1, love is supreme
Putting love in the supreme position is the most common mistake college students make in falling in love, especially girls, but boys don't rule it out. They put love first and take love as the center in college life, and think that life is meaningless without love.
However, students with supreme love, have you forgotten your student status at the moment? As a student, the most basic thing is to concentrate on learning, so should college students. You can hold on to love, but if you lose the best opportunity to exercise yourself, you still fail. Only love and ability can be considered as success, so college students should pay attention to love and don't take it too seriously.
2. Unrequited love
The so-called secret love is also interpreted as the illusion of being loved or loving. Because of their curiosity and desire for love, college students in the hazy period of love always have all kinds of love fantasies when they are in contact with the opposite sex, thinking that the other party is interested in themselves, or often regard the normal communication between the two sides as a sign of the arrival of love.
On the other hand, men and women gradually fell in love in their communication, and have been fighting for each other's recognition ever since. But whether it is the loved one or the illusion of love, the ending is a kind of harm, which affects the life and study of college students.
3. Polygamy love
Polygamy can be seen everywhere in universities, and many college students are proud of it. After all, it is a victory of face and wisdom, but do you know that polygamous love brings you face and destroys your reputation at the same time? Tao Xingzhi once said: The wine of love is sweet and bitter. Two people drink enough manna, three people drink it, just like vinegar, many people drink it, which is poisonous. Love should be single-minded, and it will always be poisoned if you talk too much about love from multiple angles.
4, reckless love
Careless love is very common in universities, and many boys and girls fall in love rashly for various reasons. For example, boys and girls did not hesitate to agree when they were pursued because of their desire and expectation for love, or boys and girls happened to be lovelorn, fell in love because they were moved by people who suddenly appeared around to comfort them, and made a wrong decision to stimulate their ex-boyfriends and girls to lose their minds in anger. These indiscreet relationships didn't last long, and finally they were just a dream.
5, utilitarian love
Pursuing utilitarian love is the most common mistake college students make. Many students can't resist the temptation of money, or sell their bodies and feelings to compare, and exchange love for the money and reputation they need.
Love should be pure and happy, and develop into a lover on the basis of admiration and affection. Utilitarian love is just a game. When the game is over, love is over.