Now, there are too many such cases, and I don't need to cite them one by one. There are such daughters-in-law around us, who use their parents-in-law as nannies, and the elderly do not do well, but also suffer from the cold words of their daughters-in-law, who are criticized and disliked.
Since they have time to go out and play mahjong, but they can not take care of the children, for which I do not think much of such a daughter-in-law, or do not agree with her this way.
First, the elderly willingly do housework and take care of the children, not the same as a nanny in the family.
In real life, many old people, just for the son and daughter-in-law a little less labor, take the initiative to help them share housework and care for their grandchildren, in a way, is a kind of old people's thoughtfulness and care. For this, the young people can not think that the elderly must do these jobs, not to mention the elderly should not think that the elderly is a family nanny, all the work let the old people do, and when it does not go well, but also say something, so that the old people can not get down, the heart suffers from sulking.
Two, the elderly do not have the obligation and responsibility to help their daughter-in-law do housework and bring up children.
Elderly people come and go in the wind and rain, hard work all their lives, to bring up children, has been very difficult. Now that they are old and enjoying their twilight years, they are still allowed to do this and that all day long, even square dancing and walking have no time, some people's sons and daughters-in-law have to burn the old man three times a day, and the young people after work are either playing games or playing cell phones, and every day, the old man is too tired to straighten his back up. My home next to a cell phone store, couples all day in the store, no business when they play the phone, every day at noon to see more than 60 years old mother-in-law, send meals over, the mother-in-law opened four times the knife, walking is not stable, I heard that every day, but also to ride an electric car to send their grandchildren to school, it looks really let a person feel heartbroken.
Three, as the younger generation, do not want to enjoy, can not do housework and bring children, completely dumped to the elderly.
Now many of the burden on the elderly is not light, both to help the next generation of household chores, but also to send their grandchildren to school, in fact, people are old, hands and feet are not flexible, the child is best not to let the elderly with. First of all, most of the elderly are not able to tutor the child's learning, not conducive to improving the child's academic performance, and once again, the elderly transportation of children is not safe. Some elderly people ride electric bicycles, either unsteady or run red lights, prone to traffic accidents. Two months ago, I was in the neighborhood, there has been such a traffic accident, at noon after school, nearly 70-year-old grandfather riding an electric car carrying 12-year-old granddaughter ran a red light, resulting in the granddaughter killed under the bus wheel, when the child's mother arrived, a thousand words blame grandpa, but what's the use of it!
Elderly people help to bring up children is the sentiment, do not help to bring up children is this point. If you can, try to bring up your own, and if the situation really doesn't allow it, it's okay for the old man to help bring it up. But going to play mahjong and leaving the kids with the old man to do so I think is very unreasonable.
As a family, we should help each other out. There is no such thing as a nanny or a babysitter. The old man is still able to help bring up the child, as much as possible to help bring up. I hope these mahjong moms can stop. Pay more attention to their children, give children a healthy and happy childhood.