang Qin likes women who are a little bit "stupid", and who can make him feel his existence.
It turns out that it is really the "stupid" women who are more likely to make men fall in love.
So women, and men get along, don't show too smart, to know, this "stupid" woman, easier to let men love.
Need to help men, so that he has a sense of existence of the "stupid" woman men are self-esteem is very strong a kind of creatures, most men like to show that they are very capable of that side.
So, a stupid woman who can make a man feel that he is very powerful and needs his help all the time can easily catch his heart.
And, a soft woman makes a man more protective. In fact, weakness, in fact, is also a very smart woman a "stupid".
You know, it is because you are weak, men will think, how you so stupid, without him you do. Thus want to protect you, love you, care for you.
So, with men, why not do a weak "stupid" woman, how?
Outside to give enough face to men, do not tear down the stage of the "stupid" woman in fact, many men are so, at home, let you hit you scolded. But outside, the woman must give enough face to the man.
Because men have strong self-esteem, so in front of outsiders, a know how not to tear down the stage, at any time and his "stupid" woman, more so that he has a sense of pride, but also more appear to be his ability.
Such a knowledge of the situation of the "stupid" woman, outside, so that the man is very dignified, naturally, so that the man's heart is happy, more prone to love.
The things that hurt a man's self-esteem, see through the "stupid" woman a woman, naturally, to know what the man's heart wants, but also know how to comfort, to mediate the depressed mood of the man.
But some things, the woman is not able to go to interfere, you should do to see through not to break, give him time and space, let him go to adjust the mood.
So, at this time, you need this "stupid" woman, seemingly do not understand what he is going through, in fact, is to give him 100 percent of the trust and space.
Easy to let the man's heart "stupid woman", not really stupid, but she knows the mood of the man, in front of outsiders to give enough face to the man, in front of the things that hurt the man's self-esteem, shut up at the right time, do not give the man to increase the burden.
It has been proved that such a "stupid" woman is more likely to let the man be emotionally involved.
Men know that you know him, know that you need him, know that you are willing to make concessions for him, these reasons, enough to let a man on your heart pity, heart appreciation, and love you.